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35 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 22
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently), Gujarati (Somewhat), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a nice girl looking for a nice guy. Sounds simple but not easy. I smile and laugh a lot, am curious by nature--ask random questions and have been described as funny, intelligent, affectionate by friends.

Friendship+Chemistry=Love....that kinda thing is what I'm hoping to find at some point in life. We can just start with a fun date, good conversation, laughs and see where it goes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work= research (biomedical)
Hobbies= writing and painting
Fun= friends, cooking, movies, walks in the city, museums, dog park with my merry beagle..etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating, making friends, laughing at myself, telling funny stories, making people feel loved, hugs (I give awesome hugs)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most people tell me it's my smile--I'm almost always smiling
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This will give us something to talk about when we meet

A totally random list of favorite things: Freddie Mercury, Bach, Eric Clapton, long walks, beaches, good stories, sunflowers, napping with my dog, spicy food, sushi, Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert, Parks&Recreation, The Emperor Of All Maladies, Downfall, East is East, Nowhere in Africa.

I like Louis CK's stand-up A LOT :) In general, my idea of a good time is: movie night, sushi dinner, stand-up comedy, museums, concert or a play. I don't really drink and am not a party girl. If I have nothing to do, I will paint or cook or snuggle with my dog and watch a movie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can live without most material things but I could not survive for very long without love, learning, laughter, music, creativity and my peace of mind

Soap, shampoo, running water and clean clothes would also help! :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My research, art and writing, world affairs/current events, my loved ones, how can I make a difference, what more can I learn, what does my dog think of me, the future and other mostly happy thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not at a bar or club...but still having fun :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a lady in the street and wear a Minnie Mouse nightshirt to bed.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You won't do any of the following---this is all the stuff that has actually happened to me on OkC dates. Enjoy!

Thou shalt NOT....
Play a game where you guess my bra size on the first date
Call me baby, sweetie, honey in your very first message and then get hostile when I ask you not to and explain why
Arrive drunk, cry about your ex, throw up on the sidewalk and have me put you in a cab
Give me a lecture on why immigrants are bad for America
Try to turn me into a vegan on the first date
Slip under the table cloth during the first dinner date to see if my feet are good enough for your foot fetish
Tell me you don't typically find brown girls attractive but you made an exception...just for me!
After asking me about my dog, launch into a detailed narrative about how delicious the dog meat you ate on your trip to Indonesia was
Ask me why India is poor or why women are raped there
Get into a fight with the waiter
Text me photos of your penis. Women are not visual beings. Seeing your penis in a photo does nothing for me except make me block your number
Message me from oceans away asking if I want to just chat. No I don't want to just chat. I'm here to find someone I can meet and date. Not looking for a pen-pal.