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34 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:37am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently), Gujarati (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I would've preferred meeting people in person so they'd know me, see my smile, hear me talk or feel my warmth but as a professional it is not always easy to meet people in a social, informal setting. On here, I just write a brief description of myself and put up a few pictures which give a vague idea of my body type and facial symmetry. I say that I like art, music and creativity, that I love socializing, am intelligent, kind, loving, that I like going for long walks, cooking for people and that I am funny (sometimes unintentionally) and almost always smiling. But I honestly don't know what it is that will make a nice, kind, relatively sane and educated man look at my profile out of all the hundreds of profiles on here and send me a message----maybe my smile will do it or perhaps we will have stuff in common---so we could take this offline, give each other a chance, get to know each other and just have a good conversation without the pressure of having it lead to some Hollywood style perfect romance. We could start with friendship and a few good laughs and see where it goes.

If you don't have a profile picture or have not filled the details out, I will assume that you are not serious about dating and I will not respond to your messages. If you are not in the US or are looking for just a fling, I'm not your girl. I will probably ask questions about your profession, education and such basic details. Not coz I'm interviewing you but because I have come across so many guys on here who lie about their credentials, marital status, name it. I hope you understand that.

I cannot stand men who address me as cutie, sweetie, sexy, baby in like their first few interactions with me. One of my biggest pet peeves. Just FYI.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a biomedical researcher and a freelance science writer. I paint and dabble in creative writing as hobbies. I love what I do for a living but I like to take time out to relax and spend time with my loved ones.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, writing, my research, getting along with people, telling stories, keeping kids entertained, listening, keeping an open mind and laughing at myself
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This depends on who you are. Most people tell me it's my smile--I'm almost always smiling
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This will give us something to talk about when we meet

A totally random list of favorite things: Freddie Mercury, Bach, Eric Clapton, long walks, beaches, good stories, sunflowers, napping with my dog, spicy food, sushi, Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert, Parks&Recreation, The Emperor Of All Maladies, Downfall, East is East, Nowhere in Africa
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can live without most material things but I could not survive for very long without love, learning, laughter, music, creativity and my peace of mind

Soap, shampoo, running water and clean clothes would also help! :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
So much! My research, politics, art, what my dog thinks of me, new recipes....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not at a bar or club...but still having fun :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a lady in the street and wear a Minnie Mouse nightshirt to bed. I sound very bold and aggressive in my answers to OkC questions but that's mostly because I'm tactless and honest. I am actually old fashioned in some ways.
You should message me if
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You like my profile, like dogs, are not just looking for casual sex, and think we have stuff in common.

Here are some examples of bad messages :)

No photo=no response.