I would've preferred meeting people in person so they'd know me,
see my smile, hear me talk or feel my warmth but as a professional
it is not always easy to meet people in a social, informal setting.
On here, I just write a brief description of myself and put up a
few pictures which give a vague idea of my body type and facial
symmetry. I say that I like art, music and creativity, that I love
socializing, am intelligent, kind, loving, that I like going for
long walks, cooking for people and that I am funny (sometimes
unintentionally) and almost always smiling. But I honestly don't
know what it is that will make a nice, kind, relatively sane and
educated man look at my profile out of all the hundreds of profiles
on here and send me a message----maybe my smile will do it or
perhaps we will have stuff in common---so we could take this
offline, give each other a chance, get to know each other and just
have a good conversation without the pressure of having it lead to
some Hollywood style perfect romance. We could start with
friendship and a few good laughs and see where it goes.
If you don't have a profile picture or have not filled the details
out, I will assume that you are not serious about dating and I will
not respond to your messages. If you are not in the US or are
looking for just a fling, I'm not your girl.
I cannot stand men who call me cutie, sweetie, baby in like their
first few interactions with me. One of my biggest pet peeves. Just