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40 Santa Clarita, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:40am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A well traveled veteran and hard working true gentleman.

I'm not in the industry so no flakiness or airbrushed professional headshots. But there are some interesting and humorous links.

If you're not on the mobile app as you read click on the words in blue. They all work and are worth the time.

A smart career move brought me to So-Cal in 2009. Dates say my blend of Minnesota raised charm and chivalry is a refreshing change from how many others get too forward online.

I don't think The Women of LA are all the same. So stop assuming a veteran must be a staunch conservative, have PTSD or be broke. In my case none of the above

I spend free time on outdoor adventure, fitness, my two Horses, and my pup ฅʕ••ʔฅ. Like most guys I like things like my sportscar , fancy truck and my two motorcycles. But that's hardly unique and not my priority anyway.

Around LA girls with every demand but nothing to offer are just a dime a dozen Since I'm not just looking to get laid it's easy to pass up girls while I search for a real, capable breath taking woman

With all the "what the hell town is your ranch in?" It says Santa Clarita now. The nearest place people know.

After work its just 15 traffic free minutes until I hear welcome home whinnys at my house near horse trails with acres and facilities for my two horses. While many are stuck on the 405 I'm already in my hot tub done with both work and a horseback ride.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a successful career in aerospace. I was also serving part time in a National Guard Aviation unit until I got out in December 2014.

My start in the military was before 9-11 and since then I've been everywhere from a still smoking WTC @9-11. to Iraq and Afghanistan. Proud of my service but happy its behind me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at most things ending in 'manship like horsemanship, marksmanship and workmanship.

OK.. Wow.. After a 49 year old literally asked to "ride the manship" I really need to rewrite this..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Someone once thought I was the stunt rider in Yes Man. Sorry.. not my naked butt weaving through traffic..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A wide variety of music and here are some examples just click to play.

The Black Keys:Brantley Gilbert:Zack Brown Band:The Rolling Stones:Stevie Ray Vaughn:Awolnation

I know my way around my kitchen or to a good restaurant for Italian, sushi, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course my family and friends come first......
1. A Career that I love
2. Paying it forward.
3. Outdoors fun Fishing, hiking etc
4. Like any guy my vehicles.
5. A garage full of tools
6. My animals. Horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback dog .
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I've traveled the world and lived everywhere from NY to LA and many places in between. This area does have a lot going for it but when it comes to dating it's the shallowest scene yet.

About 20 a week write that I'm her dream man but it's doomed because over two miles is just too far away. Oh LA...

Apparently even when they find that rare combination of no kids, no drama and no bullshit in a fit package earning 100k and standing over 6ft tall... it's just not going to work if he's not at the door in a half hour or less like pizza delivery.

Silly me... instead of expecting the world to cater me I've driven to meet worthy dates everywhere from Santa Monica to San Juan Capistrano.

Hmm... I've deployed to Iraq then a few years later Afghanistan before I was wounded and flown home for surgery. If I'll do that merely for love of country what do you think I'd do for true love?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends. It is always a nice break from work or the warped egos and distorted aspirations found in online dating.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm practing my guitar and singing to play for fun at open mic at my favorite place.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My top ten...
1. Not one of The 7 Types of women you meet on OK Cupid
2. When it's time to schedule a date you don't get flaky
3. You don't consider veterans an automatic no.
4. You're one of the few not lying on your profile.
5 .You're actually not using pictures from four score and 50lbs ago
6. Not stupidly limited to only those who emailed you 1st.
7. Not 10 years older than me.
8. Not severely out of shape.
9. Don't mind dating someone more than 5 miles away. I'll drive.
10. can live more than 2 minutes from a mall or spa on horse property without complaining.