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40 Palmdale, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:59pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well traveled but Minnesota born and raised. A smart career move brought me to So-Cal 5 years ago.

I'm not in the industry so you won't find any professional headshots or extreme flakiness on my profile.

I live in and work my aerospace career up in the Antelope Valley. Before you LA smog breathers bash....realize here I was able to buy a house with acres and facilities for my two horses, near horse trails and while you're parked on the 405 I'm home after 15 traffic free minutes . Its so much better than when I commuted in from the SCV.

Dates say my blend of MN nice and chivalry is refreshing change from how many others get too forward online.

After trying ♫OK Cupid♫ off and on for 3 years it seems I'm one of the few not lying on my profile..

No need to lie trying to be everyones cup of unrealistically perfect tea online when in the real world women frequently think I'm their shot of tequila.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Since 2005 I've combined a successful civilian career with part time service in the reserves .

My start in the military was before 9-11 and since then I've been everywhere from a still smoking WTC @9-11. to Iraq and Afghanistan. I got out of the military reserves in December. Proud of my service but happy its behind me.

After finding a lot of happiness working with my own horses I decided to volunteer at a charity providing equestrian therapy for diabled children.

I spend free time on outdoor adventure, fitness, my Horses, my pup ฅʕ••ʔฅ, like most guys I like things like my car and motorcycle but that's hardly unique.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at most things ending in 'manship like horsemanship, marksmanship and workmanship. OK.. Wow.. After a 49 year old literally asked to "ride the manship" I really need to rewrite this..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Someone once thought I was the stunt rider in Yes Man. Sorry.. not my naked butt weaving through traffic..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A wide variety of music and here are some examples ready to play.

The Black Keys:Brantley Gilbert:Zack Brown Band:The Rolling Stones:Stevie Ray Vaughn:Awolnation

I know my way around my kitchen or to a good restaurant for Italian, sushi, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course my family and friends come first......
1. A Career that I love
2. Paying it forward.
3. Outdoors fun Fishing, hiking etc
4. Like any guy my vehicles.
5. A garage full of tools
6. My animals. Horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback dog .
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People either use the site like it's the official Californication FWB finder or LA's online trophy wife tryouts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends. It is always a nice break from work or the warped egos and distorted aspirations found in online dating.

My Friday nights are not typical. If yours are I can fix that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't think The Women of LA are all the same. So stop assuming a veteran must be a staunch conservative, have PTSD or be broke. In my case none of the above.

In early 2013 playing "dodge rocket" in Afghanistan led to getting flown stateside for surgery. I've been back to 100% and my civilian life/career for over a year now. In that year I have dated a lot but prefer to be in a great relationship which is hard to find in the LA area.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My top ten...
1. Not one of The 7 Types of women you meet on OK Cupid
2. When it's time to schedule a date you don't get flaky
3. You don't consider veterans an automatic no.
4. You're one of the few not lying on your profile.
5 .You're one of the few not using pictures from 5 years ago
6. Not stupidly limited to only those who emailed you 1st.
7. Not 10 years older than me.
8. Not severely out of shape.
9. Don't mind dating someone more than 5 miles away. I'll drive.
10. can live more than 2 minutes from a mall or spa on horse property without complaining.