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40 Santa Clarita, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This week in observance of Memorial day my second photo is from Afghanistan in 2012.

It's sad how most of LA thinks Memorial day is national pothead BBQ day.

I wasn't just a lowercase G.I. and have done quite well in my civilian career. Not like those "actors" with the headshots on here who wait tables and fold sweaters for a living.

If you're more concerned with simple things in life of actual value such as character, adventure and romance then great... I'll pay as little attention to your income as you do mine.

If income tops your list view the other photos for the Maserati, Ducati, dirt bike, F250 crewcab, house, horses and pedigreed dog. But if that's what makes you tick and you don't make as much just go away.

On a PC click the fun blue links like the OKCupid parody song

A Midwestern heart with a west coast tan. I'm looking California and feeling Minnesota.

Some genuine Midwest charm, honesty and chivalry should be a refreshing change from how many LA men act.

No kids but I want one or two and to be with their mom for over four decades like my parents. Even just one kid would be great. Most people with a bunch of kids aren't too bright anyway. We can have fun now and talk about making a smart kid or two much later on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a successfull career in aerospace, work out, spoil my two horses, my pup and maintain my 4br house on 3 acres.

I was also a military reservist with deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan where I received the purple heart. Last year I decided not to reenlist.

After a lot of "where the hell is your ranch?" I changed it to Santa Clarita, the nearest place people know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Most things ending in 'manship, horsemanship, marksmanship and workmanship
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Not from here are you?" ... After something second nature to me but nicer than people expect.

"Were you Jim Carey's motorcycle stunt double in Yes Man?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A wide variety of music on a PC just click to play.

The Black Keys: Brantley Gilbert: Zack Brown Band: The Rolling Stones: The Heavy: Stevie Ray Vaughn: Awolnation

A food network junkie who knows his way around the kitchen or to a good restaurant for Italian, sushi, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course my family and friends come first......
1. A Career that I love
2. Paying it forward.
3. Outdoors fun fishing, hiking, riding etc
4. A garage full of tools and vehicles.
5. My fur babies. 2 horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback dog
6. Lucchese Boots
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
LA is great for serial daters but bad for relationships. After traveling the world and living across the states from NY to LA. LA has the shallowest dating pool.

When I used to go on extended trips out of So-Cal for work I dated a pilates studio owner, a PHD in pharmacology and someone in both that state's Miss America pageant and the USAF. LA seriously has me considering vacationing elsewhere just to date better.

One of the symptoms of LA dating is complaints that 10 miles is too far.

So even with no kids, no momma drama, no bullshit, an education and a career all in a fit package over 6ft tall with a desire to fall in love not just bang.

it's only enough if I'm there in a half hour or less like pizza delivery. If you just want an easy order of "big sausage pizza" use Tinder.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Off every other Friday, off an hour earlier on working Fridays and off weekends. So 50% of the time Thursday is my Friday.

Regardless of what day is "Friday" it could be a new adventure with friends or just at home to ride my horses, cook something epic and sip a drink in my hot tub.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was in Afghanistan I was wounded but nothing that wouldn't heal. I've got better things to do than shoot flexing selfies in the mirror but I have been working out hard. The 6 pack is back and I'm getting close to the shape I was in overseas where there was nothing to do but work or workout.

I'm divorced, my first and her second. Sometimes even after the kind of treatment that made all her GF's jealous they get inconsiderate and only appreciate how good she had it after I'm gone for good.

So these days I'll get the door, pay for dinner and other date expenses without a single gripe or acting entitled to anything.. However if you can't live within your means and are dating to make up for it then the speed at which I ditch your ass is Mach 3+
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Guys have to make the first move so if I've messaged you OR If you're the rare type to make the first move with a job, an education, a desire to have children and you atleast try to stay fit.

Any chick can seek entertainment in collecting likes, emails and instagram followers while she sits on her ass waiting for Mr Perfect to email. 1,000's of chicks up to that on here around LA... Boring..

When I do get an unsolicited message from a woman who fits my general guidelines I love it. She just might have the kind of guts and ambition to be my equal, keep up with, and enjoy a hard charging SOB like me.

Also don't bother me if you're just using the site like LA's trophy wife auditions or only horny using it as the official Californication f-buddy finder. Both are a dime a dozen disqualifiers.