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BonjourMer

25 / F / Bisexual / Seeing someone

Louisville, Kentucky

Her Details

Last Online
Mar 10
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
-I would really love some new friends to hang out with! So if you are ever bored and need someone to talk to--feel free to message me! Just so ya know...just as friends...nothing else, I'm in a committed relationship.-

Self-summaries are lame. My feelings and emotions change on a whim and therefore I feel a summary could never do me (or you) any true justice to my personality. However...considering this is a networking/dating website I should cheapen myself at least a little bit. Have fun categorizing me!

I am very shy and modest for the most part. Depending on my mood, my environment, the people I am with, I can be very talkative or very quiet. When I am forced to withstand large groups of people (...say, at a bar or party) I am always quiet and withdrawn. The truth is though, no matter how quiet you think I am, I actually thrive on "open book" and honest relationships. Because, you know I don't let my social anxieties determine the communication (or lack thereof) in my relationships. I know it sounds horrific to have someone who knows every little tidbit of information about your past, present and future, but believe me this is the kind of courtship everybody should want to have. It just doesn't make any sense to horde secrets from someone who claims to love you just the way you are.

I like new adventures and new surroundings. I'm sort of dreamy and floaty in the way any naive pre-adolescence kid is, but active in the sense that I realize that I can achieve whatever I want if I put my mind to it. My ambitions have a high turnover rate, so I start new projects that I have no prior knowledge of often. I just hope for the sake of my happiness that my garden does alright next spring!

I crave knowledge, interaction, someone who doesn't mind teaching me a few things. I like evolving- emotionally, intellectually, logically, physically, I want someone who can give something to me that I would have never been able to give to myself. I need an epiphany. And I also need to stop going on about myself...blagh....

I am observant, empathetic, and blah
What I’m doing with my life
I am learning. Chances are in 5,10,15,20,25,30 years I will answer this the same way.

I guess more specifically at this time in my life I am trying to figure out how I can make my life more independent since I am still fairly young. I don't have a career yet, and honestly I am not sure if I have the balls to risk my happiness on a career that I think I might want to do. Ideally I guess I would like to resign from the whole committing and involving myself with societies demands of me being successful and instead throw more valuable and life sustaining skills into something like a commune. And of course live there happily ever after. Unfortunately this is one thing I feel that will never be accomplished for me and I will have to resort to getting my Library of Science degree at U of K. So my fate has been pre-determined for me to become a bitter old maid who houses a huge quantity of cats and maybe a rabbit or two.
I’m really good at
learning new skills, and retaining information that is only important to me. I am also really good at inferring things from what other people say. It will most likely hurt me in the long run, but it seems to be a great security method for me--as well as being quiet.

I am also really good at playing Final Fantasy VIII and Harvest Moon. Final Fantasy, along with the internet is a curse on society.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am not positively sure on this one. I'm gonna have to say clothes...I mean it is the first thing people will probably spot. Unless I was naked, in which case...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh the media section! Yay! Just assume that I read, watch, listen, and eat everything and we'll be alright. Haha. That would totally be half-assing this section, but it's semi true. I am not against reading, watching...blah, blah, blah anything for a little while. After the preview anything can happen though. As for food, I am really fond of Thai and Indian.

My favorite book in the whole universe would probably be The Little Prince, by Antoine De Saint Exupery. Favorites include The Portrait of Dorian Grey by Oscar Wilde, Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden, Ender's Game by Orsen Scott Card, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams and High Fidelity by Nick Hornby. I haven't been reading a whole lot lately, but I do hope there are many more to put down here in the future. On a side note I also like poetry from Edward Estelin Cummings and Rainer Maria Rilke.

As for movies...there are almost too many to name. I really like Amelie, Children of Men, Pan's Labyrinth, The Labyrinth (It has David Bowie in it, come on!), A Little Princess, Heavenly Creatures, Pride and Prejudice, Edward Scissorhands, A Very Long Engagement, King Kong, The Virgin Suicides, Howl's Moving Castle...actually anything by Miyazaki, Tim Burton, and Peter Jackson, and I am sure there are many more that have suddenly slipped my mind at this moment. I also have this thing where I try my hardest to find movies that I use to watch when I was a kid like...the Tiny Toons: How I Spent my Summer Vacation special or Duck Tales: Treasure of the Lost Lamp. I am just nostalgic I suppose.

I am sort of picky about music. I have fortunatly discovered a new radio station that I adore, but I can't recall It's radio address. I know it's listener supported though. I have weird taste in music. I don't mind, you shouldn't either. My favorite artist include Neutral Milk Hotel, Pinback, The Decemberists, The Postal Service, Ben Folds, Of Montreal...I more so like more songs than I do artists though. I listen to a lot of 90's alternative too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to improve myself, or rather become a better human being. And also fun stuff like board games, movies and hanging out. ; D
On a typical Friday night I am
working, unfortunately. I work nights, Monday through Friday at UPS.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love you, unconditionally.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you're Nobuo Uematsu OR Mr. Darcy OR Scarlett Johanson OR someone that would make a great friend!