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47 Champaign, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:26am
Sapiosexual, Pansexual
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
EDIT 11/19/2015: I am not currently interested in obtaining any more partners of any kind. If we are not currently in a conversation, then any attempt to contact me will be met with a polite cookie cutter copy-paste, no matter how interesting/compatible I think you might be. If we're currently in a conversation, and I haven't expressed an interest in exchanging contact information, meeting, etc., then I'll likely explain that ii don't wish to pursue anything further. Yes, it might be easier to delete my profile, but I might be interested again in the future, and it takes time to fill out all those questions and whatnot, and I don't want to lose them. Thank you.

Just your basic weirdo on a dating site, who couldn't really care less if I get any dates. Most of the conversations have been interesting in some form or another, though. Meeting new people in any medium is just about always fun, regardless of what ends up happening.

I'm rather frustrated with OKCupid's questions. Just because I'll accept any answer on a question from a potential partner does NOT mean the question/issue itself is irrelevant to me. It simply means I have an open mind, and don't insist that everyone I interact with have the same outlook as myself. The romance of a kiss in Paris vs. a kiss in a tent in the woods depends greatly on who I'm with... and the weather. Do I believe in God? Depends on how one defines "God" (or "god", for that matter...).

Apparently OKCupid defaults one's status to "Available" if one is looking for dates. To clarify, however, I'm very happily married, in an open relationship. My husband will always have top priority in my life, so keep that in mind.

In related news, my husband has an OKCupid profile, and I find it amusing that OKCupid rates us as: 66% Match 47% Friend 33% Enemy.

EDIT 05/07/2014: Apparently, OKCupid has filters now. I hate this idea. Granted, I toyed with maybe setting up one for % match, but the percent I'd set it at would have ruled out my husband right off the bat. It also means that any message that is sent to me has the potential of never being seen by me. It takes away my own power to judge for myself. I find that insulting. I also dislike that someone might message me (or anyone else), and never even get the courtesy of a reply, even if the reply is "Thank you, but I'm not interested." or even "That was an incredibly rude way to approach a person. Not only am I not interested, but you might want to re-think your approach to others in the future." Everyone deserves a hello, and not to have their message floating around the ether unanswered.

EDIT 02/03/2015: Just found out you can set your orientation to pansexual and sapiosexual. w00t! Also, I'm displeased with the dropdown choices for drugs and drinking. I drink more "sometimes" than "rarely", and I'd classify my drug use as "rare", if that. I hate to put none, 'cause that would mean, to me, that I've never touched any illegal drug, ever, which isn't true, either. *shrug*
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a full-time job, a part-time job, and I'm also taking classes. I try to fit a social life in there somewhere, but scheduling is a bitch.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm fat.

That's not meant to be self-deprecating. It's just that you'd kinda hafta be blind not to notice. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - controversial history; Laurell K. Hamilton; new and/or controversial science; George R. R. Martin; "fluff"... whatever strikes my fancy at the time

Movies - Contact, Love Actually, The Princess Bride, American Beauty, Dogma, Se7en

Music - prefer rock/alternative, but like most

Foods - local
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
One can pretty much learn to live without anything except food/water and shelter/clothing (depending on the climate). Everything else is superfluous. That being said, my life would be very different, and very much LESS without my husband, my cats, my friends, my family, and my connection to the Universe. I'm also terribly fond of sustainable just-about-anything, the internet, sex, a clean house, and financial security - whether or not I have any or all of those things at any given time is questionable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my own motivations and evolution.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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*shrug* Ask me a question. I'm not a very private person.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. don't mind taking a long time to get to know me first, and you can deal with my insane schedule. :)