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BookOfMirrors

45 F Champaign, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:51am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Just your basic weirdo on a dating site, who couldn't really care less if I get any dates. Most of the conversations have been interesting in some form or another, though. Meeting new people in any medium is just about always fun, regardless of what ends up happening.

I'm rather frustrated with OKCupid's questions. Just because I'll accept any answer on a question from a potential partner does NOT mean the question/issue itself is irrelevant to me. It simply means I have an open mind, and don't insist that everyone I interact with have the same outlook as myself. The romance of a kiss in Paris vs. a kiss in a tent in the woods depends greatly on who I'm with... and the weather. Do I believe in God? Depends on how one defines "God" (or "god", for that matter...).

Apparently OKCupid defaults one's status to "Available" if one is looking for dates. To clarify, however, I'm very happily married, in an open relationship. My husband will always have top priority in my life, so keep that in mind.

In related news, my husband has an OKCupid profile, and I find it amusing that OKCupid rates us as: 66% Match 47% Friend 33% Enemy.
What I’m doing with my life
I work a full-time job, a part-time job, and I'm also taking classes. I try to fit a social life in there somewhere, but scheduling is a bitch.
I’m really good at
reading people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm fat.

That's not meant to be self-deprecating. It's just that you'd kinda hafta be blind not to notice. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - controversial history; Laurell K. Hamilton; new and/or controversial science; George R. R. Martin; "fluff"... whatever strikes my fancy at the time

Movies - Contact, Love Actually, The Princess Bride, American Beauty, Dogma, Se7en

Music - prefer rock/alternative, but like most

Foods - local
The six things I could never do without
One can pretty much learn to live without anything except food/water and shelter/clothing (depending on the climate). Everything else is superfluous. That being said, my life would be very different, and very much LESS without my husband, my cats, my friends, my family, and my connection to the Universe. I'm also terribly fond of sustainable just-about-anything, the internet, sex, a clean house, and financial security - whether or not I have any or all of those things at any given time is questionable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my own motivations and evolution.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
*shrug* Ask me a question. I'm not a very private person.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...you don't mind taking a long time to get to know me first, and you can deal with my insane schedule. :)