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31 M Rochester, NY

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Yesterday – 6:58am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My feet may be on the ground, but my head is way up in the clouds. I get to walk with giants every day, and I wouldn't have it any other way. In the immortal words of Descartes, "The reading of all good books is like having conversations with the great minds of past centuries," and my role is ensuring that those conversations continue. As a librarian, a graduate student, and simply an avid reader, the book has a way of defining my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a grad student in library science, an employee at two area libraries, and singing for a band for the first time.

It's a lot, but I manage my time well. In fact, I have an opening for a companion to join me in this life; that's why I'm here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Showing compassion.
MacGuyvering old sound systems and cars back to life.
Cooking the best sauce you've ever had.
Finding obscure books like it was my job...wait, it is!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My bright blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: To Kill A Mockingbird, The Stars My Destination, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Kindred, A People's History of the United States

MOVIES: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Very Long Engagement, Lost in Translation, Everything is Illuminated, 500 Days of Summer and Pan's Labyrinth. Anything from Kevin Smith's warped mind is guaranteed to make me laugh.

MUSIC: Josquin, Monteverdi, Mozart Schumann, Wolf, Debussy, Ravel, Poulenc, Vaughan Williams, Copland, Rorem and Schnittke all amaze me. Snapcase, After Forever and Opeth are my all-time favorite bands.

FOOD: Dinosaur BBQ, Sticky Lips, Tahou's, wash it down with something from High Falls or CBC. I love Italian, real Mexican, and Indian. Sushi - tuna are afraid of me! Fresh lobster off the docks in Newport.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
New music.
Books - lots of them!

That's all.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of life, the universe and everything.

Also, 42.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying life!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Attempting to tickle me can be hazardous to your health.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're awesome and like meeting other awesome people!

Museums, libraries and concert halls are places you consider "fun" rather than just "educational."