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55 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am an independent, casual, smart woman who enjoys the life I've created for myself. I've always worked with the public and love it. Being pretty energetic, I like the outdoors and love hiking the regional parks in our area. In the winter I like to ice skate. In the summer, it's all about the garden and road trips to explore new places. I am creative and pursue a lot of hobbies in that direction (photography, travel, knitting, collaging, gardening, occasional French lessons). I am trying to cruise through middle age with grace, looking back at where I've been but also looking forward with hope and anticipation for good things ahead.
What I’m doing with my life
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Loving my job as a history librarian. It's always interesting work that puts me in touch with historians, scholars, architects, city planners, and students from all levels. So, I learn something new everyday, and get paid to pass it on! I think that's incredible!
And more generally, I'm trying to actualize the world I want to live in: be a good citizen, be a good friend, put something positive in the world as often as possible.
I’m really good at
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writing, traveling, gardening, hiking, public speaking, meeting new people, and trying new things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am friendly. I'm a talker. I like to tell stories and make people laugh!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favorite movies: The Lives of Others, Shakespeare in Love, Hitchcock's Notorious, Holiday (Cary & Kate!), Wait Until Dark, Dirty Pretty Things, Amelie

Some of my favorite reads: James Baldwin, Louise Erdrich, Pete Hamill, Bill Bryson, Michael Ondaatje, Alice Munro

Favorite Foods: Thai, Mexican, Mediterranean (Greek, Italian, North African), Middle Eastern
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good friends, something to write with, something to read, a nearby trail, apples, and vacation days.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how easy it really is to get unemployed people working and hungry people fed if we ditched the politics and bureaucracies that impede us.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
looking for good friends to hang out with or catching a good movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was on a championship kickball team in 5th grade.
You should message me if
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you're emotionally, not just physically, available. I am looking for someone who can bring quality to my life, to enrich it with true friendship, honesty, loyalty, a good sense of humor (about themselves and the world around them), and fun!