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31 M Philadelphia, PA

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  • Ages 25–35
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Today – 10:55am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Working on masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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I work in an art museum, which suits me well because I like art and I like museums. I want to move into exhibition design, so I'm heading back to school to study that. When not cramming my brain full of that stuff, I might be reading in the park or copping style tips from ADA Jack McCoy or eating happy hour tacos with friends. Or maybe I'm pinballing around New York for the weekend. Sometimes, though, I'm just going for a walk. I walk almost everywhere, in almost any weather. Walking somehow magically clears my head and helps me think at the same time. Can walking be something one "does with his life", though? I'm not sure. We're veering dangerously close to "long walks on the beach" territory here, though.

UPDATE: I finally plunked down some cash for an Awesome New Bike, and now I just want to ride it everywhere. I still totally like walking around-- walking and I are just taking a little break.
I’m really good at
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derailing my own train of thought. See above.

I'm really good at puzzles and word games. I like to construct crossword puzzles for fun. Sometimes they end up getting published, but not very often. Next challenge: Rubik's cube.

My preternatural sense of direction, curatorial prowess with mixtapes, and cast iron bladder are the stuff of road trip legend. Recent expeditions include Marfa/Big Bend/Rio Grande and Memphis/North Mississippi/Dollywood.

I also excel at staring contests. I adopted a couple of cats last year, and this is one of their favorite activities. We like to put on ambient drone albums and test our mettle. It's a version of meditation, I guess. And while I'm on the subject: Bindi has discovered the warmth of my laptop keyboard, so if you get a message from me that reads something like "aaaa433333333333faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa", she's the likely culprit.

And I can sing like Stephin Merritt when I'm in the shower.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Being clean-shaven for the first time in five or so years is the first thing that people who know me have noticed. Otherwise it's usually something along the lines of "you got a piece of lettuce in your teeth". Having a big smile gets that kind of thing noticed more often, I suppose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In lieu of a Favorites list,

Last Good Book I Read: The Stories of Breece D'J Pancake
Last Good Movie I Watched: M*A*S*H (for ~the millionth time)
Last Good TV Show I Watched: Law & Order
Last Good Album I Listened To: The Kink Kontroversy
Last Good Meal I Ate: ddeokbokki and galbitang @ Koreana
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- auto bill pay
- The Best Show on WFMU (RIP, we'll always have the archives)
- this one Youtube of a young Stevie Nicks getting her makeup done backstage and absolutely ripping through an early demo of "Wild Heart"
- the way my dad's West Virginia accent creeps back into his voice whenever he gets really worked up
- Scottish showers
- the occasional long weekend back in Pittsburgh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what my cats are doing when I'm not home. I've allowed for the storylines to become more and more elaborate, although a lot of the time it's just something simple like they're smoking cigarettes in my apartment and they have to find a way to cover up the big burn mark they left on the couch.

Also my coworker and I are trying to organize a softball team to compete in the local museum league, and I'm almost certain I'm thinking way too much about the batting order.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
looking for a bottle opener and trying desperately to understand why Netflix keeps insisting I watch "The Wedding Planner".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a 31 year old man and I have three different sets of wooden blocks in my apartment. Four if you count Jenga.