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25 Kokomo, IN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 16
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Coffee addict. Wiseass. Bookworm. Cat owner. Introvert.

Hard to get to know because I make an effort to stay closed off and withdrawn with most people and I'm fucking atrocious at meeting new people.

Tend not to renew leases and keep finding excuses to move. I spent a year in North Dakota that I don't regret but absolutely refuse to repeat. Very much enjoy a job that lets me change my scenery regularly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working. Planning for the future. Paying off my car, considering going back to school, planning on how and where I'm going to be doing those things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can be disgustingly persuasive when I want to be.

I enjoy writing.

The absolute best part of any job that I've ever had has always been the moments where my boss goes "Ok here's the problem. This is what I need. Make it happen." Problem solving. Exercising my creativity and resourcefulness. I love it.

And I give REALLY good massages. Seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I tend to generate either a distinctly positive or negative reaction with very little middle ground. I suspect it's largely because I'm not really good at small talk or like...basic conventions of 'politeness,' especially here in the Midwest.

The whole 'Hi how's it going how are you?' game where neither of us really gives a shit but we're still supposed to say 'Good, you?' or 'You know, livin' the dream' or something else equally inane is just tiresome and I tend to brush it off or ignore it entirely. Makes it easy for me to get dismissed as just another asshole.

I mean. I AM an asshole, granted. But still.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The right music can make my whole body ache with the simple joy of it. Concerts and music festivals are absolutely amazing. There's nothing quite like the raw energy of thousands of peoples' hearts beating to the same rhythm, their feet pounding the ground with the music as you watch every one of them start jumping to the beat. The first time I went to a music festival I think is also the first time I really understood why people get so into religion.

Music - almost anything. I'll get on a kick of one song or genre and listen to it nonstop for a week. Then I'll find something new. But easily my two favorites are Shinedown and Rise Against. But I'll swap from top 40 pop to country to coffeehouse acoustic stuff and everything in between and back at the drop of a hat.

I like to read when I have a book to read. I have a seriously obsessive personality, so when I find a book or TV show I like I'll dive into it and burn through it in a few hours or days.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet access, coffee and a working car. That's honestly about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex and how it influences decisions and motivations and people.
Why society is so hung up on sexual monogamy.
My own motivations.
The distribution of power in relationships.
Why I'm so, so bad at things like small talk, making friends, and generally 'being in public.'
How much I want to cover myself in tattoos as soon as I decide what to actually get.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've had Taylor Swift's 'Blank Space' on repeat for like two days and I refuse to apologize for it.
You should message me if
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I'm not interested in hate, intolerance, or willful ignorance. Homophobia, racism and claims that evolution shouldn't be taught in schools are all major dealbreakers.

Intelligence, rationality and independence, on the other hand, are all things I find incredibly attractive. I'm looking for a woman capable of thinking and functioning for herself, not a 'better half.'