Hard to get to know because I make an effort to stay closed off and withdrawn with most people and I'm fucking atrocious at meeting new people.
Tend not to renew leases and keep finding excuses to move. I spent a year in North Dakota that I don't regret but absolutely refuse to repeat. Very much enjoy a job that lets me change my scenery regularly.
Work keeps me busy and I'm trying to work on my own discipline [something that never really came naturally to me] in my spare time.
I enjoy writing.
The absolute best part of any job that I've ever had has always been the moments where my boss goes "Ok here's the problem. This is what I need. Make it happen." Problem solving. Exercising my creativity and resourcefulness. I love it.
And I give REALLY good massages. Seriously.
"You should've asked for a refund on that haircut."
Or the always classy "Your hair is stupid."
Whatever. I like it, I'm not changing it until I want to.
Music - almost anything. I'll get on a kick of one song or genre and listen to it nonstop for a week. Then I'll find something new. But easily my two favorites are Shinedown and Rise Against. But I'll swap from top 40 pop to country to coffeehouse acoustic stuff and everything in between and back at the drop of a hat.
I like to read when I have a book to read. I have a seriously obsessive personality, so when I find a book or TV show I like I'll dive into it and burn through it in a few hours or days.
Sex and how it influences decisions and motivations and people.
Why society is so hung up on sexual monogamy.
My own motivations.
The distribution of power in relationships.
Why I'm so, so bad at things like small talk, making friends, and generally 'being in public.'
How much I want to cover myself in tattoos as soon as I decide what to actually get.
Intelligence, rationality and independence, on the other hand, are all things I find incredibly attractive. I'm looking for a woman capable of thinking and functioning for herself, not a 'better half.'