Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am made of steel and storms.
I live for the moments in my life that make the best stories.
I love to read. I love to write [though I don't write as often as I
The right music can make my whole body ache with the simple joy of
it. Concerts and music festivals are absolutely amazing. There's
nothing quite like the raw energy of thousands of peoples' hearts
beating to the same rhythm, their feet pounding the ground with the
music as you watch every one of them start jumping to the beat. The
first time I went to a music festival I think is also the first
time I really understood why people get so into religion.
I chose my username because I've moved at least once a year for
years and I have no intention to stop. New places, new faces, new
challenges...I enjoy it thoroughly. My job gives me the opportunity
to up and move constantly. I just spent a year in Dickinson, North
Dakota and am just now coming back to Indiana.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For someone that moves as much as I do, I live a considerable
amount of my life either at work or in front of my computer. My
friends and family are much easier to keep in touch with
Plus like...Steam is a thing. Come on.
Learning new things because the day I stop learning, I might as
well be dead.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can be disgustingly persuasive when I want to be.
I enjoy writing.
The absolute best part of any job that I've ever had has always
been the moments where my boss goes "Ok here's the problem. This is
what I need. Make it happen." Problem solving. Exercising my
creativity and resourcefulness. I love it.
And I give REALLY good massages. Seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm atrocious at small talk. I mean...I'm perfectly capable of
conversation, but the bullshit 'Hi how are you' type garbage that
no one ever actually listens to the answer to is rough.
Also I suffer from a serious medical condition where I constantly
look angry about something. That's just my face, I'm really not all
that mad [or...you know...at all mad, but whatever] and am probably
deep in thought about something totally unrelated, I swear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like to read when I have a book to read. I have a seriously
obsessive personality, so when I find a book or TV show I like I'll
dive into it and burn through it in a few hours or days.
Music - almost anything. I'll get on a kick of one song or genre
and listen to it nonstop for a week. Then I'll find something new.
But easily my two favorites are Shinedown and Rise Against. But
I'll swap from top 40 pop to country to coffeehouse acoustic stuff
and everything in between and back at the drop of a hat.
I absolutely love concerts.
Oh. And Steam. Steam is a problem. Steam makes my wallet unhappy.
But it makes me happy. So...balance? Whatever, the point is Mass
Effect is fucking awesome. So is Bioshock. And The Arkham series.
And Assassin's Creed. You get the idea.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet access, coffee and a working car. That's honestly about
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex and how it influences decisions and motivations and
Why society is so hung up on sexual monogamy.
My own motivations.
The distribution of power in relationships.
Why I'm so, so bad at things like small talk, making friends, and
generally 'being in public.'
How much I want to cover myself in tattoos as soon as I decide what
to actually get.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've had Taylor Swift's 'Blank Space' on repeat for like two days
and I refuse to apologize for it.
You should message me if
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I regularly find girls who list all the things you shouldn't do
when messaging them, and my immediate reflex is 'I MUST DO ALL OF
THOSE THINGS AT ONCE,' so I'm not exactly taking this whole thing
But that said, I suffer from this frustrating delusion that girls
are automatically on the defensive/creeped out when being hit on.
Realistically, I know that that's ridiculous [Who doesn't like
compliments?] but it generally leads to me feeling incredibly
awkward trying to introduce myself or start conversations, because
there's this little voice in my head screaming that I'm somehow
being rude or too forward.
So if you somehow made it through all that and are still interested
- message me. Chances are I'm going to be oblivious otherwise.
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