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BornWanderer

24 M Dickinson, ND

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am made of steel and storms.

I live for the moments in my life that make the best stories.

I love to read. I love to write [though I don't write as often as I should]

I'm an INTJ according to Myers-Briggs, which more or less means that I'm a special level of pain-in-the-ass that you're probably not prepared for.

The right music can make my whole body ache with the simple joy of it. Concerts and music festivals are absolutely amazing. There's nothing quite like the raw energy of thousands of peoples' hearts beating to the same rhythm, their feet pounding the ground with the music as you watch every one of them start jumping to the beat. The first time I went to a music festival I think is also the first time I really understood why people get so into religion.

I chose my username because I've moved at least once a year for years and I have no intention to stop. New places, new faces, new challenges...I enjoy it thoroughly. I moved 1000 miles across the country to be in Dickinson almost on a whim. I mean my job is paying decently, but honestly...it was just for the change. The adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working. Exploring. Adventuring. Making money so I can have the freedom to travel to all of the places that I want to see.

Learning new things because the day I stop learning, I might as well be dead.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can be disgustingly persuasive when I want to be.

I enjoy writing.

The absolute best part of any job that I've ever had has always been the moments where my boss goes "Ok here's the problem. This is what I need. Make it happen." Problem solving. Exercising my creativity and resourcefulness. I love it.

And I give REALLY good massages. Seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The way that I carry myself and the way that I talk. I'm very blunt, very straightforward, and very honest about my opinions.

Also I suffer from a serious medical condition where I constantly look angry about something. That's just my face, I'm really not all that mad [or...you know...at all mad, but whatever] and am probably deep in thought about something totally unrelated, I swear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like to read when I have a book to read. I have something of an obsessive personality, so when I find a book or TV show I like I'll dive into it and burn through it in a few hours or days.

I'm an unashamed fantasy nerd. Game of Thrones, The Dresden Files, the Wheel of Time, Lord of the Rings...that sort of thing. I've also read a fair bit of Sherlock Holmes.

Music - almost anything. I'll get on a kick of one song or genre and listen to it nonstop for a week. Then I'll find something new. Anything from Shinedown [Dear god I love Shinedown] to Rise Against to Paramore to Red Jumpsuit Apparatus or Bowling for Soup or SR-71. Sometimes it's pop, or punk, or rock, or country. Sometimes it's a little bit of rap, or whatever Hollywood Undead is. I can drink coffee listening to Ingrid Michaelson, crowdsurf to Bullet for my Valentine and Volbeat, rock out to Avril Lavigne while doing inventory at work, or sing along to Brittney Spears and Taylor Swift while working at Menards...I legitimately don't give a damn. I like what I like and I don't really judge people's musical tastes.

I absolutely love concerts.

Oh. And Steam. Steam is a problem. Steam makes my wallet unhappy. But it makes me happy. So...balance? Whatever, the point is Mass Effect is fucking awesome. So is Bioshock. And The Arkham series. And Assassin's Creed. You get the idea.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet access, coffee and a working car. That's honestly about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mortality.
People.
Sex and how it influences decisions and motivations and people.
Why society is so hung up on sexual monogamy.
My own motivations.
The distribution of power in relationships.
Music.
Why I'm so, so bad at things like small talk, making friends, and generally 'being in public.'
How much I want to cover myself in tattoos as soon as I decide what to actually get.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. Opening new stores is hard.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't do private. And by that I mean, I don't keep secrets because at the end of the day, I don't really care what other people really think about me. I tend to just be frank and honest about...well...everything. I'm an open book.

If my friends can't deal with me as I am, then they're not really my friends. And if random people I don't know don't like things about me, well...so what?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I regularly find girls who list all the things you shouldn't do when messaging them, and my immediate reflex is 'I MUST DO ALL OF THOSE THINGS AT ONCE,' so I'm not exactly taking this whole thing seriously.

But that said, I suffer from this frustrating delusion that girls are automatically on the defensive/creeped out when being hit on. Realistically, I know that that's ridiculous [Who doesn't like compliments?] but it generally leads to me feeling incredibly awkward trying to introduce myself or start conversations, because there's this little voice in my head screaming that I'm somehow being rude or too forward.

So if you somehow made it through all that and are still interested - message me. Chances are I'm going to be oblivious otherwise.