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BossyBuilder

38 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 3, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: I've gotten feedback that my profile makes it seem that I'm just looking to hook up. Well, hook ups are very fun, but relationships are a good idea, too, when it feels good. I'm up for it all.

I've lived in San Francisco for almost 6 years and I love it. It's my home. I moved here from the east coast looking for a place where I could wake up and feel like I was on vacation, and for people that are open minded, creative and open to experimenting...which you probably know, is what this place is all about.
I moved here after breaking up with a girlfriend and couldn't understand why it hadn't worked out. I started studying meditation, consciousness, sex, attraction, and chemistry and I've been hooked. It's become the most important thing to me and I'm actually having a hard time justifying how much time my career eats into my social and sex life.
I'm a spiritual person who believes that the more we come to know ourselves, the more room we have for everyone else. It's an endless journey, and the most rewarding adventure that I've ever taken on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying seduction and sex. Dating. Designing buildings. And right now, listening to Justice on Pandora.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being inappropriate. Architecture. Playing soccer. Dancing. Training men to be leaders and managing teams. Talking people off the ledge. Producing full-body, extended orgasm in women's bodies. Yup, that's what I said. Studying has paid off.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My bright nature. I have a very positive outlook and a very calming presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music:
Oh so much music...I don't even know where to start with this one. The Police changed me.
Books:
Slowness (Milan Kundera), anything by Pablo Neruda, The Dark Tower series, In Me Own Words (the autobiography of Bigfoot), S M L XL by Rem Koolhaas
Movies:
The 5th Element, The Professional, and most things Luc Besson. Ferris Bueller's Day Off. Wes Anderson movies, Tarantino, David Fincher, Tim Burton.
Shows:
Firefly, Fringe, Lost, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Dexter (although that's waning), Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.
Food:
Avocados with fresh olive oil, salt and pepper, eggs benedict, a great hamburger, and just about all the sensational restaurants of San Francisco. I am not the most creative chef, but I can execute.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
NPR All Songs Considered,
my family,
my quest for higher and higher experiences of intimacy and connection,
some form of creation,
my group of friends,
and vacations.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex and love. What I want to be when I grow up. How to win at Hanging with Friends. How to make buildings more awesome.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A yes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once caught a fly with a pair of chopsticks, just like Mr. Miyagi. And then I let it go.
You should message me if
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You're a fun girl with an old soul and you liked my breakdancing picture.

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