BossyBuilder
39 San Francisco, CA
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My self-summary
Update: I've gotten feedback that my profile makes it seem that I'm just looking to hook up. Well, hook ups are very fun, but relationships are a good idea, too, when it feels good. I'm up for it all.

I've lived in San Francisco for almost 6 years and I love it. It's my home. I moved here from the east coast looking for a place where I could wake up and feel like I was on vacation, and for people that are open minded, creative and open to experimenting...which you probably know, is what this place is all about.
I moved here after breaking up with a girlfriend and couldn't understand why it hadn't worked out. I started studying meditation, consciousness, sex, attraction, and chemistry and I've been hooked. It's become the most important thing to me and I'm actually having a hard time justifying how much time my career eats into my social and sex life.
I'm a spiritual person who believes that the more we come to know ourselves, the more room we have for everyone else. It's an endless journey, and the most rewarding adventure that I've ever taken on.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying seduction and sex. Dating. Designing buildings. And right now, listening to Justice on Pandora.
I’m really good at
Being inappropriate. Architecture. Playing soccer. Dancing. Training men to be leaders and managing teams. Talking people off the ledge. Producing full-body, extended orgasm in women's bodies. Yup, that's what I said. Studying has paid off.
The first things people usually notice about me
My bright nature. I have a very positive outlook and a very calming presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:
Oh so much music...I don't even know where to start with this one. The Police changed me.
Books:
Slowness (Milan Kundera), anything by Pablo Neruda, The Dark Tower series, In Me Own Words (the autobiography of Bigfoot), S M L XL by Rem Koolhaas
Movies:
The 5th Element, The Professional, and most things Luc Besson. Ferris Bueller's Day Off. Wes Anderson movies, Tarantino, David Fincher, Tim Burton.
Shows:
Firefly, Fringe, Lost, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Dexter (although that's waning), Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.
Food:
Avocados with fresh olive oil, salt and pepper, eggs benedict, a great hamburger, and just about all the sensational restaurants of San Francisco. I am not the most creative chef, but I can execute.
The six things I could never do without
NPR All Songs Considered,
my family,
my quest for higher and higher experiences of intimacy and connection,
some form of creation,
my group of friends,
and vacations.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex and love. What I want to be when I grow up. How to win at Hanging with Friends. How to make buildings more awesome.
On a typical Friday night I am
A yes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once caught a fly with a pair of chopsticks, just like Mr. Miyagi. And then I let it go.
You should message me if
You're a fun girl with an old soul and you liked my breakdancing picture.
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