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39 M Arlington, MA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 8, 2007
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hey! I'm a Boston punk. Love knocking back the PBR and some Old Thompson and jamming out with my bands. I cannot stomach bigotry. If you're racist or homophobic and anything related to those, please don't waste your time or mine.

I love my family and my friends and I have someone I've very recently started seeing, but I like to find new people to spend time with as well. Not looking for hook-ups - I'm not a cheater.

I play guitar and drums, plus I write songs and try to sing. (It's a good thing I don't try to sing opera.) I'm also a visual artist, although less active at that these days. I like drinking in the park, basement shows, laughing and traveling. I tend to dance too much at punk shows. (By too much I mean until I'm limping.)

Oh, and I like surprises. Usually...

I sometimes get pigeonholed by people who think I'm another dumb punk, but there is much more going on in my head than I usually let on. It's a fight for time between all the things I have to do (work, bathe, etc) and the things I want to do (play music, write books, solve the problems of the world, figure out exactly what all the different settings on a camera mean and learn how to make gourmet cashew brittle, to name but a smattering). But I am guardedly hopeful.

There is plenty more to me, so just ask!


I am extroverted, surprising, and introspective
What I’m doing with my life
I work a regular full-time day job for now, but I'm hoping to be able to get out of the rat race within the next year or so. My bands are my main focus.

Also, trying to bring some unity in and around Boston. Finding every opportunity to better myself. Looking for any chance to turn people away from bigotry.
I’m really good at
I'm good at starting conversations with strangers and laughing at the completely wrong moments at movies.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(A) Anything by Chuck Palahniuk, biographies, memoirs, Augusten Burroughs, Ginsberg, William S. Burroughs, Chuck Klosterman, James Bradley, Jack Kerouac, David Eggers, Anansi Boys, Geek Love, George Orwell, American Gods, Breakfast at Tiffany's, If Chins Could Kill, The God Delusion, really anything interesting with a great story or at least great storytelling.

(B) Love and a .45, True Romance, This Is Spinal Tap, Punch Drunk Love, Adaptation, Confessions of a Dangerous Mind, Repo Man, Borat, Magnolia, Gerry (yes, I was one of the tens of people that saw this movie. Were you, too?), Terminator, Children of Men, Jesus Camp and Nacho Libre to name a few. Plus anything with Bruce Campbell.

(C) Faulty Conscience, Circle Jerks, Black Flag, Filth, Butt Trumpet, All or Nothing H.C., Skank Agenda, Dead Kennedys, Leftover Crack, Bad Religion, Billy Bragg, Mighty Mighty Bosstones, Milo's Syndacate, Boston Punk, Zombie Reagan, Jerry's Kids, Gang Green, Local H, The Pogues, The Cure, old Metallica, Anthrax, Operation Ivy, Weezer, Jane's Addiction, Tilt!!!, The Vandals, Stray Bullets, The Clash, Filth, Choking Victim, Subhumans, hell, the list goes on and on. I like a lot of music, but I am picky. Honestly, I mostly listen to current local punk bands. Oh, and my new favorite band Pressure Cooker!

(D) I am an omnivore. I love good food, but recently it hasn't been a priority. When it is, though, I love southern food (give me chicken fried steak, mashed potatoes, biscuits & gravy and I'll probably do whatever you want, haha. I have tried a lot of different new foods over the past couple of years and loved almost all of it. I think my favorites as far as new foods go are Moroccan and traditional Chinese.

I will try any food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing songs, politics, writing, hell, I don't know, I have a large degree of free association throughout my day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at a friend's house, hanging out, drinking and smoking, or at the practice space or a gig with one of the bands. Possibly wandering the streets in search of adventure or seeking out a coffee shop I've never been in so that I can meet some wonderful random genius over a dirty counter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Haha, I am great at remembering the lyrics to really obscure pop songs from 1987, but I have great difficulty in remembering the lyrics to songs I've written. =)

I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if are into old school punk, with a good mixture of crassness and compassion in your personality. like to drink cheap beer and good wine (not necessarily at the same sitting). won't care if I wear the same jeans all week. would jump into the pit and skank it up at one of my shows. won't try to change me into something I'm not. can open my eyes to something new and amazing.