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Bostonhoya

38 M Boston, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Peruvian-Bostonian but consider myself a citizen of the world. Adopted at 3 in Lima, Peru, and raised in Cambridge by loving older Boston-Irish-Catholic parents, I come with a somewhat different perspective and believe that people are interested in my take as a relative outsider.

I have a tremendous core network of friends who have known me for well over 20 years - some almost 35. I delight in their company, but value their ability to remind me of who I am even more. Goals can often disorient; it's nice to have people to put you in your place (when necessary).

That said, non-corporate me is chill, playful (my three ages are: 7, current, old white guy) and enjoys making things comfortable for my family and friends. A great day consists of : sharing stories, gaining knowledge, hanging outside, athletics, music, dancing, food and drink.

In three words I am: loyal, curious, and spontaneous.

Thanks for checking out my profile. I look forward to meeting you,

P.D.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Update 8/14
After a brief OKC hiatus I find myself renewed and more enthusiastic about finding a long-term companion. I realize there is much skepticism about online dating, but my experience thus far has been largely positive which puts it above some of the old reliable conventions of meeting potential paramours.
Yeah. I'm talking to you: clubs, bars, coffee shops and work.

Update 4/14
No longer part of a giant corporation and feel great about it! I respected the firm and people with whom I worked, but always believed my best work would be elsewhere. The dream is a laptop on a beach; working on my own time, from any location, and hopefully, for myself.

Fun for me is usually something new or friendly competition. Dancing, as well as playing with my niece and nephew, are also way up that list. I gravitate towards people that bring something to the table: knowledge, nurture, humor, joie de vivre.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being socially aware & making people comfortable. I credit my mother and sister's influence.

Absolutely chillin' in any environment. It's about the company and proper perspective. The rest will fall into place, no? No drama here.

Logic and quick problem solving. It's what I do, and my father did before me. Actually he still does it. At 81 years of age!

Hosting parties. (Though not enough lately.)

Teaching & Training people in terms they understand. I believe in all types of intelligence.

Dirty Alliteration, Multi-Tasking, Communicating, Cuddling, Listening, Kissing, Wiffleball (I'm semi-professional), and Anticipating things long before the happen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Either my hair or my height. Or perhaps the height of my hair? I was a German hair model in my twenties. Ok. My friend made that up, but I think it's hilarious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: East of Eden, All of Khaled Hosseini's work, [Blank] for Idiots (any in the series), Freakonomics, Theodore Rex, Brothers Karamazov, Danny and the Champion of the World, Cryptonomicon

Movies: The Princess Bride, Holy Grail, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Blazing Saddles or any Mel Brooks, True Romance or anything with Christopher Walken, Memento, Batman (Christopher Nolan directed), To Kill A Mockingbird

TV: Friends and Seinfeld still rule. Good Wife, Elementary, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black, and Vikings on the History Channel.

Music Artist (Favorite Song): Earth Wind and Fire (Let's Groove), James Brown (Get Up I Feel Like a Sex Machine), Bob Marley (Corner Stone), U2 (Pride), Michael Jackson (I Wanna Be Where You Are) , JT (Sexy back), Dee Lite (Groove is in the Heart), Coldplay (God Put a Smile On Your Face) , Beastie Boys (Brass Monkey) , Prince (Kiss), Billie Joel (The Longest Time)

Food: Chicken Fajita with Guacamole (honestly, slap avocado on anything and I'm straight), Chinese dumplings, Mediterranean
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assuming that family and close friends are a given...

-High Speed connectivity

-International Travel (So far I've visited: London, Edinburgh, Paris, Madrid, Barcelona, Amsterdam, Rome, Milan, Venice, Naples, Capri, Tunis, Rio, Sao Paolo, Salvador, and Lima)

-Music (especially live)

-Monkey knife fighting in international waters. (If you get this reference I might not be able to do without you.)

-Cape Cod

-Red Sox or any New England team. Total Masshole ovah heah.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do next? or How to improve a process?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching my breath. Hoping to entertain. Spending QT with my father, sister, niece and nephew.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have accumulated two large boxes of old school electronic gadgets that I intend to resurrect or repurpose. Como se dice , "inner nerd?"
You should message me if
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...you're adventurous in thought and action.

...you believe that you've only done a fraction of what you will do. I'm no dreamer, but I expect to positively transform over time and welcome a companion along the way.

...even if you think that don't have much to say. "Hello," or "Hola," works for me. DO NOT hold back just because you're not feeling especially eloquent. This is a collaborative effort and I will assist.

Hope to hear from you and wish you all the best in your search,

-P.D.