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44 Malden, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

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Last online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Since it seems that nobody wants to read a long profile I'll cut this short:
I'm a Bostonian, who lived in Seattle for most of the past 16 years, moved back home to Boston in January of 2014 to figure out what I wanted to do next with my life and where I want to live.
I've been a "self contained unit" - (borrowed from Cliff Poncier btw, if you don't know who he is, go ahead and look him up, bet you know who he is and didn't even know it.) For a year and a half now.
I'm getting out there to see what the dating world holds for me.
How about some fun stuff about me, ok, here goes:
I am strange, quirky,offbeat, a conversation maven, quick witted, have way too much useless knowledge in my mental rolodex & have a HUGE personality,
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, just working to save $ and also figuring out what I want to do next, and where I want to live going forward.
Oh and I do a fair amount of writing too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trivia - sports, pop culture,history, TV & movies, I'm THE ringer you want on your team.
I'm the KING of parallel parking, there's no spot I can't get a car into!
I'm also a hell of a home chef, BBQ'er and a hell of a dancer.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
BIG smile, BIG voice & personality, Blue eyes, my tattoos.
I'm a fun,gregarious, outgoing guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite Movies of mine:
"Fletch" - Of course!
Summer School
LA Confidential -
BTW How cool was Kevin Spacey in that film? Sgt. Jack Vincennes, that guy was a dapper dresser!
Real Genius
LOTR & Hobbit series series

Ok, now some authors and books:
LA Confidential - James Ellroy
The "Spenser for hire" novels/mysteries : Robert B. Parker
My Uncle Oswald - Roald Dahl
Lord of the Rings & The Hobbit series
A Stranger in this world - Kevin Canty
Post Office - Bukowski
See a grown man cry - Henry Rollins
A people's history of the United States - Howard Zinn
Working - Studs Terkel
"The Pigman" and other books written by Paul Zindel - My influence as far as my Young Adult novel projects I'm working on writing.
I'm currently reading "Bright lights, Big City" and it's got me sucked in, LOVE it!

If you dig this band and in particular like this song then we'll get along VERY well! ( and I'd LOVE to have the car in the video, ALL of it, including the interior! :

I also like classic alternative, old school hip hop, jazz - Chet Baker, Stan Kenton, Big band: Terry Gibbs dream band amongst many others.

I'm a big NPR listener, BBC news, I'm a news junkie but also enjoy their entertainment programs - "The Moth Radio Hour", "Wait, Wait don't tell me", "Car Talk " etc.

TV - Yes, I watch and enjoy it.
I like Car shows like "Fast & Loud" along with how to car shows, and wood working hot to shows.
I also like "Sherlock", "Seinfeld","The League", "CSI".
If "Dual Survival" is on I will stop and watch, not because I'm super outdoorsy, I just find it fascinating.
I will always stop and watch a marathon of "How it's made" when I stumble upon it too.
Oh, and I'm a BIG professional wrestling fan too, have been for 36 years, it's brought me great memories with my grandpa, my friends, made lots of new friends because of it and I even have gained friends within the business as well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. - My family!
2. - Pots & Pans
3. - My Journal
4. - Water
5. - My imagination
6. - Quiet time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our country - i'm politically active, proud lefty.
What I want to do with my life, What my next steps are, What TRULY makes me happy?
Getting my motorcycle permit & license.
learning to swing dance - care to be my partner?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding from a long, busy week, sometimes hitting a local spot for a cocktail - Martini with a twist, Bourbon - neat of course, Manhattan or Tom Collins.
I also LOVE a perfectly poured pint of Guiness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once flew all the way to Paris to get broken up with, deep down I had a feeling it might happen but still went - does that make me a masochist? ;)

I still tie my shoes with bunny ears

I'm a reformed nail biter, tough to break an almost 35 year habit but I've done it and my hands look and feel GREAT!
I've also completely cut out most fast food - Can't say no to a burger at Sonic every so often.

I've also cut WAY back on my soda consumption - Coca Cola, it's amazing how little of it I drink anymore!
All and all it's been a HUGE year for me!

I also some VERY interesting dating stories that nobody else can claim and my friends will tell you could ONLY happen to me!
Ask and I'll share some :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're fun,intelligent, funny,enjoy great conversation, don't take yourself too seriously and want to meet someone new who is unlike anyone you've ever met.
Or you want to dominate at trivia at the local pub, want to hang with an actual "Star dog champion" and I'll leave you with a question to ponder: "Can you rock it like this?"