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43 M Malden, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:25pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm going to freely admit my profile is long, but it's fun, entertaining & interactive.
Okay, Here's my deal:
Bostonian, born and raised, have lived in Seattle for most of the past 16 years.
I'm currently in Boston until the end of the summer and perhaps into the early fall but am in the process of moving back to Seattle.
Ladies in Boston, if you're ok with nothing serious and going on dates with a fun, outgoing guy great!
Message me and let's talk sometime and see where it leads.
Ladies in Seattle who ask : "Why the hell is a guy from north of Boston checking me out" there's your answer.

I came home for a bit to take care of myself, get my head centered and to know what I wanted to do with my life and where I wanted to live going forward or as Jules Winnfield from "Pulp Fiction" would say : "Going through a major transformation in my life".
It wasn't any sort of religious epiphany just more of transitioning from one chapter of my life into the next one and I needed to get away from my adopted home base to where I grew up to be able to do it.

I'm a Fun,outgoing, unique guy.

I like cheap beer - give me a cheap lager any day over an IPA.
I like my whiskey neat, great Bourbon and a medium rare steak with just the right char/grill marks on the outside.
HUGE Sox, Pats, B's & C's fan!
Also a supporter of Aston Villa of the EPL, Blackpool FC and Paris St. Germain.
Despite being a sports fan I am literate, love to write, enjoy great literature and the written word - I'm currently working on some works of fiction but I also am a featured opinion columnist for a liberal blog and at one point wrote sports stories for a web site that to this day I am quite proud of.

Ahh..yes...Dating and internet dating, this scene always makes me laugh:

"Some people never go crazy, What truly horrible lives they must live". - Charles Bukowski

"I don't like jail, they got the wrong kind of bars in there". -
Charles Bukowski

"An army of principles can penetrate where an army of soldiers cannot" - Thomas Paine

"Nobody will ever deprive the American people of the right to vote except the American people themselves and the only way they could do this is by not voting."-
Franklin D. Roosevelt
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently living just north of Boston but as I shared above am actively working on moving back to Seattle.

I'm a 22 year radio professional - On Air & Producing, miss it incredibly and would love to be back in radio so I have been keeping my eyes open for opportunities.

Right now I'm working in retail and trying to write on a freelance basis as well as serving as a freelance internet marketing consultant.

At this point I'm just enjoying what Boston has to offer whilst remembering what I love about Seattle and what I plan to do once back - I'm looking at you Five Point Cafe, and you Shorty's and The Baranof, Dicks Drive In - haven't forgotten about you either! Same for you Golden Gardens and King's Hardware on .29 cent wing night!

Barring that I am just following the words of David Wooderson:
"L-I-V-I-N!..... LIVIN!"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trivia - sports, pop culture,history, TV & movies, I'm THE ringer you want on your team.
I'm the KING of parallel parking and once had two by standers on the sidewalk on Newbury street applaud after I parked my then very large vehicle into a tight space.
I'm also a hell of a home chef, BBQ'er and being a loyal friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
BIG smile, BIG voice & personality, Blue eyes, my tattoos.
I'm a fun,gregarious, outgoing guy.
My nickname is "Bison", yes I'm a big guy hence the nickname, as well as being physically strong - and yes, I will help you move if you also furnish ice cold beer and pizza LOL!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
One of my favorite hip hop groups and songs of all time, song always gets me to rap along even if I don't sound nearly as good as Q Tip, Fife or Ali

A favorite band of mine, if you're a fan of theirs too we should definitely talk:

I have eclectic taste in music which includes hip hop and old school hip hop, this is one of my favorite tracks, go on and listen to it, I bet you can't stop yourself from moving and dancing to it !

Here's a song with some clips from one of my favorite movies, LOVE 80's movies and music!:

GREAT song from one of my favorite movies - LA Confifdential:

Favorite Movies of mine:
LA Confidential - which the song above is from.
BTW How cool was Kevin Spacey in that film? Sgt. Jack Vincennes, that guy was a dapper dresser!
Real Genius
The Warrirors
Indiana Jones series - except Crystal Skull and what the heck was up with Kate Capshaw in Temple of Doom?
Vision Quest
Making The Grade
Dazed & Confused

Ok, now some authors and books:
LA Confidential - James Ellroy
The "Spenser for hire" novels/mysteries : Robert B. Parker
Love is a dog from hell - Bukowski
Post Office - Bukowski
See a grown man cry - Henry Rollins
A people's history of the United States - Howard Zinn
Working - Studs Terkel
"The Pigman" and other books written by Paul Zindel - My influence as far as my Young Adult novel projects I'm working on writing.
I also love classics like Catcher in the Rye, Great Gatsby, The man in the Iron Mask, The Three Musketeers, Treasure Island, 20,000 leagues under the sea, just to name a few.

I'm a big metal fan - especially what most call "Butt rock" - If you are too you should absolutely write, let's rock out, drink some beer and enjoy some Poison, Cinderella, Warrant, Tesla, Faster Pussycat etc! (Take a look at the link below:)
I also enjoy classic alternative,and am a BIG classical music fan too - it's my relaxation and what I like to listen to when I need to focus when writing copy.
I'm also Jazz & big band fan - LOVE "The Swing Years" on KUOW and saw Frank Sinatra with Steve & Edie Gorme' opening up for him in 1990 at the Sands hotel & casino in Atlantic City.
I'm a big NPR listener, not just news but also entertainment programs,"The Diane Rehm Show", "Wiretap", "The Moth Radio Hour", "Wait, Wait don't tell me", "Car Talk", "Says You", am also a big BBC news listener.

TV - I like to watch a lot of car shows, some are "how to's" mainly car ones - "Fast N Loud", "Musclecar", "Trucks!", "Horsepower". "Sherlock" on BBC America, "The League".
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. - My family!
2. - Pots & Pans
3. - My Journal
4. - Water
5. - My imagination
6. - Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our country - i'm politically active, proud lefty.
What I want to do with my life, What my next steps are, What TRULY makes me happy?
Getting my motorcycle permit & license.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out at home or finding new spots in Boston that i've not been to, having drinks with friends and singing Karaoke:
"Ice Cream Man" by Van Halen is a regular song I sing as is: "Mama Kin" by Aerosmith and "Party all the time " by Eddie Murphy
Other times just hanging out grilling and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once flew all the way to Paris to get broken up with, deep down I had a feeling it might happen but still went - does that make me a masochist? ;)
The way I figured it, how often do I get to Paris for two weeks?
I also some VERY interesting dating stories that nobody else can claim and my friends will tell you could ONLY happen to me!
Ask and I'll share some :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're fun,intelligent, funny,enjoy great conversation, don't take yourself too seriously and want to meet someone new who is unlike anyone you've ever met.
Or you want to dominate at trivia at the local pub.