I'm an average person more or less. I work full time and go to school full time. I'm stubborn and emotional. I hold myself up to a lot of high standards (with values and goals) and can beat myself up internally with guilt far worse than someone else trying to point out I messed something up. Although I work for a corporate news company I refuse to watch the news or read any of the papers we send out. I find the news to be very morbid and it tends to remind me even more than usual that there are just bad things and people in the world.
I honestly don't know what I'm looking for at the moment. Physically, I'd like someone taller than me that has some facial hair. I don't know what it is about facial hair but I like a man that has a scruffy look or at least keeps their facial hair trimmed. I also have this thing for a mans shoulders. It's some basic instinct within me that reacts and correlates a mans shoulders with who he is and whether or not he'd be a solid provider in the future. Fat or skinny isn't really a problem because over the course of time, people change. I am a hefty woman but I workout twice a week doing a more aggressive workout and am going through physical therapy the rest of the week to work out some kinks and make sure I don't kill myself since I haven't worked out since high school in the hopes of being able to run again and not have such a curvy shape.
I'm not looking for friends with benefits and really am against doing "things" the first time we meet other than a hug a maybe a kiss. It's one thing if chemistry is right and stuff happens, it's another thing for a guy to expect it. If it's expected then it's not going to happen and the longer you try to make it happen, the better I get at holding out. I'm currently going on 3 years since my last full blown intimate encounter and I'm okay with that. It's lonely but it's worth holding out for the right guy to come along rather than giving myself up to whoever goes on a date with me. I may be fat but I have standards.
Beyond my sexual tension I'm a nice person. I can be mean when I want (I am a woman after all) and tend to live by my emotions when pissed but any other time I'm quite logical about things. I'm also one of those "clingy" girls when it comes to really liking a guy (not in the crazy sense though). It's not like I want to know where you are at all times but when I'm with you and we've reached the point of being intimate, I want kissing and touching and more kissing all the time. Guy's look at it like it's a bad thing and maybe to less affectionate guys it is but when it could lead to a blowjob or sex, I don't see a problem with a clingy person. I generally like to make people happy so if a woman wants to be clingy and is still willing to make chili for the football game in a couple of hours, can't a guy be happy that his woman wants him and wants to please him and then go make dinner or do the laundry?!