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Bourdeille

42 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 22
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm witty, not silly. I have a dry sardonic wit that keeps my dance partners laughing. I aspire to creativity, and art and found a way to make a life with it. I love long serious conversations over dinner, wine and coffee where we find the answers to life the universe and everything together.

I am married and poly; she knows I'm here. Don't worry I'll introduce you if you like.

I love to travel, and I've done it a lot. Kayaking is critical to my sanity and there are few places I feel more at home than in my boat along the shore of a random island. Most oddly I suppose, I love caving: with the connection to the earth, the physical effort and the risk, it's the most visceral thing you'll ever do.

I enjoy tactile experiences, interactions and connections.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm happily married, I have many great friends, and I balance a rewarding and challenging career in software design with all the fun stuff. Usually the balance is off a little.

Right now the balance is off, I'm moving to Madrona/CD and it's all consuming.

The most important thing that I learn every day is who I am.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I design things, I create random objects, often with a steampunk theme. Ask me and I will send you pictures of these collages and sculptures. They pay me to direct the design of software. It's been quite an effective way to make a living. So there are the visual things.

Talking to a large (300+) room full of people is something I'm good at and enjoy.

With caving I learned to be good with knots and rope. Turns out it's a transferable skill.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Today it might be the purple hair. Actually it's now closer to blue with tinsel, sorry it's shaved and black today. Sometimes they notice the gauged earings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite published novel is "Crime and Punishment" or perhaps it's "Breakfast of Champions" or "Kindred", "Time Enough for Love", "Left Hand of Darkness", "To Say Nothing of the Dog", "American Gods"... Ahh shit, I give up. I have a roomful of favorite books. I've read your profile, and if there is a book there I haven't read that sounds awesome, I've added it to my Kindle (or if it looked really awesome ordered the book).

When it comes to live performances, I love theater of all kinds, but I'm particularly fond of musical theater, and my personal favorite is Pippin.

Music: Eclectic in the extreme. I'm really partial to these song right now
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TjpKGcnEa80
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JRWox-i6aAk

As for the Star Wars, Star Trek question: Dr. Who.... I prefer to be outside, but sometimes curling up with a movie or a show is just what the doctor, ahem, ordered.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Computers, it's the thing I do
Coffee/Wine, I refuse to pick my vice ...
Books, is literature a thing?
My Kayak, it takes me where I want to go
My Camera, it shows me what I need to see
My Imagination, it opens doors that should be closed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mostly moving. However when I'm not moving, art. It's an exploratory process as I try to find an expression of Art that is meaningful to me.

Thinking about my work, creating art, and how people interpret the world through their tools. The various possible meanings of NSPP.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often I'm dancing.

We've played board games with friends, and hung out at a dive bar. Going to a concert ... Throwing a barn burner of a party: they tell me I was defying gravity and asked everyone to dance at the last one. Then they showed me pictures.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've marked bi in my profile, but it's closer to hetro-flexible and I'm not actively seeking men.
You should message me if
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You're looking for someone to get out and have a good time with traipsing around Seattle, or hiking in the mountains. Perhaps you think winter Kayak camping in the San Juan Islands sounds awesome, curled up in a double sleeping bag hiding from the rain.

You want to know more about knots, or not.