INTRODUCTION
I just moved back to the Bay area from Boston (Drove cross country). Good to be home.
If you are on Fetlife just message me there, I have 100+ photos many of which I can't show here... I have the same screen name.
I have an extensive profile because a profile is about who and what you are. I happen to be a complex being. If you are not comfortable with a boy completely open about his sexuality then I suggest you browse another profile. This profile is a record of me and an depth window into my life.
Go ahead and make the first move, feel free to message me.
I likely have not looked at your profile, or even if I have, had time to compose a thoughtful message to you longer than the lame one-liners I receive (and sure you do too). I am a admittedly busy boy, and have wrote an extensive profile. I am trying the "let them come to me" approach to the profile. If you catch my eye I will make the the first move, if I do it means I sincerely find you unique/interesting and want to connect, and me perusing you should be taken as a compliment.
Artist, Designer, Photographer, Scientist, and Engineer.
Exploration and experimentation is the driving force in my life. I am an established artist (Sculpture, Photography, Glass, Light and Optics) working in technologically advanced sculptures and 2d works and have created artwork for a few well know events, bands, celebrities, TV shows and movies. I have contributed to major elements of the Burning Man festival, helping literally thousands of projects get lit up including multiple large scale artworks, art-cars, camps, bikes, and costumes.
I have a fascination with Light. I don't have a particular reason or origin for this, my brain just constantly thinks about the scientific properties and artistic potential of photonics and optics. It straddles the fine line between obsession and fetish.
I am also a professional photographer. I never leave the house without my camera, and recently upgraded to an amazing mirrorless interchangeable lens camera that is compact enough so I can take my best equipment with me wherever I go. I am currently expanding my portfolio of portrait and figure work including classic nude and erotic photography. My Fetlife profile does not capture my professional work so if you are interested in shooting with me I invite you to check out my website.
Here you can see my light sculptures, photography, and artist statement on my website to get a better idea of what makes me tick.
JoshuaHubert.com
^^^ yeah... that's my full name. I really have no issue with linking my profile with my personal and professional life. I'm rather upfront and really have nothing to hide. I'm me.
Sexual Identity and Orientation.
I’m not the stereotype male persona. I do not identify myself entirely as a Cis-Male (not Sissy, Cis is different). While I do not look androgynous, I feel androgynous. I am not overly masculine or feel strongly one way or another about my male identity; I just try to be me. I am rugged and strong, but drawn to cute and colorful. I surely have a strong, manly, and masculine side that is outwardly present when you first meet me, and this side comes out especially when I am in a dominant role. Although I thoroughly like the dynamic of a girl that likes strapping on a cock and fucking me. I like being the fuckee. Girls are surprised when they can get me to moan and squirm like them, like a "girl". But while I do not identify as female or trans, once you get to know me my feminine side becomes more apparent. I am happy when I can be comfortable around those where I can be myself and feel balanced.
I am very open to sexuality. While I am attracted to many who identify as female, I am not opposed to playing with boys and those in between (and have) if there is a rare physical and mental attraction. So I am Queer, or more better defined as Pansexual.
I'm Pansexual, not Bisexual. This means I am attracted to those who I find attractive. I am primarily attracted to female and androgynous types. I like Girly Fem types (without a princess complex), Tomboys/boyish types, I LOVE Androgynous types, Queer types too. I also have a thing for girls with short hair, tattoos, and piercings, but not a requirement at all. I like a thin, average, or confidently curvy girl. I am generally attracted to people around my age or younger, but if you're sexy you're sexy and age means nothing. Race is no issue at all. What's most important in qualities are confident, smart, daring, and a good personality.
As for Boys I am VERY PICKY, but feel free to contact me. I am not into Manly Men or Cross Dressing men; again I find Androgynous types hot. I am open to Trans folk and Gender Fluid. If you are shy and think I might not be your type, I'll be the judge of that, so try me. I reply to most messages regardless if I am interested in meeting.
Relationships, Partners, and Polyamory.
I have considered myself Poly for a while, and only become involved with long term partners that are comfortable with me playing with others regularly. I have a deep connection with a girl in the UK; I can’t deny the overwhelming love I have for this awesome girl. While I have other partners I love and whom love me, she is my only Lover. My feeling for her stay strong as ever regardless of the others I let into my life and heart. This goes for my other partners, my connection I have with them is uniquely ours and no one else’s. If feelings develop naturally and mutual with a new partner in my life I would have no reason to fight them. Embracing chaos I am open to what the world throws at me.
I have multiple partners: Some are partners whom I am no longer sexual with but regardless retain a connection and growing relationship (I do not feel sex is a necessary to consider somebody a partner, yet I have many platonic relationships with whom I consider just great friends). Some of my partners and I tend to have FWB relationships with lots of playing, fucking, and fun. Some partners I have are exploring and building trust together to move to play partners. And some partners I simply have not met yet ;)
Trust, honesty, and communication with partners are non-negotiable requirements for me. I only have sexual contact with those who have been recently tested and meet my strict standard, and I am indeed picky. If I reach out to you it means I see true potential between us and it is my hope it is seen as a compliment. I always use protection with sexual contact unless we have an established bond with each other where I can [literally] trust my partner with my life.
Kinks, BDSM, and Sex Stuff
I am a Switch in every sense of the word.
I am Dominant because I am submissive. I am a sadist because I am a masochist. I am a top because I am a bottom. These are not contradictions, nor is it hypocrisy. My life revolves around experience, skill, knowledge and experimentation.
Being a Switch is not Black and White, I am a Gray that becomes lighter or darker in relation to those around me. As I appear at first as a tall, strong, masculine guy I tend to attract exclusively submissive or vanilla girls so more often than not I take the Dom route, and quite enjoy it a lot. But when I am approached by cute girl that it confident, firm, and assertive you might as well slap a collar on me; I’m yours. But ideally I seek a fellow switch, one to harmoniously rebalance one another’s wants, needs and desires.
Regardless if I am in a Dominant or submissive role I get off on pleasing my partner. As a sub I will give and do whatever my Domme desires of me, use me as they wish, their toy, their slave, their pet. I want to relinquish my power, I want them in control, to take me, use me, mark me, and take me to beyond.
When I am in a Dominant role it is more complex. I know what my sub wants because I have been there, in their shackles, in their mindset; I understand. As a Dom I am getting off on pleasing my partner as I see fit, using them as I wish in absolute control, but also by fulfilling their desire to surrender, guiding their journey into subspace. Likewise I seek partners that find pleasure in making me happy and fulfilling my needs.
I am not into humiliation and degradation in a traditional sense. I will tease you, boss you around, objectify you as my toy, tie you up, cover you in my cum, and call you a slut/bitch/whore/cunt because I like you, but never in a negative manner. I will NOT call you stupid/worthless/ugly, point out your flaws, make fun of you, or have you do anything you don’t really want to. I respect my partner, I want my partner to respect me, and I want to be able to respect myself.
I enjoy bondage and pain. Usually I am the one in control, but it is always nice to find a partner that enjoys having power over me. I like to know I can trust the person in control, and never doubt I am safe; to be restrained or fully immobilized, to fully surrender, to fully trust, to just be. The joyful helplessness knowing you are not in control, powerless, with no responsibility other than to exist and submit to what is to come. I like progressive pain; tight bondage, building pressures, clamps, weights, and such. I like being flogged, spanked, scratched, bit, and so on. But I like to build up to more intense sensations, and do not enjoy a sudden escalation of a surprising out of context punch or whip. I want to feel the intense sensation that is pain; I don’t enjoy being violently hurt. As a Top I treat my partners in the same manner.
I have a high pain tolerance. I identify as a masochist that is also a sadist that wants to share with others the joy of pain. When topping it means everything to me to have my partner fully submit and trust me to mark and color their body as my canvas and give them the sensations and mentality they yearn from me to provide. I love how it makes me feel; alive. I love the endorphin it releases and the odd happiness and peace that washes over me. I have been known to laugh a lot more than whimper. I also love being marked. My skin is very susceptible to coloring, I have pale skin and simple nail scratches leave a nice line, while toys and implements leave clearly defined marks. I heal VERY quickly, so marks that last over a week have to be deep. I crave this, being heavily marked, being able to "feel" it for days, watch them change color and progress. I have an attraction to the beauty of them. I love the connection and trust I feel as I am marked, and especially enjoy the conscious my minds enters, the lovely Subspace.
Receiving anal play gets me worked up. I really enjoy strap-on play as it frees up the girls hands. I love getting fucked in the ass and how my pre-cum just flows. I love having a girl over me, fucking me as she leans forward so I can suck her tits as she rubs my cock and plays with my balls. I have come to favor bigger toy as the feeling of fullness and pressure against my prostate just feels ungodly good. I’ve been fisted just a few times, and am eager to try it more as while toys feel nice, the control and mobility of a hand is unmatched. Fisting so far has been the only way I have been able to cum just through anal stimulation, a "progasm", oh my god amazing....
(Despite me loving giving and receiving anal I am not into scat-play and practice cleanliness.)
I love licking pussy. I feel it is one of my best sexual talents; I love going down on a girl, wrapping my lips around a throbbing clit, sucking it into my warm moist mouth, and licking the tip with my slick tongue. There are times when going fast will rev you up or send you over the top, but I like to go tantalizingly slow and sensual until even the most sublet movement risks tipping you over the edge. I love the control of being able to use my fingers too and have no issue with using a toys to aid me in playing while I use my tongue and lips on your ass, thighs, nipples, or to lick the sweat beading down the nape of your neck. But I reserve oral (giving and receiving) ONLY for those who have been tested.
I am certainly an exhibitionist and a voyeur. I am no stranger to the camera nor playing in groups or in front of others. Not only do I like getting naked playing with my partners in front of others like at Bondage A Go Go (BAGG) ,The Upper Floor and SFCitadel, I also enjoy playing in a group. I love threesomes, more-somes, and fun kinky gatherings among friends. Being poly and pansexual goes hand in hand with creating a positive environment were we can all play, fuck, cum, and have a fun sexy time without drama or jealousy. There are a lot of fun positions and exciting dynamics when more than than just two of us playing. But just because I am an exhibitionist does not mean others have to be so. I am fully respect my partners who want to play intimately together one on one, or in just the privacy of the bedroom, or are camera shy. I am not out to change anybody, nor am I about to stop being being myself.
I am a very sexual person. I love to cum and make others cum, I like to play and be played with, I like to fuck and be fucked. I wouldn't call it a kink, but I get off on making my partner cum. Regardless if I am serving you in a submissive roll, or I have tied you up myself I want to make you cum over and over. I can get hard and cum multiple times throughout a session, I usually cum at least twice as after the first slow cum I like to fuck aggressively hard and fast. I’m multi-orgasmic (which I have learned from my surprised partners this rare in males) and if I am really fucking turned on I can cum two, or sometimes three times within a few minutes. While eventually you can wear me out when I am fucking, when the roles a switched and I'm the one bend over I love taking it for hours. Who doesn't love being fucked?
While I love he primal feeling of fucking doggy style, holding your hips as I watch your wet cunt wrapped around my cock as you back arches and body squirms in bliss; I enjoy positions where we face each other so I can suck and play with your tits, look into each others eyes with intensity, and yes kiss. I also love girl on top positions, holding up the girl with my hands so I can control my speed and depth (best position to really fuck fast and hard, or be slow). And of course I am a big fan of 69. But I certainly enjoy lots of ways to fuck, on the floor, back seat, up against a wall, or....
New Play Partners and Friends
New Real Life Friends: I like meeting people. I especially like creative folk. If you want to meet up just ask or you can bump into me at the SFCitadel, BAGG, Mission Control, or The Armory/Upper Floor. I like going new places that mix good drinks and craft beers, play good music were where there is still a place to talk, or going on adventures in the Bay. Otherwise I do a ton of non-kink stuff as you can see below, if any of that sounds interesting send me a message.
New Play Partners: If you feel we might have potential don’t hesitate to message me, I love it when someone makes the first move, plus it is unlikely that I have seen your profile as I rarely browse profiles on this site. I would enjoy meeting:
-a fellow Switch for ongoing balanced play.
-a Dominant girl to push my limits, control me, mark and use me...
-a fun Submissive girl to have some fun with bondage, rope, marking, training...
-a cute girl (or the right boy, or any gender) that just wants to have some kinky fun.
When I comes to new male partners I am looking for Top or a Vers. As a Switch I am very much a Vers. I am looking for another fun boy. I am not looking for a Man. I am looking for another roughly around my age or younger. Over 30 is pushing it but there are always exceptions. I like a thin boy, muscles and gym toned is nice but not requirement. I just like a thinner and fit guy.
I should mention again that play is only possible after establishing mutual trust and respect. I am not looking for a quick fuck or fling. Right now I have multiple partners I share my life with, keeping them safe means keeping myself safe. While I am admittedly picky [if you haven’t already] please read the end of my Sexual Identity and Orientation section at the top to see my sexual preferences for partners. Send me a message even if you think you’re not my type, I am pansexual and most of my partners have been outside the box on what I “thought” I wanted.
Random Stuff About Me
I am an introvert. I am quiet, observant, and a people watcher.I am just as comfortable staying at home as I am in a crowded event. I make conversation with those who interest me, not out of boredom for small talk. I am quiet because I am constantly thinking. I am a very good listener and conversationalist once I get an idea of what you are all about. And get me talking about something that interests me or ask me what I am thinking about and I will go on and on. Many times I really need a person to just listen as I think aloud.
I speak my mind but am very easy to get along with.
I am loyal and protective; I will always stand up for myself and friends. Avoiding anger and violence at all costs, I will gladly defend myself and fight for others when it comes down to it.
I am a night owl.
I am usually pretty good at making people laugh, always good at cracking up my friends and making light of or relishing in an awkward situation.
I think my Viking ancestry is pretty bad-ass. I'm a American mutt with Norwegian/French/Irish blood.
I have a slight Bostonian accent.
I’m 6ft 3in tall, 178lbs.
I just moved back to the Bay area from Boston (Drove cross country). Good to be home.
If you are on Fetlife just message me there, I have 100+ photos many of which I can't show here... I have the same screen name.
I have an extensive profile because a profile is about who and what you are. I happen to be a complex being. If you are not comfortable with a boy completely open about his sexuality then I suggest you browse another profile. This profile is a record of me and an depth window into my life.
Go ahead and make the first move, feel free to message me.
I likely have not looked at your profile, or even if I have, had time to compose a thoughtful message to you longer than the lame one-liners I receive (and sure you do too). I am a admittedly busy boy, and have wrote an extensive profile. I am trying the "let them come to me" approach to the profile. If you catch my eye I will make the the first move, if I do it means I sincerely find you unique/interesting and want to connect, and me perusing you should be taken as a compliment.
Artist, Designer, Photographer, Scientist, and Engineer.
Exploration and experimentation is the driving force in my life. I am an established artist (Sculpture, Photography, Glass, Light and Optics) working in technologically advanced sculptures and 2d works and have created artwork for a few well know events, bands, celebrities, TV shows and movies. I have contributed to major elements of the Burning Man festival, helping literally thousands of projects get lit up including multiple large scale artworks, art-cars, camps, bikes, and costumes.
I have a fascination with Light. I don't have a particular reason or origin for this, my brain just constantly thinks about the scientific properties and artistic potential of photonics and optics. It straddles the fine line between obsession and fetish.
I am also a professional photographer. I never leave the house without my camera, and recently upgraded to an amazing mirrorless interchangeable lens camera that is compact enough so I can take my best equipment with me wherever I go. I am currently expanding my portfolio of portrait and figure work including classic nude and erotic photography. My Fetlife profile does not capture my professional work so if you are interested in shooting with me I invite you to check out my website.
Here you can see my light sculptures, photography, and artist statement on my website to get a better idea of what makes me tick.
JoshuaHubert.com
^^^ yeah... that's my full name. I really have no issue with linking my profile with my personal and professional life. I'm rather upfront and really have nothing to hide. I'm me.
Sexual Identity and Orientation.
I’m not the stereotype male persona. I do not identify myself entirely as a Cis-Male (not Sissy, Cis is different). While I do not look androgynous, I feel androgynous. I am not overly masculine or feel strongly one way or another about my male identity; I just try to be me. I am rugged and strong, but drawn to cute and colorful. I surely have a strong, manly, and masculine side that is outwardly present when you first meet me, and this side comes out especially when I am in a dominant role. Although I thoroughly like the dynamic of a girl that likes strapping on a cock and fucking me. I like being the fuckee. Girls are surprised when they can get me to moan and squirm like them, like a "girl". But while I do not identify as female or trans, once you get to know me my feminine side becomes more apparent. I am happy when I can be comfortable around those where I can be myself and feel balanced.
I am very open to sexuality. While I am attracted to many who identify as female, I am not opposed to playing with boys and those in between (and have) if there is a rare physical and mental attraction. So I am Queer, or more better defined as Pansexual.
I'm Pansexual, not Bisexual. This means I am attracted to those who I find attractive. I am primarily attracted to female and androgynous types. I like Girly Fem types (without a princess complex), Tomboys/boyish types, I LOVE Androgynous types, Queer types too. I also have a thing for girls with short hair, tattoos, and piercings, but not a requirement at all. I like a thin, average, or confidently curvy girl. I am generally attracted to people around my age or younger, but if you're sexy you're sexy and age means nothing. Race is no issue at all. What's most important in qualities are confident, smart, daring, and a good personality.
As for Boys I am VERY PICKY, but feel free to contact me. I am not into Manly Men or Cross Dressing men; again I find Androgynous types hot. I am open to Trans folk and Gender Fluid. If you are shy and think I might not be your type, I'll be the judge of that, so try me. I reply to most messages regardless if I am interested in meeting.
Relationships, Partners, and Polyamory.
I have considered myself Poly for a while, and only become involved with long term partners that are comfortable with me playing with others regularly. I have a deep connection with a girl in the UK; I can’t deny the overwhelming love I have for this awesome girl. While I have other partners I love and whom love me, she is my only Lover. My feeling for her stay strong as ever regardless of the others I let into my life and heart. This goes for my other partners, my connection I have with them is uniquely ours and no one else’s. If feelings develop naturally and mutual with a new partner in my life I would have no reason to fight them. Embracing chaos I am open to what the world throws at me.
I have multiple partners: Some are partners whom I am no longer sexual with but regardless retain a connection and growing relationship (I do not feel sex is a necessary to consider somebody a partner, yet I have many platonic relationships with whom I consider just great friends). Some of my partners and I tend to have FWB relationships with lots of playing, fucking, and fun. Some partners I have are exploring and building trust together to move to play partners. And some partners I simply have not met yet ;)
Trust, honesty, and communication with partners are non-negotiable requirements for me. I only have sexual contact with those who have been recently tested and meet my strict standard, and I am indeed picky. If I reach out to you it means I see true potential between us and it is my hope it is seen as a compliment. I always use protection with sexual contact unless we have an established bond with each other where I can [literally] trust my partner with my life.
Kinks, BDSM, and Sex Stuff
I am a Switch in every sense of the word.
I am Dominant because I am submissive. I am a sadist because I am a masochist. I am a top because I am a bottom. These are not contradictions, nor is it hypocrisy. My life revolves around experience, skill, knowledge and experimentation.
Being a Switch is not Black and White, I am a Gray that becomes lighter or darker in relation to those around me. As I appear at first as a tall, strong, masculine guy I tend to attract exclusively submissive or vanilla girls so more often than not I take the Dom route, and quite enjoy it a lot. But when I am approached by cute girl that it confident, firm, and assertive you might as well slap a collar on me; I’m yours. But ideally I seek a fellow switch, one to harmoniously rebalance one another’s wants, needs and desires.
Regardless if I am in a Dominant or submissive role I get off on pleasing my partner. As a sub I will give and do whatever my Domme desires of me, use me as they wish, their toy, their slave, their pet. I want to relinquish my power, I want them in control, to take me, use me, mark me, and take me to beyond.
When I am in a Dominant role it is more complex. I know what my sub wants because I have been there, in their shackles, in their mindset; I understand. As a Dom I am getting off on pleasing my partner as I see fit, using them as I wish in absolute control, but also by fulfilling their desire to surrender, guiding their journey into subspace. Likewise I seek partners that find pleasure in making me happy and fulfilling my needs.
I am not into humiliation and degradation in a traditional sense. I will tease you, boss you around, objectify you as my toy, tie you up, cover you in my cum, and call you a slut/bitch/whore/cunt because I like you, but never in a negative manner. I will NOT call you stupid/worthless/ugly, point out your flaws, make fun of you, or have you do anything you don’t really want to. I respect my partner, I want my partner to respect me, and I want to be able to respect myself.
I enjoy bondage and pain. Usually I am the one in control, but it is always nice to find a partner that enjoys having power over me. I like to know I can trust the person in control, and never doubt I am safe; to be restrained or fully immobilized, to fully surrender, to fully trust, to just be. The joyful helplessness knowing you are not in control, powerless, with no responsibility other than to exist and submit to what is to come. I like progressive pain; tight bondage, building pressures, clamps, weights, and such. I like being flogged, spanked, scratched, bit, and so on. But I like to build up to more intense sensations, and do not enjoy a sudden escalation of a surprising out of context punch or whip. I want to feel the intense sensation that is pain; I don’t enjoy being violently hurt. As a Top I treat my partners in the same manner.
I have a high pain tolerance. I identify as a masochist that is also a sadist that wants to share with others the joy of pain. When topping it means everything to me to have my partner fully submit and trust me to mark and color their body as my canvas and give them the sensations and mentality they yearn from me to provide. I love how it makes me feel; alive. I love the endorphin it releases and the odd happiness and peace that washes over me. I have been known to laugh a lot more than whimper. I also love being marked. My skin is very susceptible to coloring, I have pale skin and simple nail scratches leave a nice line, while toys and implements leave clearly defined marks. I heal VERY quickly, so marks that last over a week have to be deep. I crave this, being heavily marked, being able to "feel" it for days, watch them change color and progress. I have an attraction to the beauty of them. I love the connection and trust I feel as I am marked, and especially enjoy the conscious my minds enters, the lovely Subspace.
Receiving anal play gets me worked up. I really enjoy strap-on play as it frees up the girls hands. I love getting fucked in the ass and how my pre-cum just flows. I love having a girl over me, fucking me as she leans forward so I can suck her tits as she rubs my cock and plays with my balls. I have come to favor bigger toy as the feeling of fullness and pressure against my prostate just feels ungodly good. I’ve been fisted just a few times, and am eager to try it more as while toys feel nice, the control and mobility of a hand is unmatched. Fisting so far has been the only way I have been able to cum just through anal stimulation, a "progasm", oh my god amazing....
(Despite me loving giving and receiving anal I am not into scat-play and practice cleanliness.)
I love licking pussy. I feel it is one of my best sexual talents; I love going down on a girl, wrapping my lips around a throbbing clit, sucking it into my warm moist mouth, and licking the tip with my slick tongue. There are times when going fast will rev you up or send you over the top, but I like to go tantalizingly slow and sensual until even the most sublet movement risks tipping you over the edge. I love the control of being able to use my fingers too and have no issue with using a toys to aid me in playing while I use my tongue and lips on your ass, thighs, nipples, or to lick the sweat beading down the nape of your neck. But I reserve oral (giving and receiving) ONLY for those who have been tested.
I am certainly an exhibitionist and a voyeur. I am no stranger to the camera nor playing in groups or in front of others. Not only do I like getting naked playing with my partners in front of others like at Bondage A Go Go (BAGG) ,The Upper Floor and SFCitadel, I also enjoy playing in a group. I love threesomes, more-somes, and fun kinky gatherings among friends. Being poly and pansexual goes hand in hand with creating a positive environment were we can all play, fuck, cum, and have a fun sexy time without drama or jealousy. There are a lot of fun positions and exciting dynamics when more than than just two of us playing. But just because I am an exhibitionist does not mean others have to be so. I am fully respect my partners who want to play intimately together one on one, or in just the privacy of the bedroom, or are camera shy. I am not out to change anybody, nor am I about to stop being being myself.
I am a very sexual person. I love to cum and make others cum, I like to play and be played with, I like to fuck and be fucked. I wouldn't call it a kink, but I get off on making my partner cum. Regardless if I am serving you in a submissive roll, or I have tied you up myself I want to make you cum over and over. I can get hard and cum multiple times throughout a session, I usually cum at least twice as after the first slow cum I like to fuck aggressively hard and fast. I’m multi-orgasmic (which I have learned from my surprised partners this rare in males) and if I am really fucking turned on I can cum two, or sometimes three times within a few minutes. While eventually you can wear me out when I am fucking, when the roles a switched and I'm the one bend over I love taking it for hours. Who doesn't love being fucked?
While I love he primal feeling of fucking doggy style, holding your hips as I watch your wet cunt wrapped around my cock as you back arches and body squirms in bliss; I enjoy positions where we face each other so I can suck and play with your tits, look into each others eyes with intensity, and yes kiss. I also love girl on top positions, holding up the girl with my hands so I can control my speed and depth (best position to really fuck fast and hard, or be slow). And of course I am a big fan of 69. But I certainly enjoy lots of ways to fuck, on the floor, back seat, up against a wall, or....
New Play Partners and Friends
New Real Life Friends: I like meeting people. I especially like creative folk. If you want to meet up just ask or you can bump into me at the SFCitadel, BAGG, Mission Control, or The Armory/Upper Floor. I like going new places that mix good drinks and craft beers, play good music were where there is still a place to talk, or going on adventures in the Bay. Otherwise I do a ton of non-kink stuff as you can see below, if any of that sounds interesting send me a message.
New Play Partners: If you feel we might have potential don’t hesitate to message me, I love it when someone makes the first move, plus it is unlikely that I have seen your profile as I rarely browse profiles on this site. I would enjoy meeting:
-a fellow Switch for ongoing balanced play.
-a Dominant girl to push my limits, control me, mark and use me...
-a fun Submissive girl to have some fun with bondage, rope, marking, training...
-a cute girl (or the right boy, or any gender) that just wants to have some kinky fun.
When I comes to new male partners I am looking for Top or a Vers. As a Switch I am very much a Vers. I am looking for another fun boy. I am not looking for a Man. I am looking for another roughly around my age or younger. Over 30 is pushing it but there are always exceptions. I like a thin boy, muscles and gym toned is nice but not requirement. I just like a thinner and fit guy.
I should mention again that play is only possible after establishing mutual trust and respect. I am not looking for a quick fuck or fling. Right now I have multiple partners I share my life with, keeping them safe means keeping myself safe. While I am admittedly picky [if you haven’t already] please read the end of my Sexual Identity and Orientation section at the top to see my sexual preferences for partners. Send me a message even if you think you’re not my type, I am pansexual and most of my partners have been outside the box on what I “thought” I wanted.
Random Stuff About Me
I am an introvert. I am quiet, observant, and a people watcher.I am just as comfortable staying at home as I am in a crowded event. I make conversation with those who interest me, not out of boredom for small talk. I am quiet because I am constantly thinking. I am a very good listener and conversationalist once I get an idea of what you are all about. And get me talking about something that interests me or ask me what I am thinking about and I will go on and on. Many times I really need a person to just listen as I think aloud.
I speak my mind but am very easy to get along with.
I am loyal and protective; I will always stand up for myself and friends. Avoiding anger and violence at all costs, I will gladly defend myself and fight for others when it comes down to it.
I am a night owl.
I am usually pretty good at making people laugh, always good at cracking up my friends and making light of or relishing in an awkward situation.
I think my Viking ancestry is pretty bad-ass. I'm a American mutt with Norwegian/French/Irish blood.
I have a slight Bostonian accent.
I’m 6ft 3in tall, 178lbs.
