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Boy_X

31 / M / straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am ink, paper, and fire.

My Self-Summary

I'm solar powered. I like to dance. I like to sit and watch the world go by, then get up and be a part of it. I've got a cute smile, a supportive nature and a need to see and do interesting and, uh, educational things. I'm mostly straightfoward and unwittingly honest.

I like to do interesting things with fun people. Interestingness is based upon what I feel like at the time and includes travelling, dancing, investigating, eating, cooking and a load of stuff I never quite seem to get around to such as levitating, making weebles fall over and world domination.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a collection of dreams: dreams of sunshine and palm trees and coral seas, of mountains and sweeping plains; dreams of partying the weekend away or just having a couple of pints with some friends down at the local Real Pub. NB: Some of these aren't really dreams.

So, yes, I've got high hopes for a future that doesn't involve England a great deal. wouldn't call it ambition as such, but I know I'll get there sooner rather than later. In the meantime I'm working (I do try to avoid talking about coding - it's a dull topic for the most part), doing DIY travelling and holidaying when I can and generally filling the gaps.

I’m really good at

Surreality, getting overly excited about a million different subjects (given the right company), cooking - oh yes, I love to cook. Roast dinner, Thai stir-frys, Indian curries and so much amazing Italian food. I'm very good at eating, too. I like eating out when I can - there are so many lovely restaurants to choose from though!

I'm very good at building websites too, but like I said, I don't like to talk about it and I definitely don't like doing anything with them when I'm outside the office.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know what it is that people see, but they always seem to remember me. I always used to think it was the long, curly hair - but now it's all shorn I still always have to be the one saying: "I'm sorry, have we met?"

Maybe I've just got a bad memory.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Anything by Douglas Adams, Iain M. Banks & Jeff Noon (I heart sci-fi). Also, High Fidelity, On The Road, Of Mice And Men, Preacher
Film: Fifth Element, Primer, Back to the Future (and pretty much anything else with time-travel, The Big Sleep, Chinatown, The Blues Brothers, Oh Brother!...
Music: ott, NIN, The Killers, Flight of the Conchords, Depeche Mode, The Smiths, The National, Fischerspooner, Goldfrapp, Battles, Ulrich Schnauss, Solvent, Fisk Industries, Bach, Rachmaninov, The Beta band, Astrix, The Stranglers, Dire Straits... list goes on and on. Exclude: reggae, jazz, lounge, r&b

Essentially I'll listen to and watch most things. I like going to the cinema, especially for art-house films. Curzon Soho is great, and I love the boutique cinemas like upstairs at the PCC.

Food-wise, I'll eat everything (seriously - everything from steak to snake, dauphinouse to dog - put it on my plate and watch it disappear). Favourites are thai, italian, tapas, curry, steak...

The six things I could never do without

Sunshine, friends, good food, a kitchen, my passport and a cold beer on a hot day.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life, the Universe and Everything. Also: friends, memories, travelling, food, time, happiness, science, writing (too much time thinking, not enough doing).

On a typical Friday night I am

Partying, pubbing, having folks over for dinner, or having a QNI watching films... all the usual stuff.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I think I've been pretty open so far. I guess I could tell you about my love of bacon... no, everyone loves bacon.

Ah yes. I have odd verbal ticks. Odd phrases that I tend to insert in to places you'd normally just say 'um' or 'er'. Think of them as endearing - they're not there for everyone!

You should message me if

You want to go off on an adventure and need a partner in crime.
You fancy going out for dinner/a film/a coffee but all your friends are busy.
You need someone to tell you if your bum looks big in that dress (no! of course it doesn't! it's lovely :)
You think I may have some potential as something more than just a casual fling and are interested in seeing if that spark is there.