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BoyofClay

25 / M / straight / Single

Naugatuck, Connecticut

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5' 11" (1.80m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
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Education
Graduated from college/university
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Languages
English

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I am red-blooded, white-skinned, and the blues.

My Self-Summary

Sometimes I'm awake; occassionally I'm not.
Sometimes I give; sometimes I take.
Sometimes I feel; sometimes I wish I didn't.
Sometimes I laugh; sometimes I don't.
Sometimes I sing; sometime I don't.
Sometimes I love; sometimes I don't.
Sometimes I hurt; sometimes I like it.
Sometimes I write; occassionally I won't.
Mostly I eat veggies; I never eat meat.
Sometimes I smile; sometimes I don't.
Sometimes I'm wrong; mostly I'm not.
Sometimes I'm modest; mostly I'm not.
Sometimes I try; sometimes I don't.
Sometimes I think; rarely I stop.
Sometimes I am; occasionally I am not.

What I’m doing with my life

Being scattered and figuring the meaning of it all...also playing lots of music (myspace.com/eriktyler), sorting out all the maybes, being more and more fascinated by eyes...reading, writing, talking, and thinking...alot.

I’m really good at

I'm good at burning myself out. I'm good at entertaining myself (and often others). I'm good at math/logic (such a nerd). I'm good at overthinking everything. I'm good at listening, I'm good at explaining, I'm good at being repetitive and making lists. I'm good at other stuff too, but I tire of this, so you'll have to find out the rest yourself.

The first things people usually notice about me

I really have no idea...I'd like to use a street shout-out.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I'll treat this like "Desert Island"
Books: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, The Wind Up Bird Chronicles, any Kurt Vonnegut, any David Sedaris, Fierce Invalids
Music: Bright Eyes, Ryan Adams, Tom Waits, Magnetic Fields, Okkervil River, Elvis Costello, Wilco, Verse (so I cheated, this category was hard)
Movies: Something Wes Anderson, Persepolis, Eternal Sunshine, Fight Club, something Tim Burton (Guilty Pleasure: What Dreams May Come)
Food: meatless stuff (especially sushi)

The six things I could never do without

Guitar, pen/paper, something/someone to love, earth beneath my feet, passion, hope (I know these two aren't technically things, but I don't see why I would live without them).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

everything: underlying structures and mores of a constantly evolving society and culture (locally to globally and subculturally), my own desires/motivations/makeup, friends, music, truth (objective vs. subjective), purpose, to-do lists, etc.

On a typical Friday night I am

What's typical?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm not the ladyklling sort.
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I can solve a rubik's cube

You should message me if

You're a curious cat.