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38 • Hamilton, Ontario, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 31–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Feb 8
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from two-year college
- Rather not say
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs
I'm an unapologetic geek/nerd, and I like what I like. I'm not one to change myself for other people, but I'm nice enough that people tend to like me. :)
Right now I am a "Background Performer", which is to say, you could probably see me sitting in a chair, or walking down the hall of your favourite TV show. I'm looking to get into better parts in the future. Here's to being a STAR! LMAO!
There will be a long LED sign above the folks at the Toronto International Film Festival, I helped build that. I do the Electrical part.
Anyway, when I'm not fiddling with that, I'm usually fishing, camping, reading, watching movies, chatting, or, well, sleeping.
I like my "superheroes", and my friends and I can sometimes be heard in a strong, heated debate about who would win: Superman or Captain America.
I understand this won't gratify me towards most women, and I'm okay with that. If you don't like your guys a little of the norm, then I'm not for you.
In a relationship, I'm loyal, respectful, frustrating, honest, monogamous, affectionate, distant, talkative, open, close, a little dirty, closed off, very affectionate, VERY romantic, forgetful....
You'll notice a few negatives, well I'm human, and I accept that I have my flaws.
I have to apologize, though. I will not send you pics of my abs, car, junk (as in....well, my package), or money. Nor will I send you messages looking for sex, hook ups, booty calls, or pictures of your boobs. I will do my best to send you something with quite a few sentences, and I will even ask you a question or two.
I will also be hoping for an answer! Imagine that, a guy who actually WANTS to hear what a woman has to say.
I'd really like to find someone to take this journey with me.
Feel free to leave a message when you stop by. It's only polite to say hi when you walk into someone's space, yeah?
I'm almost in shock that I have to say this here. Yes, I have Leukemia. Chronic Lymphocytic Leukemia. I'm pretty much fine, and could go the next 40 years without serious symptoms. If that's too much of a problem, and too much for YOU to handle, then please don't waste my time.
Go ahead, I don't bite. Unless you ask.
Movie: Exorcist 3, Saw series, Casablanca, The Avengers, Clue, Pump up the Volume, Blair Witch, Real Steel, Sherlock Holmes, Tron, Source Code, Iron Man, Nightmare on Elm Street.....
TV: House (IT"S OVER!!!! WAAAAHH!!!) Dexter, Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Angel, Buffy, Reaper, X-Files, NCIS, CSI's, Criminal Minds, Mentalist, Supernatural
Music: Metallica, Ice T, Charlie Pride, Tchaikovsky, Mozart, Travis Tritt, Slayer, Godsmack, Oak Ridge Boys.... Anything, as long as it is good. I respect talent. And that isn't limited too one genre.
AND, of course, shows and movies I've been on: Pixels (Adam Sandler movie), Saving Hope (twice), Gold: The Eternal Quest (Discovery Channel movie), Reign (twice), Bitten, Remedy, 12 Monkeys, Spotlight (movie with Mark Ruffalo, Stanley Tucci, and many others) .
I've noticed a lot of people don't answer this, saying "I'm not willing to admit this, I don't know you yet".
While cute, it's a little....wrong. If you are not willing to admit something, then that does not fall into this category.
This category is about the most private thing you ARE willing to admit.
If you're not willing to admit your first thought, then go with the second. It's not rocket science, people.
Or you would like to test the waters with a guy who would actually CARE about you, and not just the fact that you're on my arm. Really, I'd think I was the lucky one.
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