Close friends say I am warm, empathetic, sympathetic, generous,
funny, and all kinds of other positive adjectives. My cats say I
don't pay enough attention to them. My students say I am too hard & demanding (but some of them later tell me that they learned more failing my class than in classes where they got good
grades!).
What do I say? To quote Winnifred the Woebegone, "I'm SHY, just
incredibly SHY..." (If you get the reference, you understand.)