The computer is a tool for writing and communications for me now though I used to be more geekie. I am the homemaker in my family of three at the moment but will be going back to work soon.
I love my rigid mountain bike and used to ride winter and summer as well as in between. A Shattered ankle in the winter of 2009 and a coronary in the summer of 2010 slowed me down a bit. I have been trying to get myself going more for both the mental and physical health benefits. I also have a passion for photography that I need to cultivate more.
I used to mention that my wife discovered that she was gay about 10 years back but somehow it got lost in snips here and there. oh there it is again.
polyamory, poly, paganism, pagan, spirituality, witchcraft, reading, photography, goddess, Thinking, saskatoon,biking, cycling, bicycling, mountain biking, tattoo, tattoos, tattooing, reading, writing, photography, Heinlein, social activism, tantra, sex magick, kissing, cuddles, insanity, witch, drums, drumming
I am spiritual, attentive, and patiently horny
not being normal right now and killing myself working. maybe soon but not right now
cooking, eating ( :> )
b)better than chocolate, antonia's line, tank girl, and other
movies and films good and bad.
c)most everything with blues, reggae and female singer songwriters topping the list.
Books, fiction and non, I have a reading addiction. Information somehow, the net is my mainline feed now but it has been other things in the past. I need social contact and a hermitage. yes I'm both extrovert and introvert.
cuddles n snuggles are essentials though.
I have a theory that people sometimes settle for sex when what they want and need is hugs, cuddles and hand holding. Basic touch, physical contact with another human adult. I truly believe in hugs and give them out as freely as I can.
pain makes me tired and grumpy. I am often working very hard not to be grumpy.
I am looking for adults that feel adults can relate to adults on an adult basis regardless of age. adult basis isn't code for sex. loving isn't sex, sex isn't always loving and friendship is a great form of love.