Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Married, polyamorous, pagan, depressed fibromyalgiac man and I am
ok with my life. These statuses are a bit limiting don't you think?
I am more bigender/genderfluid and Kinsey 3 but due to life
experience am slow to get on with men. Lots are fun to look at
though. I don't think waves were invented yet when I became a
feminist so if you do not identify as feminist or womanist I will
likely have a hard time understanding where you come from.
The computer is a tool for writing and communications for me now
though I used to be more geekie. I am the homemaker in my family of
three at the moment but will be going back to work soon.
I love my rigid mountain bike and used to ride winter and summer as
well as in between. A Shattered ankle in the winter of 2009 and a
coronary in the summer of 2010 slowed me down a bit. I have been
trying to get myself going more for both the mental and physical
health benefits. I also have a passion for photography that I need
to cultivate more.
I used to mention that my wife discovered that she was gay about 10
years back but somehow it got lost in snips here and there. oh
there it is again.
, mountain biking
, social activism
, sex magick
I am spiritual, attentive, and patiently horny
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
enjoying parenthood spirituality
not being normal right now and killing myself working. maybe soon
but not right now
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, accepting, understanding.
cooking, eating ( :> )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
a) Stranger in a strange land and to sail beyond the sunset by
Heinlein; battlefield earth by Hubbard; Mists of Avalon by Bradley;
Clan of the cave bear and the rest by Auel; Tao Te Ching;
Dhammapada; Utopian fiction; and on and on and on. well I started
on this site:My Goodreads.com
and am working on getting it up to
b)better than chocolate, antonia's line, tank girl, and other
movies and films good and bad.
c)most everything with blues, reggae and female singer
songwriters topping the list.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The more i thought about this question the more i realized that
there is nothing I am that attached to. Many losses would torment
me but I would come through in the end.
Books, fiction and non, I have a reading addiction. Information
somehow, the net is my mainline feed now but it has been other
things in the past. I need social contact and a hermitage. yes I'm
both extrovert and introvert.
cuddles n snuggles are essentials though.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
every thing, no thing, and how to get around to writing more about
both. Poetry Sunday. Love as a universal construct.
I have a theory that people sometimes settle for sex when what they
want and need is hugs, cuddles and hand holding. Basic touch,
physical contact with another human adult. I truly believe in hugs
and give them out as freely as I can.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
typical? what's that? reading, computer play of some sort¸ out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wrote someone here with a 0% match because I didn't believe it
was possible. her essays were indicating otherwise and I thought
why not exchange a few messages? well I was either wrong or there
was just no curiosity.
pain makes me tired and grumpy. I am often working very hard not to
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to or if you have no serious objection to doing so. I
will likely reply as I am funny that way.
I am looking for adults that feel adults can relate to adults on an
adult basis regardless of age. adult basis isn't code for sex.
loving isn't sex, sex isn't always loving and friendship is a great
form of love.
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