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31 Rochester, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:44am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Here's what you get it when it comes to me. Intelligence, a genuine interest in your well-being, sarcasm, a sense of humor, nerdiness, a metric fuck-ton(metric, not imperial) of scars that I earned(none of that stupid body mod scarring crap), cuddle whore, listener, homebody, adrenaline junky, and so much more than any silly list will give you.
What I’m doing with my life
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Underachieving with a plan. If you want to read that as I took a pizza delivery job after being out of work for a year from my 2nd consecutive knee surgery(6 months apart) and decided to take something to ease back into the workforce, go ahead.

But hey, get paid fairly well for a scut job and I get to drive around all day singing to myself. Maybe one day I'll incorporate some sick whitey dance moves just to complete the special needs image for the other motorists.

Aim to get my EMT-B next semester. Was set to take the courses this semester but life had other plans.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cuddling. Mostly with cats.

Good news is that I'm just a short sex-change operation away from being a crazy cat lady!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I really don't know. Could be my scars? Could be my scowl? Might even be me gaily skipping through walmart while singing the smurf theme song.

Actually, most people don't seem to notice the scars. Guess I'll just have to be more ludicrous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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For several years I had a small novella listing many of my favorite works of literature and cinematics. Each with a small blurb about why. Nobody else seems to give a shit, but if you do for some reason let me know. I saved it. Suffice to say. I like books. I like movies. I like television shows. Fantasy, sci-fi, and anything analyzing how utterly fucked up the human mind is and the terrible things it does to us will generally make me happy.

When it comes to music my tastes are eclectic. There is a song or artist in just about every genre that I like(or would if I ever listened to . Tend towards rock and, lately, folk/bluegrass.

Breaking Benjamin(Touring again!!! But couldnt' afford to take off and see their show in Buffalo on 10/17 >.<)
Mumford and Sons(which leads to The Lumineers, Trampled by Turtles, and more)
If you combine a violin and/or a bagpipe with my rock I will probably love it.

If you want to whine about your tractor eating your dog right before a grizzly bear did a cannonball onto it.. I'll probably hate it. After Johnny Cash, country just got.. lame and poppy.

And, as someone who grew up IN rural Tennessee, and on a farm no less, I can tell you that most "country" folk don't actually care for country. Classic Rock and Heavy Metal seem to be really popular. To be fair, this is anecdotal evidence, but for every country person I know who built tractors, worked the fields, and whathave you.. there are none I know who liked country music... I may be bitter from experiences in high school and college where spoiled kids who never worked for a damn thing in their life thought that by tossing on that designer cowboy hat, boots, and buying some stupid truck to blare out their Kenny Chesney made them "country". And no, it doesn't.

Random sidenote, Those last couple paragraphs were narrated in my head with my accent, which usually doesn't come out unless I'm drunk or half-dead with exhaustion.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Stockholm Syndrome. It ensures my kitties love me!

-Irreverence. Nothing is sacred. You have been warned.

-Understatements are also crucial to my ability to function in everyday society.

-Deadpan delivery! Can't tell a good punchline or pull a fun prank if you keep laughing.

-Toilet paper. Seriously, grab the wrong thing to wipe with while you're out in the woods and all kinds of bad happen.

-OCD. Because that gives me a sixth thing. I need a sixth thing. It asks for 6 things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nothing but fluffy clouds and smooth skies between one ear to the other.

Occasional turbulence in the form of a story idea or trying to remember how to play whatever song I'm listening to on the guitar.

And, when I do remember how to play a song, why does it sounds more like a small child screaming instead of music? Or is that the sound my cats and roomates make when I try to "music"? Hrmm. I sense a FOR SCIENCE!!! moment coming.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rocking myself to sleep in the corner as I recover from a day filled with people. I don't usually like people. But when I do... Nope, I don't. Persons are different. I like some persons.

I also have the unfortunate habit of deciding that I want to go to the gym after work on the weekends. Of course, my gym is closed by that point.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes when I take corners too fast while driving, I'll scream out, "We're all going to DIEEEE!!! AAAAHHH" And then I'll giggle.

I have absolutely no secrets, so if you have the fortitude to ask, I'll answer.
You should message me if
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If you like Zombies and you'd like to compare zombie tattoos.

Or you're bored.

Or I sent you a message. You should message me back then. Not only is it nice, but it also helps me make sure the internet isn't broken!

Or if you want to see how many pictures it takes to make it to the center of a non-photogenic Brandon-pop. (In my head that somehow translates to a good picture. Just... Shhh. Go with it.)

Or you can do it because sometimes it's just nice to have a conversation with someone who wants a long-term, preferably(though it doesn't have to be as long as it's consensual on all fronts) monogamous relationship. And knowing that if it does move to a date then sex is NOT the goal in the first 5 minutes. Obviously I need enough time to unset the table and make sure all the dishes are stacked by type and size. There's no OCD here.