34 Mountainside, NJ
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My self-summary
-I've worked for the same company since 2000 and am now currently a salaried OVERNIGHT manager.
-I am down for doing just about anything that won't maim me.
-I work out at the gym because I refuse to get fat again. Life sucked when I was overweight because of everything from finding clothes to painful joints.
-I am an Eagle Scout. I only mention this because it means I've done all sorts of the normal outdoorsy things. You name it and I've probably done it and have done it competently.
-I have siblings both younger and older, we are close in the way of our family.
-I have two (2) cats, one is a sneak and the other is a bully but both are very loving and eventually will let anyone pet them. The bully plays rough but he never breaks skin.
-I like to entertain myself with mind activities like reading, board games, card games and video games so I am never bored. People only get bored if they are boring people.
-I want to do new things and go new places but would rather not do this alone and my friends...well they are complacent. I love them dearly though and we have all known each other for a long time.
-That being said, I don't trust people that don't have at least that one friend that they have known forever and they don't see regularly even if not often. No relationship will ever be 100 % perfect and if you can't maintain a friendship for a long period of time even through the BS that happens in life then I will just not be comfortable around you, ever. Not even a little sorry. ^_^
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. I've my job, my hobbies, my cats, friends and family. I am always looking to improve though.
I’m really good at
It's a long list of mostly practical skills, I'm not really a party entertainer unless you want rude, sarcastic comedy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told my eyes are quite striking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Foods... Omnivore.
Music... I range from Kanye West and Eminem to Paramore and Lady Gaga with some Sarah Mclaughlin and SELECT country songs that are more like pop than country. I can listen to almost anything.
TV...Bones, House and Fringe are my three favorites but I also throughly enjoy The Big Bang Theory and 30 Rock. DVR is awesome because I am never chained to a TV.
Movies...I will watch anything entertaining but Shoot'em up is one of my favorites along with movies like the Illusionist and Shawn of the Dead.
Books...Fiction and fantasy mainly. My favorite authors being Brandon Sanderson, Issac Asimov, Arthur C. Clarke, Robert Jordan, Anne McCaffery, Mercedes Lackey, and most of all L.E. Modessitt Jr. But I will read almost anything you put in front of me.
The six things I could never do without
Honestly, at the end of the day life has taught me that the only thing I can not really go without is books. I can ditch my phone, my other electronics and basically anything else. Yes I like my stuff but that is all it is in the end, just stuff...I like to have things so I can let people borrow them and maybe if and when I have kids they will get to read or watch the stuff I like if they are so inclined.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes working, sometimes working out, other times trying to relax at home from a stressfull job.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think about a lot of things all the time. I can not help it, my brain never really shuts off and just always picks at things and flips them over and picks some more. I've gotten good at thinking about a lot things at once as a result. Sometimes situations get my full, undivided attention and I'm then forced to muffle the intensity so I don't appear different than usual to people. These situations are rare.
You should message me if
If you like what you read and what you saw and you think we will get along. Please have your life at least somewhat together and be in fairly decent physical shape.