While that's not entirely come together, living in Toronto I'm sure is the next best thing...
An ex-boyfriend described me as an "organic Class A feminist cunt" (oddly we don't speak to each other any more); it's about the least insulting thing you could tell me. While I try to be more mellow, *please* bear this in mind before you write something thoughtless, demeaning or misogynistic. Guys I'm mostly looking at you ;)
But I'm very open to anything from flattery to a message saying that feminism has been ruining the world since before women had the vote, as long as it's well written :)
In other things, I'm pansexual. I'm in a polyamorous relationship, have been about 18 months; My girlfriend is airhead_smiles; and the three of us are open to exploring with each other, other people.This doesn't mean we're only looking for short flings with people into group sex, but it is definitely fun to know people anyway. Also, we're open to adding a 4th to our committed triad, if things progress that far...
...remembering insane details, and, if it was from a book, the part of the page on which I read it.
...putting words together, creating coherent thoughts, if not always expressed in technically correct syntax or grammar. What can I say? I work in a bookstore...
...cooking. I can be inventive, and excellent but odd combinations (like meringue with Marmite shipped over from Britain) are my forte. Chocolate cake and ketchup doesn't work, though. Trust me.
...building anything with Lego.
Music: Old(er) favorites such as Springsteen, U2, Vanessa Williams, J.S. Bach, and Haydn over Mozart. More recently perhaps Adele, Imogen Heap, Florence and the Machine, and anything with a particularly tortured-sounding lead vocalist. And Lady Gaga, but that goes without saying ;)
Food: I'm mostly vegetarian but would be sad if I could never have a steak again; I will eat and enjoy almost anything, as long as it doesn't chiefly consist of bananas; but I especially love anything well presented on good quality china.
1. Family photos;
2. My Waterman 'Lady Charlotte' fountain pen, and thick, good quality paper;
5. My phone;
6. Fresh gingerbread.
...what an intolerant world we live in.
I want to marry Ron Swanson.
You think we're intellectual equals. I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer, but my mind is fast and smooth and I like talking, discussing, debating with people who can hold their end of the conversation.
You understand my/our understanding of what it means to be poly. It is much more than being in an 'open' relationship, and certainly not at all like swinging. We are in a closed 3-way relationship of equals, but maybe looking to try for fun - and maybe something more - with a fourth with anyone who's serious about it.
You think there's still too much patriarchy, heteronormativism, couples privileging, and general intolerance in the world, except for bad grammar and spelling which should carry jail sentences.
All that said, we can just be friends on here by all means. Chatting is fun too :)