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  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Aug 26
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm mad, bad, and dangerous to know. Okay, I'm not, really, but bonus points to anyone who knows who that was originally written about. :)

I adore intelligence and ambition, but emotional intelligence is also very important to me. I'm a geek/nerd/dork (pick your term) and I'm proud of it. We don't need to have the same interests, but it's important to me that you are passionate about SOMETHING. If it's something I'm also passionate about, great! If not, I'm also very interested, because I love to learn and try new things. I'm looking for a relationship where we compliment each other.

I am:
- A dork and proud of it
- A pilot
- A voracious reader
- A lover of both the city and nature
- A car enthusiast
- An indie rock nerd
- Guardian of a disabled house rabbit
- A bit of a gamer
- A sarcastic and dry wit
- A gardener
- A lover of midcentury modern design
- An admirer of pinup style
- Not a morning person
- A pretty novice cyclist
- Upset Futurama got cancelled again...
- ...but very into Archer
- Only interested in seeing snow from a comfortable distance... like on those mountains WAAAAAY over yonder
- Kind of a klutz
- Going to the gym and still waiting for the day I'll start to enjoy it
- Font of useless trivia
- Amateur historian
- Experienced conversationalist
- The sort of person who looks up something on Wikipedia and can waste 90 minutes without thinking
- Always trying to find the humor in a situation
- Kinda cute
- Up for trying anything twice
- Going to Coachella for the second year in a row (wanna go with me? I've got an extra ticket!)
- Always trying to improve
- An awful dancer who does it anyway
- Very sapiosexual

- Willing to let your geek flag fly
- A devourer of books
- Picky about your music
- Even pickier about your television
- Have hobbies and interests and like to talk about them
- Love having long intelligent conversations
- Can see at least two sides to an issue
- Are not dogmatic
- Can drive stick
- Not afraid to fly
- Are sapiosexual
- Think dressing up is fun
- Not afraid to get your hands dirty
- Have goals and the will to achieve them
- Think bunnies are cute
- Able to adapt to a change of plans or a new situation
- Can show me something new
- Enjoy long drives to nowhere in particular
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working and enjoying living in paradise. Career is good but I'm not married to my job. I do 9-to-5 and maintain work-life balance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
If you like useless trivia, I'm your man.

If you like to fly, I'm your man. (Seriously, I'm a pilot. Not for work, but for fun.)

If you like intelligent conversation, I'm your man.

If you like spirited debate, but can't stand divisive politics, I'm your man.

If you love both Archer and Mad Men, I'm your man.

If you have a passion you just HAVE to share with your partner, as long as you're interested in sharing his passions, too, I'm your man.

If your lists of "Things you've done," and "Things you want to try," are orders of magnitude longer than the list of "Things you're not interested in one bit," then I'm your man.

If we ever made a list of our "celebrity hall pass," the rarefied strata of individuals we would want our partners to let us have free reign to fornicate with if ever presented the opportunity, and you list Carrie Brownstein, of Sleater-Kinney, Wild Flag, and Portlandia fame, I'm your man.

If you've ever wanted to go to a concert to see a favorite band of yours, even though the concert was on a weeknight, and two hours from home, and you had to be at work at 8am sharp the next morning, and decided "the hell with it," and not only went to the damn concert, but also powered through and got to work at 8am (ok maybe a few minutes late) and then were ready to go out for drinks with coworkers after work like a boss, then I am DEFINITELY your man.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. People argue whether they're gray, blue, or some combination thereof... I'm not going to lie, they're my best physical feature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I will freely admit, I've not read a lot of fiction these days. It's something I really want to work on. Have I had books that have changed my life? I used to think so, but the older I get, the less important I find them. I used to be an idealist - maybe even a zealot - about my philosophical beliefs. Now I consider myself a pragmatist.

That said, I think my favorite books over the last few years have been "Guns, Germs, and Steel," "1491," and "1493," as they really have given me a whole new outlook on history, one of my very favorite subjects. I'd add to that list "Grounded," about a couple that tried to circle the globe without flying, and "The Box," which I will be straight up honest and say that it's about how the shipping container changed the world.

I told you I was a dork.

Much like fiction books, I'm way behind. It's probably my weakest interest in pop culture. Since the late 1990s, I feel like TV has been the medium that produced much higher quality content.

Seriously, in 2014, I saw The Lego Movie. I have a lot of catching up to do.

Currently my favored medium. My interests run in two very different directions:

- High-quality dramatic cable series, like Mad Men and Breaking Bad. My favorite of all time is still The Sopranos. Ignoring the Mafia stuff, I feel like that show is still the most realistic portrayal of a family I've ever seen. Every character on that show is someone I could see being in my own family.
- Absurdist comedy, like Archer, Robot Chicken, the various Seth McFarlane shows, Bob's Burgers, Portlandia, The League, and It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I enjoy stoner humor despite the fact that I don't get stoned. Draw your own conclusions.

I spent a lot of my college years getting acquainted with indie/underground/college rock/whatever you want to call it. I'm not going to list all the bands I dig, but I will say that if you look at Sirius XMU's Top 41 of 2013, the Coachella 2014 lineup, and a VERY healthy dose of Sleater-Kinney, Wild Flag, and Clutch, and you like what you hear, we need to talk.

I need to get a lot healthier in this area, but I love an eclectic meal, but I also love comfort food. Basically the only things I don't care for are bivalves (oysters, clams, etc.) I finally ate oysters. I can take them or leave them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- A trip to Big Sur at least once a year
- My pilot's license
- My pet rabbit, though yes, I know, he won't live forever
- The California sun, at least not for long
- My best friend
- Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. Thinking about the past is a waste of time!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hunting for a new experience. Doesn't matter whether it's a brewpub, trendy club, dive bar, or the start of a 600 mile road trip. I want to do something new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You're not getting that without at least a first date.
You should message me if
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None of the above, including my mugshot, deterred you.