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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:54am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(this profile is currently under construction.)
(prepare for a lot of text. One individual is not or should not be described in two or three sentences and some bulletpoints.)

Let us break down the borders of comfort that we've built. Let us cross these borders to seek the true meaning of things, to seek the truth about our own existence.

Let us find the beauty in atrocities.
Let us find the harmony in dissonance.
Let us find comfort in uneasiness.
Let us find humor in the macabre.
Let us find order in chaos.
Let us find comfort in discomfort.
Then we will not be bothered anymore.

We don't have to fool ourselves.
Most things we perceive are unchangeable.
But it is for us to decide how to deal with them.

Don't let other people dictate you what is wrong and what is supposed to make you feel uncomfortable.
It is your life, not theirs.


Congratulations, if you made it this far, you probably think I might be some sort of sick sect leader, or even worse. If so, feel free to click any button you like to leave this page.

Otherwise, if you still think of me as a human being, please go on! Most of the profiles on this site just try to display a distorted picture of their own being, in fear of revealing their weaknesses and imperfections, which might lead to the loss of potential visitors.

But isn't it the wrong idea to play a fictive role to be liked by strangers? I try to find people here who I can speak freely to and who like me for who and what I am, not for who and what they want be to be.
If users on here can't do that, it's totally fine.
But if there will just be one user that can, the result will be much more worth than any other fake bullshit.

You might already get a picture from the input above. I can try to make it a bit clearer at this point.
One way to describe a personality that is quite common across the internet is through the "Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI)".
There is a test on okCupid for that.
I just did it again to get the most actual result.
That test gives out a "INTJ".
I will try to comment on that as how far this result overlaps with my own perception.

First category:
More "I" (introvert) than "E" (extrovert).
People know me or get to know me might get a quite schizophrenic impression.
I don't really want to impress anyone, or really want to get lots of attention from others to make myself feel better. I don't want my mood to rely on others.
But because of that, I try to not really give a damn about what others think of me and as said above, I don't want to adjust my behavior to comfort others.
People that can deal with that are called my friends.
In this group of people, I can be quite extrovert, making jokes (a humoristic view on most things can help to deal with it more easily), starting a discussion or sometimes even taking the lead in situations where shit needs to be done.
But there are always moments, maybe even whole weeks i just want to stay in bed, shut off my phone and watch movies or play video games.
Sometimes, I even prefer ordering food online so I don't have to go grocery shopping out there.
So in total, I can rely to being labeled as "introvert".

Next one:
More "N" (intuition) than "S" (sensing).

More "T" (thinking) than "F" (feeling).
That's an easy one.
Feelings are not rational.
Feelings are always subjective and therefore arbitrary.
You can't come to universal and absolute conclusions on an arbitrary basis.
For me, true reasoning and Thoughts have to be universal to function between individuals, otherwise the common ground of communication is missing.
Don't get me wrong.
I do not dislike feelings and are still able to feel.
There is art in form of music or animated pictures (film) that make me shiver, let me get goosebumps or can even make me cry (fuck this manly man bullshit).
I am capable of deep and passionate love (I guess) and can feel the vibe of strong emotional moments.
I just try to separate these feelings from general reasoning.
There is room for both reasoning and feelings.
There is always time for brain and heart.
Just don't let these mix up with no control.

More "J" (judging) than "P" (perception).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I started studying mechanical engineering at university quite some time ago, and by the general education plan, I am supposed to already have my Masters degree - but I don't.

Hell, I'm not even done with the Bachelors degree, and society tells me that that's a bad thing. But you know what?
Some things don't give a shit about how many credit points you achieved. Accidents happen. People die. Friends might betray you anyways. After I'm done with studying, I will be working till the end of my time.

I'm not that much in a hurry for that.
I'll get there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly, at this moment, I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: To be honest, I have not read much recently.
Most of the books i got as presents were just written awfully.
Maybe that and the fact I am constantly confronted with scientific textbooks (mostly non-fiction), I didn't really developed huge interest in books or lost it at some point in the past. :(
The only fictional author that really immersed me was Michael A. Stackpole. I only read some of his fantasy books, but these were amazing.
Oh. And Harry Potter.
But that was just stuff everyone read at that time.
So, yeeahh....

Mostly mind-fucking related, because I like it when the movies play with your perception and mind.
Many examples (non mind-fucking might be included):
Shutter Island, Se7en, Inception, The Usual Suspects, Oldboy, The Machinist, Insidious, The Conjuring, Paranormal Activities, Sinister, [Rec], The Blair Witch Project, V/H/S, The Hole, The Skeleton Key, Pan's Labyrinth, Batman Triology, Scarface, Leon: The Professional, Memento, The Prestige, Gangs of New York, Lucky Number Slevin, Interstellar, Pirates of the Caribbean, Sweeney Todd, Secret Window, Sleepy Hollow, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, and many more.
Oh and because I just remembered:
The Muppet Christmas Carol <3

Shows: Well, Stuff like Family Guy and Robot Chicken are pretty funny, but I have to admit that modern Anime can offer amazing and intense content - from dramatic scenarios up to heartwarming love-stories. Yeah, that's my thing, deal with it.
I don't watch Game Of Thrones.
I don't watch Breaking Bad.
I DID watch LOST back then, but the ending quite ruined it.
Otherwise, we can still watch Adventure Time.

Music: Weird combination of Alternative, Metalcore, Folkmetal, House, Hardstyle, Industrial, EBM, and classic instrumental composition - everything can be awesome if done right. Even Hip-Hop! ;)

Pizza, Lasagna and other noodle-related dishes are not that hard to do and taste fucking delicious.
Even if not done perfectly, it's still not bad.
I'm not into fish at all, only shrimps are nice.
I'm not even into most of sweets, but there are exceptions.

Artists: Claude Monet, Salvador Dalí, Zdzisław Beksiński, Alex Grey
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There are various ways to go with this question.

I could go with the overly scientific approach, listing obvious stuff like oxygen or water, topped with other nutrients.
This would imply I would take the question really literately, which obviously was not the intention at all in the first place and by that would seem quite humorous making me a funny guy.

Or I could list materialistic stuff, some probably already mentioned on the part above, just to REALLY REALLY make clear that I like something ALOT.
Like Nutella.
I REALLY REALLY like Nutella.
But to be honest, these things are stuff that one can actually do without very well.

I could also list stuff like friends, family, partying and some emotion related things (love, trust, etc), which would make me look like a very social and friendly guy.
But that would be silly.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think you get the idea by now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
currently getting into bed early because my Fridays are quite exhausting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My father is dead.

boo hoo.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
the idea of building a pillow-fort and staying in there for a whole weekend with a friend appeals to you, playing video-games or watching scary movies and only leaving for the toilet or the door because the delivery-guy is bringing you unhealthy fast-food.

But if you just want to talk, I'm also ok with that ;)