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26 M Wilmington, NC

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–29
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 6:22pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Working on university
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Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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The online dating thing seems a bit awkward but I feel like I'm really restricting the potential of meeting someone by limiting myself only to the women I can meet in my day-to-day experience. Hence, the okcupid profile; trying to branch out. I am in my final semester as an undergraduate English student at UNCW and will be glad to be moving on to graduate school shortly. I would describe myself as an intellectual. I have many interests: Literature, movies, philosophy, politics, history, and basketball among other things. I have a kind nature and seek to cultivate a sense of peace and passion in life. I have a very intuitive and self-aware nature. These characteristics have served me well in my relationships and in life generally. I am open to new experiences and have a low tolerance for dishonesty, manipulation, and drama. I am super easygoing and don't get along well with people who take themselves too seriously. I am open to meeting people of different personality types but I think I would be most compatible with a woman who is self-aware, an intellectual, and shares a desire for that uncomplicated passion and peace.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spend some of my time taking care of my grandfather who is very elderly and infirm, while I also finish my undergraduate degree. My intention is to pursue the graduate work necessary to become a counselor, probably a Masters in Social Work, although the prospect of a graduate degree in English is gaining appeal for me.
I’m really good at
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I have a great facility with language. Empathy comes naturally to me; an impulse I must check to keep from overextending myself. I am an exceptionally sensitive person, a quality which has proven to be a double edged sword, often making the good times better and the bad times tougher.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: The Big Lebowski, Adaptation, Taxi Driver, Waking Life, Apocalypse Now, Blue Valentine, City of God, In Bruges, 2001, Vertigo.
Fiction: The Magus, My Antonia, White Noise, Go Tell it On the Mountain, Huckleberry Finn, The Brothers Karamazov, Don Quixote, Confederacy of Dunces.
Non-fiction: Walden Pond, Blink, Game Change, Bhagavad Gita, Dhammapada, The Education of Henry Adams, Battle Cry of Freedom, Team of Rivals.
Music: Kendrick Lamar, Wu-Tang, Fugees, Beatles, Vladimir Horowitz, Barrington Levy, CCR etc...
TV: The Sopranos is the best television series I've seen. The Wire and Seinfeld are also favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Air conditioning
-Reading material
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Non-duality, politics, females, higher education, self-improvement, my bulging pecs and biceps, the Dow-Jones...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing nothing to differentiate it from every other night of the week.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are looking for a drama-free, intelligent person. Also, emotional stability is very important to me; I am a very calm person and find it difficult to tolerate a chronic lack of equanimity in others.