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Brendajill

60 / F / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

Her Details

Last Online
May 21
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I know I'm not alone when I say that writing about myself is a daunting task. So, I turned to my friends and asked them to tell me which of my qualities they most enjoy, and also what they felt needed improvement. Here’s what they said:
On the positive side - I am loyal, caring, honest and kind to the people in my life. I am lots of fun to be with and extremely easy going. I am smart both intellectually and emotionally - in equal proportions. I enjoy almost everything except climbing up high precipices and looking down. I dance like nobodys' business, keep myself healthy and physically active, nourish my spiritual self, care deeply about the people I love and the world around me, enjoy a successful career, and don’t leave dishes in the sink.
On the negative side - I don’t drive. I’m not a great ball catcher. You probably won't want me on your softball team...
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to enjoy every moment!
I’m really good at
Intimate, playful and loving relationships; I am a good listener and am honest and compassionate. I'm a good dancer and love African, Haitian and Salsa music. I make great cakes and cookies, and am a good cook. I have created a home that is warm, welcoming and full of art.
The first things people usually notice about me
I can come across as reserved but as you get to know me you, you will experience me as spontaneous and playful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I most often read contemporary fiction. My favorite books of late are Faithful Place by Tana French and Dreams of Joy by Lisa See. My favorite author is Ann Patchett.
I dislike Broadway musicals, but enjoy theater and contemporary dance. My taste in music and food is eclectic.
The six things I could never do without
Friends and family
Intimacy
My Passport
Public radio
Coffee
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't think I have a typical Friday night activity. At times I spend it with friends, either having dinner out, seeing a movie, or just relaxing at home. During the summer I often go to Prospect Park to hear live music. Love it!
When the mood is right and my energy high, I'll occassionally go out at midnight to dance the night away at SOBs.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 55–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating