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My self-summary
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I moved to DC to be a hill rat. Sorry about that. And while that was years ago, I still do politics, but for a nonprofit, and I'd like to think I'm not that self-important.

DC is home, although I originally moved here as a transient and the idea to move elsewhere is never far. But! I've been here for a long time and I love it and I can't handle the Boston cold anymore, which makes me feel disturbingly disconnected from my New England roots. DC has great beer, great places, and great people. I do like my beer, and DC has lots right now.

I am optimistic, pessimistic, and contradictory. And that is totally canned.
What I’m doing with my life
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Drinking lots of coffee; doing crosswords; working; biking a lot (commute, hang out with friends, whatever); hanging out; contemplating going to shows and occasionally going to them
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding humor in everyday life, even when I'm in a crappy mood.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm very open and honest about myself, and everything. It's a fault. Seriously. My sense of discretion is ashamed of me.

Also, the length of my hair, both on top of my head and on my face, changes with some regularity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've given terribly short thrift to books. My dad instilled in me a love of crime fiction, and I still read 'em for whatever reason. Until recently I avoided classics, thinking they'd been covered by others and I'd find my own way. I'm trying to cover those (and I love The Great Gatsby, which I actually read for school). Shortcomings aside, Neil Gaiman introduced me to a lot of things with The Sandman graphic novels, and I continue to follow his writings.

TV. I dunno. Buffy was one of the greatest things ever on TV and I watch the reruns all the time (not even counting Netflix). I used to be really into Doctor Who, and I'll totally still watch it, though I sometimes wish I didn't. I watch some of the big shows, including Game of Thrones (despite its horrible faults), except I also just don't care about some others.

Music. More important than TV. But I hate listing individual bands or artists, because I feel like it gives short shrift to other bands and genres. I'm glad my parents instilled a love for Bob Dylan and Simon & Garfunkel, among others. TV On the Radio might be my go-to band. I also have an abiding love for REM. Went to LCD Soundsystem's last show and it is a memory of mine to be treasured! I also regularly go back to New Pornographers and Mountain Goats. My playlist (I have seasonal ones on Spotify) has some Kendrick Lamar, Passion Pit, and Florence + The Machine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A music listening device; Friends; A pen and paper; Pointless learning; Some sort of camera to capture the unexpected.

The fact that the camera and music thingamajigger are currently the same telephonic device is giving me some trouble here. Trouble not only in the listing, but in my judgement of the worthiness of my items.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too much and too little at the same time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a happy hour with my friends from work. After that maybe a BBQ or house party, if I don't go home to catch up on sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Someone once told me I look like Eliot Spitzer. I wasn't upset, but I also want you to know that absolutely no one agreed with them.
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