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Brian-J-

34 M Ashland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Dec 9, 2012
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am curious about the world and hopeful about the future. I like people who share those qualities. I also like nerds, activists, and great story-tellers.

I'm a neophile and go out of my way to find great adventures, new challenges, and meaningful experiences. So, of course, travel plays a big role in my life and my world-view.

I'm super into camping, back country hiking, running and other outdoor activities that end in '-ing' as well.

I like both being gay, and gay people in all their rainbow-flavored diversity. I also value my heterosexual friends, and heterosexuals in general for all of their rainbow-flavored diversity. I also like 'both, and' sentence structure.

I never pretend to know something I don't. I always ask questions when I have them. I strive to listen, with my whole attention when people are speaking. And I value disparate and dissenting opinions and ideas in political and social discourse so long as they are well considered and based in a logical framework.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fighting the never-ending battle to Bring Back Crystal Pepsi!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Competitive solipsism, correct applications of irony with great comic timing, and quizzical looks in answer to logical fallacies and ridiculousness (as judged by me).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My cunning use of creative compound adjectives.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Stranger in a Strange Land - Robert Heinlein
Dune - Frank Herbert
Henry V - Shakespeare
To Say Nothing of the Dog - Connie Willis
The Poems of John Keats
Dream Boy - Jim Grimsley
Call Me By Your Name - André Aciman

Movies:
Metrosexuality
Hedwig and the Angry Inch
History Boys
Good Will Hunting

Shows:
Quantum Leap
Sports Night
The West Wing
Battlestar Galactica
and recently, The News Room

Music:
Stars, The National, Taken by Trees, Belle & Sebastian, Ella Fitzgerald, Geographer, Matt Nathanson, Orbital, The White Stripes, Moby, Radio Head, Die Antwoord, The Pixies, Miranda Lambert, Tired Pony, Dolly Parton, Middle Brother, And so many many more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'd be hard pressed to come up with six things to fill this list. There're few things in the world that I couldn't do without with a little extra effort and creativity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
So very many things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Changing the world. Or drinking with friends. One of the two, or sometimes both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll tell you on our third date, sometime between my second and fourth cocktail.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends