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30 Santa Cruz, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 26
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Girls, please stop messing me for sex. I am on OKC for a real connection and it's irritating that every other message is based around sending me naked pictures and trying to "smash."

I'm not just some piece of hot sexy meat, waiting to be torn apart by your sexual desires! I have feelings too!!

...said no man ever in OKC lol
What I’m doing with my life
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Having a lot of fun and working towards financial freedom!

I'm currently a manager at a local bank :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at talking, listening, and making others feel comfortable in any situation. I'm good at my job. I'm good at sleeping (I'm a non-snorer and really hope my match is the same way...yes seriously). I'm also good at meeting people and making friends....o right, and I'm the best pillow fighter in the world
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me, it might make a good first message :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My all time favorite book is The Alchemist. I read it about once a year to get in touch with my life and my progress towards my goals.

I don't own a tv, just a computer monitor for movies which I barely watch. Yes, I love a good movie, but I'd much rather be joking around, having sex, talking, or trying to get out of the house with my significant other. (FYI if you think that including sex is inappropriate, then I'd rather not talk to you. Sex is so natural and profoundly important in a's also a lot better than watching TV!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good sleep
Good conversation
New experiences
Back scratches and having my hair played with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random funny things lol
Someone who would be fun to be in a relationship with!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm always doing something new, fun, or spending time with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hah well, when I make my bed in the morning I always make it differently....I'll arrange all the blankets in a different pattern. Or I'll throw the pillows in an abstract way that I think is artistic lol.
You should message me if
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If you pay off your credit card balance every month. You should not message me if you have a lot of debt.

If you would do any of the adventures listed on this website, especially the shark diving one ;)

You're respectful, energetic, social, and if you have a good attitude. Ideally, I'd like to be able to travel anywhere in the world with you, and be classy enough to be welcomed anywhere (you'd be surprised how far you can go with a smile and good manners). You should also message me if you're naturally fun, honest, and like to get out of the house :)

Also, message me your dream vacation. This matters to me so much because if we have similar tastes in vacation, we will probably get along very well. Personally, my dream vacation does not involve laying on a beach for 10 days. I actually feel more exhausted after laying on a beach then if I went on an adrenaline vacation, scuba vacation, road trip, shark diving, hiking up a volcano, pushing our limits a little, or something that is actually fun and makes me feel energized. Yes, I lay on beaches and can relax (trust me), but I like to explore and try new things all the time.