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30 Santa Cruz, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 8
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Instead of summarizing myself, I feel like listing things I've done. Hopefully you'll be able to get a feel for how I am and what I like:

I played ice hockey for 13 years, two in college.

I graduated with a degree in Accounting because I enjoy business.

I accidentally also got a minor in Philosophy because I kept signing up for more classes, simply because I enjoy good conversation and reading.

The reason I'm in California is because I fell in love with Capitola/Santa Cruz. I quit my job at a CPA firm and moved out West....I'll never move back :)

I enjoy martial arts, but I haven't had the time to get back into it. I got a good job in February and have been very busy.

I have a website, but I'll only share it with you if you ask :) One of my posts was featured on a friends website because she liked it so much.

I enjoy seminars. I've been to Landmark, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Tantra Yoga, and other seminars. I enjoy growth and I plan to always be learning interesting things, then testing them out.

The first car I bought was a 1995 Dodge Stealth. I didn't know how to drive a manual transmission at the time, but I loved the car so much I bought it and figured it out later.

I rented a Nascar and drove it as fast as I could, 15 laps around the track.

I traveled to New Zealand alone, without a single was amazing and I changed my life because I loved it so much.

My family has a lakehouse in the Pocono mountains. I spent a lot of my life there and have some incredible friends because of it. That's the only place I miss on the East coast.

I went to Hawaii in January without any plans (again). I arrived and then found a place to stay. I met a guy who lives in Mountain View, and he's now a very close friend. We had a very memorable trip and now we're friends for life.

I've skydived 8 times. I don't want to pursue a license, but I'd jump again if it was your first time and you needed someone to go with. I enjoy showing people a good time.

I rarely watch TV. The only times I watch TV is when I'm at someone else's house and there's nothing to do....which rarely happens.

I went to Europe and planned to go all over the place for three weeks....but I found a beautiful island in Greece, became scuba certified, and stayed there for half my trip because I enjoyed it so much....there wasn't any reason to leave except I had a return flight to catch :)

None of my friends are shocked when I meet a new person in line. It happens all the time.

I've nude modeled twice (yes I got paid for it, that seems to always be the follow up question for some reason). It seemed interesting and vulnerable, so I gave it a shot. It was a great experience and the artist is now featured in the Crocker Museum in Sacramento. I had lunch with him and his partner at their grand opening/appearance at the Crocker. He's one of the most inspiring people I know.

There isn't a single lie in this profile. I practice integrity all the time :)

I'm looking for a classy girl with spice and an undeniable desire to live life to the fullest. Will you travel with me? Will you laugh hard and not care who's around? Will you meet new people with me (sometimes that means meeting guys AND girls, as long as they're good people)? Will you take some risks with me? Will you be my friend and my lover? Wll you communicate without yelling?

What will you do.... :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Having a lot of fun and working towards financial freedom!
I’m really good at
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I'm really good at talking, listening, and making others feel comfortable in any situation. I'm good at my job. I'm good at sleeping (I'm a non-snorer and really hope my match is the same way...yes seriously). I'm also good at meeting people and making friends....o right, and I'm the best pillow fighter in the world
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me, it might make a good first message :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My all time favorite book is The Alchemist. I read it about once a year to get in touch with my life and my progress towards my goals.

I don't own a tv, just a computer monitor for movies which I barely watch. Yes, I love a good movie, but I'd much rather be joking around, having sex, talking, or trying to get out of the house with my significant other. (FYI if you think that including sex is inappropriate, then I'd rather not talk to you. Sex is so natural and profoundly important in a's also a lot better than watching TV!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good sleep
Good conversation
New experiences
Back scratches and having my hair played with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random funny things lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm always doing something new, fun, or spending time with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hah well, when I make my bed in the morning I always make it differently....I'll arrange all the blankets in a different pattern. Or I'll throw the pillows in an abstract way that I think is artistic lol. It always looks neat, but it's always different
You should message me if
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If you pay off your credit card balance every month. You should not message me if you have a lot of debt.

If you would do any of the adventures listed on this website, especially the shark diving one ;)

You're respectful, energetic, social, and if you have a good attitude. Ideally, I'd like to be able to travel anywhere in the world with you, and be classy enough to be welcomed anywhere (you'd be surprised how far you can go with a smile and good manners). You should also message me if you're naturally fun, honest, and like to get out of the house :)

Also, message me your dream vacation. This matters to me so much because if we have similar tastes in vacation, we will probably get along very well. Personally, my dream vacation does not involve laying on a beach for 10 days. I actually feel more exhausted after laying on a beach then if I went on an adrenaline vacation, scuba vacation, road trip, shark diving, hiking up a volcano, pushing our limits a little, or something that is actually fun and makes me feel energized. Yes, I lay on beaches and can relax (trust me), but I like to explore and try new things all the time.