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30 Santa Cruz, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:14pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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Recently Open Water certified. If you know what that means and if you're interested, hit me up!

It's difficult to summarize myself in such a small space, but I think the most important thing for you to know is that I moved to California about four years ago and I'm a very happy person that gained so much more than I even dreamed when I took the chance to move here.

I had a wild adventure in New Zealand and California, quit my nice job back east, and drove out to California a few years ago. So I guess you can say I'm fun, adventurous, and spontaneous :) I meet people all the time because I like talking and getting to know everyone. I feel like everyone has something to offer, whether it be their friendship, business, or insight. I have a lot to offer, and want to share it with someone who will appreciate me and give me a degree of freedom (i.e. no jealousy, lighthearted and friendly, able to go out with our own friends for a night or two a week without having to "talk" about it, etc...) . If I can fall in love with you more than I love freedom and life, we're probably soulmates or something :)...or maybe we can share freedom and life together.

I am looking for someone who is smart, kind, attractive, and has at least one hobby or passion. I'm always attracted to women with high energy and an eagerness for a lot of experiences in this life.
What I’m doing with my life
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Having a lot of fun and working towards financial freedom!

I'm currently a manager at a local bank :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at talking, listening, and making others feel comfortable in any situation. I'm good at my job. I'm good at sleeping (I'm a non-snorer and really hope my match is the same way...yes seriously). I'm also good at meeting people and making friends....o right, and I'm the best pillow fighter in the world
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me, it might make a good first message :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My all time favorite book is The Alchemist. It's encouraging and empowering. I read it about once a year to get in touch with my life and my progress towards my goals.

I don't own a tv, just a computer monitor for movies which I barely watch. Yes, I love a good movie, but I'd much rather be joking around, having sex, talking, or trying to get out of the house with my significant other. (FYI if you think that including sex is inappropriate, then I'd rather not talk to you. Sex is so natural and profoundly important in a's also a lot better than watching TV!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good sleep
Good conversation
New experiences
Back scratches and having my hair played with
California :)

There are three types of people in this world. 1) those who can count and 2) those who can't.

Humor ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random funny things lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm always doing something new, fun, or spending time with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I repeat myself when I get nervous haha I repeat myself when I get nervous.
You should message me if
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If you pay off your credit card balance every month. You should not message me if you have a lot of debt.

If you would do any of the adventures listed on this website, especially the shark diving one ;)

You're respectful, energetic, social, and if you have a good attitude. Ideally, I'd like to be able to travel anywhere in the world with you, and be classy enough to be welcomed anywhere (you'd be surprised how far you can go with a smile and good manners). You should also message me if you're naturally fun, honest, and like to get out of the house :)

Also, message me your dream vacation. This matters to me so much because if we have similar tastes in vacation, we will probably get along very well. Personally, my dream vacation does not involve laying on a beach for 10 days. I actually feel more exhausted after laying on a beach then if I went on an adrenaline vacation, scuba vacation, road trip, shark diving, hiking up a volcano, pushing our limits a little, or something that is actually fun and makes me feel energized. Yes, I lay on beaches and can relax (trust me), but I like to explore and try new things all the time.