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44 / M / Straight / Married

Schenectady, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am an outdoorsy, artsy kind of goober. No really. I'm extremely lucky to have found a wife who seems to like that I'm a goober and still finds me sexy. She's also my adventure buddy. I love to rock climb, mountain bike, hike, travel, and experience new things, or to just hang out and relax.
What I’m doing with my life
Good question. I'd say I'm enjoying my life.
I’m really good at
I'm somewhat good at a lot of things, but not really good at much. I'm creative and good with my hands. I do ceramics as a hobby, and photography, and like to think that I'm somewhat good at those.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my butt. Just kidding. But seriously. I often wonder what people first notice about me, but I have no idea. I definitely look a lot younger than I am. People usually guess lower 30's, but sometimes younger. I certainly don't feel like I'm 43, and most definitely don't act like I'm any older than 25. (Though my wife would probably say I act much younger, like 12.)

Not 12, more like 15. You're definitely past puberty. (says my wife)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite authors: Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett, Naomi Novik. I mostly read fantasy books, though sometimes nonfiction.

Music, hmm. I like a pretty broad range of rock. Everything from Tool to Tori Amos, Radiohead, John Butler Trio, Techno and Blues.

I'm a big action movie fan, though I love movies in general. I was a film studies minor in college, but I didn't let that make me a movie snob.

I love art and would some day like to make art for a living. I make ceramics as a hobby and I'm trying to teach myself photography. I love looking at something I made and thinking, "Wow, I made that."

I'm also a big fan of food. All kinds. I'll try just about anything, as long as it's not olives. My favorites, besides any form of chocolate, would be sushi, or salmon, or steak, or cheese, or...well anything.
The six things I could never do without
My wife.
My girlfriend.
Chocolate.
Sex.
My bike.
My wife.
My girlfriend.
Chocolate.
Sex.
Hmmm, there could be a pattern here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Completely random things. Sometimes I think about the next ceramic piece I want to make, or what I want to photograph next. But usually sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting on the couch at home watching a movie with my wife, or on our way for a weekend adventure trip. Sometimes we're out with friends or at a potluck/game night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have very little shame, and I try to live my life with no regrets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You love life.
You want someone to take you rock climbing or mountain biking, or you know some fun trails to mountain bike. I'm new to the area and I'm kind of aching to get on my bike.
You've seen Serenity or Firefly enough times that you can quote them. ("Well, my days of not takin' you seriously are certainly comin' to a middle. " Mal.)
You are open minded and like new experiences.
You're interested in meeting new people and making new friends. I am married, but we are open. In other words we are married, but date other people on a limited bases. And yes my wife knows that I am on here, she is as well.