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29 Berkeley, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hiya! I was born and bred in New York, but I've lived all over: grad school in England, several stints across the Middle East, China for a little while, even Kansas City. Two years ago, I returned from a 15-month deployment to Afghanistan and I'm now in the middle of my third year of law school. I worked for the Army as a social scientist, going into the field and learning about the lives of the Afghan people. It was wild.
What I’m doing with my life
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Back to school - this time for law.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a bookworm. Here are some of my more recent reads: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, The Big Short, SuperFreakonomics, The Catcher in the Rye (which was kind of terrible), Consider the Lobster, Catch-22 (lovelovelove), What The Dog Saw, Coming Apart by Charles Murray, and Why Nations Fail, which was totally fascinating. Even more recently: My Name is Red, Lawrence in Arabia, and Redeployment.

I don't like Hemingway. Or Lolita. Apologies if that's a deal breaker.

I'm really into the Avett brothers, and have been for years now. Whenever I'm in New York on a Monday or Tueday, I go to a Bluegrass jam in the village and it's pretty much my favorite thing in the city. I badly want to learn the banjo. Also: Sam Cooke, Otis Redding, and Ella Fitzgerald; Led Zeppelin, Creedence Clearwater, and The Doors. Brahms' Trio No. 1 and Rhapsody in Blue. Also, just discovered Kacey Musgraves. She's real good.

Lawrence of Arabia. Did you have to ask?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, bagels, seltzer, kitsch, thick socks, and good company. It's the little luxuries that make all the difference.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My personality stats seem just a little over the top. I'm not romantic? What if I promise to buy you cheese?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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What finally convinced me to join OkCupid was OkTrends: fascinating stuff. Yup, I am a nerd and I love data.
You should message me if
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you are equally ambivalent about the online scene and/or you have an equally insatiable appetite for adventure.