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BrightlyMelodic

31 Westwood, NJ Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Sign Language (Okay), Yiddish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello. My name is Emily.

I am a passionate, loving, caring woman in her early 30s. I live at home for the moment, but am planning to start working so that I can move out. I am open minded about most things, but am staunchly liberal, and perhaps even a bit of a socialist. If you have a problem with that, then please do not bother to write me.

I am interested in a lot of things within both the arts and the sciences, and I sometimes get overwhelmed by how much I feel I have left to do before I die.

I am a nationally certified Phlebotomist and EKG technician, and am preparing to take the CNA (Certified Nursing Assistant) final exam. I am a musician who has a small catalog of songs produced and recorded. And I am a writer. Mostly fantasy/fiction... though I do enjoy science writing as well.

I get a lot of messages. It is a bit overwhelming. Please don't fault me for not responding... I'm just as nervous as most of you are. Thanks :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At this point, I'm basically starting my life over. I am a college grad, bound and determined to finish Nursing school. But I am taking time to take care of myself and figure out where and who I am in life. It is proving to be a successful endeavor. In the mean time, I'm a musician and a poet, and something of an artist, though you won't see any of my work in a gallery any time soon. On the other hand, I am a scientist and an intellectually curious person who loves learning (especially new languages).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a really good friend.

I'm also pretty sporty. I love Volleyball, Tennis, tossing around a football... Softball... etc.

I love to write music/songs, sing and generally be musical.
And Science...? It's my best friend.

Ask me more specifically, I can't think of anything else right now.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to be quiet and withdrawn until people pull me into conversation. I keep my opinions to myself, mostly, unless I feel something needs to be said. Friends who know me best know that I can get goofy and silly, but I know how to tone it down when it's not appropriate.

People who don't know me at all will probably tend to think that I'm depressed, but I don't really think I am (at least not anymore). I am, however, in a very tricky transitional stage in my life, and tend to be kind of defensive about my past accomplishments, and where they are taking me in the future.

At the same time, I know how far I've come and am proud of myself for really sticking to my fight to get healthy, and claim a place in my life. I know I am speaking in vague terms, but I don't feel comfortable posting specifics on a public profile. Depending on how you ask, I may give you more details.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
•My Family
•My friends
•My laptop
•Being Musical (I want to start an a capella group)
•My health
•My past. Learning from the mistakes I've made, and looking back on the successes I've had.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I am going to do with my life. I am passionate about a lot of things and I find myself stuck. I'm going to start looking for jobs shortly, after I get my CNA/PCT license. I am passionate about helping others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can't always tell what I'm going to be doing on a Friday night, but I'm opened to pretty much anything :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not willing to go into details in my profile. This is the internet after all. However, I will be candid and personal if you decide to talk to me through private message, or meet me in person.

For right now, I'm mostly just looking for friends. If anything else develops after that point, I'll be opened to talking about it.