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Brightstar55

70 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a very romantic man who is looking for a woman who is
intelligent, knows her own mind and who will want me if we become friends, but not need me to complete her. She will be complete already. I yearn to be able to show affection and tenderness to a woman. I so much want to touch and be touched by someone who also is romantic. It would be great to find someone who wants to be a pal. She will be interested in ideas. She will read books, enjoy all sorts of music from classical to jazz and remember the great days of rock and roll at least from the retro perspective. She will enjoy fine dining, trips to art galleries, concerts, and watching classic movies. She will have a strong interest in lovemaking, be curious, sensual but concerned for our safety. She will only want these relations with a man who intends to win her heart first. If
this is right for both of us, that will be me. I say this because I
believe that while our romance will not likely lead to a marriage
contract, our time together will not be casual, but intensely
satisfying and there will be strings involved, the heart strings of
genuine and freely expressed affection.

I am told that I am a handsome man and dapper. I wear a bow tie that I tie myself and like to get dressed up to go out with a woman. I am self employed and though not rich really do not have to work much any more. I devote my time now to becoming an abstract painter and a musician on a Euphonium horn. I am also a fairly accomplished photographer. When in the mood, I write love poetry. Perhaps there is one or two inside me that will be inspired by you.

However, I am human and not an answer to a woman's prayer. I can be obtuse at times and a bit argumentative, but never condescending. I am a good listener and much prefer the company of a sensitive, intelligent woman than locker room gossip with the boys. I also exercise two to three times a week and am fit with exceptional stamina for my age. In terms of love making, I believe that giving is essential and to this my heart, mind and body are dedicated. I am not a smoker of tobacco. I do enjoy a wee dram of single malt
scotch.

As for yourself if you have read this far. Looks are not likely to
be the critical factor. If you are gorgeous that's fine, but I am
mostly interested in character, personality and yes, again,
intelligence. I am able to find beauty in most women and I am
usually looking at a deeper level anyway. An attractive woman who is not that interested in her appearance would be ideal. I would show more than enough interest for the both of us. As I said, I am a romantic man. It would be essential that you have a good heart and are spiritually inclined but not religious because I believe in the redemptive power of love between a man and a woman.

Well the ball is in your court. If you think all this might be what
you are looking for, send me a message. In closing I will attach a poem that says something about me as a man and my views on a woman's right to be for herself and not for me. If this moves forward, perhaps a coffee date in a place of your choosing where you will feel safe?
______________________________________
Beauty Smiles at Me by Chance
Beauty smiles at me by chance
And not intention.
The smile is not for me
But is contained within and for herself.
My moment in her path
Is accidental.
As she passes by on my walk
This chilly autumn morning,
The sweet smell of a her perfume
Rolls over me like the wake
Of a power boat on a crystalline lake,
Swamping all who dare venture into the water.
I turn without volition, seeking the source
Of this divine sublimation.
Particles bound each-to-each,
The elixir of her scent
Draws me backwards
On a gossamer of galvanic attraction.
The moment has moved on,
While we remain constant.
Each on our opposing course.
For her, no hint of having shared my moment,
For me, a sacred inscription
On the waxen tablet of my mind.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As little work as possible as a management consultant so that I can turn my life into a work of art through-- Painting,
Music, Photography, Reading, Conversation, Walking,
and The History of Ideas
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Friendship, communication, making others feel good about themselves, problem solving, seeing both the forest and the trees and telling the Emperor he has no clothes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I do not read lots of fiction but do enjoy the works of Mann, Hesse, Rushdie, Douglas Adams, Philip Pullman, Cian Carson, etc. I enjoy popular books on quantum mechanics, cosmology, relativity, mathematics and neurology (Oliver Sacks). My favorite films are classics from the 30s and 40s, but include more recent classics like Groundhog Day, Pleasantville, K-Pax, The King's Speech and Boyhood. I like live jazz, baroque concerts, and some opera. I like to cook and eat Italian, Thai, Schezwan and I also make scones and fresh preserves.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, my children, learning and ideas, friendship, humor and passion for life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Awakening in this life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with someone nice, reading or watching a classic film.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You wish to explore whether to "let complex impulses make something".