I am a very romantic man who is looking for a woman who is
intelligent, knows her own mind and who will want me if we become
friends, but not need me to complete her. She will be complete
already. I yearn to be able to show affection and tenderness to a
woman. I so much want to touch and be touched by someone who also
is romantic. It would be great to find someone who wants to be a
pal. She will be interested in ideas. She will read books, enjoy
all sorts of music from classical to jazz and remember the great
days of rock and roll at least from the retro perspective. She will
enjoy fine dining, trips to art galleries, concerts, and watching
classic movies. She will have a strong interest in lovemaking, be
curious, sensual but concerned for our safety. She will only want
these relations with a man who intends to win her heart first. If
this is right for both of us, that will be me. I say this because I
believe that while our romance will not likely lead to a marriage
contract, our time together will not be casual, but intensely
satisfying and there will be strings involved, the heart strings of
genuine and freely expressed affection.
I am told that I am a handsome man and dapper. I wear a bow tie
that I tie myself and like to get dressed up to go out with a
woman. I am self employed and though not rich really do not have to
work much any more. I devote my time now to becoming a musician
working on jazz classics on my horn. I am also a fairly
accomplished photographer. When in the mood, I write love poetry.
Perhaps there is one or two inside me that will be inspired by
However, I am human and not an answer to a woman's prayer. I can be
obtuse at times and a bit argumentative, but never condescending. I
am a good listener and much prefer the company of a sensitive,
intelligent woman than locker room gossip with the boys. I also
work out 4-to 5 times a week and am fit with exceptional stamina
for my age. In terms of love making, I believe that giving is
essential and to this my heart, mind and body are dedicated. I am
not a smoker of tobacco. I do enjoy a wee dram of single malt
As for yourself if you have read this far. Looks are not likely to
be the critical factor. If you are gorgeous that's fine, but I am
mostly interested in character, personality and yes, again,
intelligence. I am able to find beauty in most women and I am
usually looking at a deeper level anyway. An attractive woman who
is not that interested in her appearance would be ideal. I would
show more than enough interest for the both of us. As I said, I am
a romantic man. It would be essential that you have a good heart
and are spiritually inclined but not religious because I believe in
the redemptive power of love between a man and a woman.
Well the ball is in your court. If you think all this might be what
you are looking for, send me a message. In closing I will attach a
poem that says something about me as a man and my views on a
woman's right to be for herself and not for me. If this moves
forward, perhaps a coffee date in a place of your choosing where
you will feel safe?
Beauty Smiles at Me by Chance
Beauty smiles at me by chance
And not intention.
The smile is not for me
But is contained within and for herself.
My moment in her path
As she passes by on my walk
This chilly autumn morning,
The sweet smell of a her perfume
Rolls over me like the wake
Of a power boat on a crystalline lake,
Swamping all who dare venture into the water.
I turn without volition, seeking the source
Of this divine sublimation.
Particles bound each-to-each,
The elixir of her scent
Draws me backwards
On a gossamer of galvanic attraction.
The moment has moved on,
While we remain constant.
Each on our opposing course.
For her, no hint of having shared my moment,
For me, a sacred inscription
On the waxen tablet of my mind.