http://tedxtalks.ted.com/video/Polyamory-Leon-Feingold-TEDxBus - if you want to understand me, watch this video and tell me honestly what you think, good or bad. It would mean a lot.
January 2015: Happy New Year! My girlfriend and I have decided I should look online for a thin/athletic girl we both find attractive; we've never had a threesome and she's really curious about watching me have sex with someone else. All the other stuff below still applies, but this is our new fun mission for 2015.
(I'm honestly not sure whether I'm using OKC for its intended purpose at this point, but I'm not the kind of guy who hides behind anonymous "Casual Encounters" postings on Craigslist - so show me what you got, Internet.)
Jun 2014: I have become somewhat of an advocate for polyamory on a national level; if that's not your bag, baby, swipe right - or whatever you do on OKC to say thanks but no thanks. I'm personally looking to meet new awesome people who love shared adventures, responsible nonmonogamy, and genuine connection, in whatever forms they take: casual, emotional, experiential. Surprise me.
Sept 2013: Another year, another amazing Burn in the Nevada desert, and another chapter in the awesome life of yours truly. Life is good. Life is very good.
Sept/Oct 2012: I've returned from Burning Man 2012 with a phenomenal attitude - and one of my new 'resolutions' is to explore a meaningful relationship with someone awesome AND polyamorous. So I'm dusting off my OKC account and taking my dating life a little more seriously... starting right now. I'm still open to short-term hedonistic adventures (especially with skinny little things I can throw over my shoulder and carry off somewhere for a quickie), but I'm getting pretty excited about the idea of building towards something incredible with someone incredible. I know, it's sort of a weird dichotomy, but so am I. We now return you to your regularly scheduled profile. -LF
I'm just this guy, see? A tall, athletic, reasonably good-looking, polyamorous, creative, thoughtful, friendly, and thoroughly immodest guy who craves intellectual challenges, travel, and interpersonal activity of all kinds.
Like many of us, I got sucked into OKCupid after taking a test (for me it was the Ethical Slut test - the eponymous book has spent decades as a polyamory primer, by the way, but I'm in the process of writing my own, more modern take on it). Since then I've vacillated between visiting daily, and not for months, so if I don't reply quickly to an email, it's probably because I haven't seen it. My mom taught me better than to blow off messages from people who took the time to write me.
Otherwise, I'm available on Facebook, AOL, and a couple other places under the same screenname/email address (BringHeat@aol.com) - you just need to try to find me! Shouldn't be hard. But I only really use AOL and FB these days.
Am looking for the unicorn who piques my interest on many levels. So if you're interesting, brilliant, sexy, in great shape, and want to meet your match in a guy, say hi and see what happens. (Hey, I have no problem being picky, and neither should you.)
I am Leon, Feingold, and you're not.