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Britandmore

56 / F / Straight / Single

Essex Junction, Vermont

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 1:30pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Shy: No
Extrovert: Can be
Confident: Mostly
Needy: Not intentionally
Fit: Reasonably
Happy: Mostly
Honest: Yes (so it is my age!)

I'm on this site to expand my base of male friends. Most of my career has been in male dominated careers, and I like guys. My current job (social work) has more women, who are also nice creatures, but...I'm needing some more testosterone in my life. Oh, and yes, with the right person, some bedtime could be fun!

Aside: I've answered the question about the most private thing I'm willing to put here, which seems to be more than most people do. But when it comes to answering sexually intimate questions online I find myself exercising discretion. My profile is, therefore, not reflective of me in those areas.
What I’m doing with my life
Working: it's a job, not my life and that's new!
Raising my offspring: Thankfully that's mostly behind me, and she's not dependent on me.
Exercising: Is it for me or the dog?
Learning: Constantly
Future: Seeking a retirement career idea.
I’m really good at
Problem solving.
Laughing.
Living alone. And not sure that I want to forever.
The first things people usually notice about me
My accent. Despite nearly 40 years of living in the US!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recent movie: The Silver Linings Playbook. Very funny, with a care about the topic presented.
Favorite movie: Pretty Woman.
Recent book: Smut by Alan Bennet (and it is!) Fifty Shades has received so many bad reviews for writing I'm avoiding it.
Recent Music: Billy Bragg
Favorite music: Coope Boyes & Simpson
Newest recipe: a nice mushroom risotto that my non-cooking brother sent.
Most used possession: aside from my car? My very old iPad. It's music, books, movies, games, communication central.
Food: Yes, I like it!
Recent restaurants: San Sai and El Coritjo
The six things I could never do without
A sense of humour
Some time alone
Company
Savings
...and space to add more things I can't do without!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Fixing the world: starting with me!
On a typical Friday night I am
Walking the dog, contacting a friend, going to an art show or a potluck.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am happy I did it, but I probably should never have been a mother.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 47–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you see something that resonates and want to learn more. Be specific, I tend not to respond to generalized (read boilerplate) messages. Especially Not ones like this:
"Hi beautiful! Are the men in your city blind?"