Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My age inaccurate—that's on purpose. (But my profile picture is
current.) If you're interested enough to ask, message me and I'll
tell you why—it may not be for the reason(s) you think. :)
I've lived in Michigan my entire life, but have no intention of
dying here. Looking for a travel buddy? Let's talk. Got a place in
another country? Let's talk. Another state? Let's talk.
I am a nightowl and an eager learner. An explorer of places and
ideas. If I can't make it with my hands, I'll make it with my
words. Some day, I'd love to try the Arthur Aron 36 questions
I am GGG, and as Dan Savage would further put it, I'm looking for a
good guy to (eventually) do dirty things with. I tend to be
sexually, but not socially, submissive.
4 sewing machines
3 days accident-free
0 fucks given
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting accustomed to seeing at least two sides to almost every
proposition. I'm probably not arguing with you, simply offering
another POV. If it's maddening for you, try to imagine being me.
(This does not mean I don't have definite opinions on some things.)
The world is too big for dogma.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Confusing people. I got moxie; I am not oppositional. The people
who have described me as “intimidating” are people who haven’t
spoken to me yet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Documentaries, documentaries, and more documentaries. Not
necessarily the new type of pop-doc that wears its agenda on its
sleeve... if I want a fictional narrative, I'll watch a fictional
It makes me laugh when people say they find docs "boring" because
fiction becomes much duller to me by comparison to the broad scope
of reality. (See also, why I am atheist.)
Museums/galleries, dive bars, conventions, meetups, philosophy,
live performance, debates/lectures/demos, road trips, estate sales,
sewing/crafting/making. Take your pick.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
At least one of my sewing machines.
At least six of my fingers.
At least two wheels.
At least a quart of water.
At least 85% of my IQ.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's important to you? Not what you think should be important,
but what do you really prioritize? Why have you chosen the people
in your life? Do you feel as though you've chosen them at all? What
are the bundled up words perched at the back of your tongue,
waiting for you to cry out?
Also, how come my profile doesn't have the "most private thing
you'd admit" question?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who cares about typical nights? Let's talk about ideal nights.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you like intelligent women who make oblique references and are
lousy at smalltalk. (1: I'm fine, thanks! 2: Yes, I'm single, like
it says in my stats. 3: No, I haven't had any "luck" here. 4: What
I'm "looking for" eventually is long term child-free monogamy. 5:
Yes, I'm going to hold it against you if you ask me any of those
questions, since I just answered them.)
Or if you are expert at frying pickles.
Who are you looking for?
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