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46 Southfield, MI Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–51
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:01pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Dropped out of space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
There aren't a lot of pictures of me. That isn't because I don't do things, it's because I am DOING things, and not taking pictures.
I've lived in Michigan my entire life, but have no intention of dying here. Looking for a travel buddy? Let's talk. Live here but have a place in another country? Let's talk. Another state? Let's talk.

I am a nightowl and an eager learner. An explorer of places and ideas. If I can't make it with my hands, I'll make it with my words. In my spare time, I write for an arts/entertainment/culture blog. Almost everything is arts/entertainment/culture.

I am GGG, and as Dan Savage would further put it, I'm looking for a good guy to (eventually) do dirty things with. I tend to be sexually, but not socially, submissive.

In sum:
5 siblings
4 sewing machines
3 days accident-free
2 left feet
1 ex-husband
0 children
0 gods
0 fucks given
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting accustomed to seeing at least two sides to almost every proposition. I'm probably not arguing with you, simply offering another POV. If it's maddening for you, try to imagine being me. (This does not mean I don't have definite opinions on some things. I am atheist, after all.) The world is too big for dogma.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Confusing people. I got moxie; I am not oppositional. The people who have described me as “intimidating” are people who haven’t spoken with me yet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Documentaries, documentaries, and more documentaries. Not necessarily the new type of pop-doc that wears its agenda on its sleeve... if I want a fictional narrative, I'll watch a fictional movie.

Museums/galleries, dive bars, conventions, meetups, MST3K, audiobooks, podcasts, philosophy, game night, live performance, debates/lectures/demos, road trips, motorcycles, estate sales, sewing/crafting/making. Take your pick.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
At least one of my sewing machines.
At least six of my fingers.
At least two wheels.
At least a quart of water.
At least 85% of my IQ.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's important to you? Not what you think should be important, but what do you really prioritize? Why have you chosen the people in your life? Do you feel as though you've chosen them at all? What are the bundled up words perched at the back of your tongue, waiting for you to cry out?

Also, how come my profile doesn't have the "most private thing you'd admit" question?

HEY! I don't have the "the first thing people notice about me" question either! What gives!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who cares about typical nights? Let's talk about ideal nights.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. like intelligent women who make oblique references and are lousy at smalltalk. (1: I'm fine, thanks! 2: Yes, I'm single, like it says in my stats. 3: No, I haven't had any "luck" here. 4: What I'm "looking for" eventually is long term child-free monogamy. 5: Yes, I'm going to hold it against you if you ask me any of those questions, since I just answered them.)

Or if you are expert at frying pickles.

PS Be aware that I probably won't message you first. It isn't a mars/venus thing, it's an "ugh, enough with the passive/submissive people already!" thing.