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45 Southfield, MI Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–51
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:19pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've lived in Michigan my entire life, but have no intention of dying here. Looking for a travel buddy? Let's talk. Got a place in another country? Let's talk. Another state? Let's talk.

I am a nightowl and an eager learner. An explorer of places and ideas. If I can't make it with my hands, I'll make it with my words. Some day, I'd love to try the Arthur Aron 36 questions experiment.

I am GGG, and as Dan Savage would further put it, I'm looking for a good guy to (eventually) do dirty things with. I tend to be sexually, but not socially, submissive.

In sum:
5 siblings
4 sewing machines
3 days accident-free
2 motorcycles
1 ex-husband
0 children
0 gods
0 fucks given
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting accustomed to seeing at least two sides to almost every proposition. I'm probably not arguing with you, simply offering another POV. If it's maddening for you, try to imagine being me. (This does not mean I don't have definite opinions on some things.)

Also fitting into my new job. I think that's going well, but one never knows; not until too late usually.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing chicken with turkey vultures.

This is a real thing that happened. There were vultures. On my street. In Southfield.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Documentaries, documentaries, and more documentaries. It makes me laugh when people say they find docs "boring" because the truth is, fiction has become much duller to me by comparison to the broad scope of reality. (See also, why I am atheist.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
At least one of my sewing machines.
At least six of my fingers.
At least two wheels.
At least a quart of water.
At least 85% of my IQ.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's important to you? Not what you think should be important, but what do you really prioritize? Why have you chosen the people in your life? Do you feel as though you've chosen them at all? What are the bundled up words perched at the back of your tongue, waiting for you to cry out?

Also, how come my profile doesn't have the "most private thing you'd admit" question?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who cares about typical nights? Let's talk about ideal nights.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. like intelligent women who make oblique movie quotes and are lousy at smalltalk. (1: I'm fine, thanks! 2: No, I haven't had any "luck" here. 3: What I'm "looking for" is eventually long term child-free monogamy.)

Or you know the secret to eating the last 4-5 bites of a Bucharest shawarma without it disintegrating into a deliciously garlicky mess (or eating the tinfoil).

Or you're hoping I'll message you. Because I'll be honest, I'm probably not going to message you. You'll have to message me to find out why. ;)