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36 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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New York born, but raised upstate in a small town in the tiny county north of Westchester. I am thankful for all of my old friends and the experiences I had, but I knew that my place was in NYC even at an early age. That life is just not my speed - for me, you just can't beat the people and the manic energy of this place. There's plenty of fantastic places around the world, but this is home.

Beyond that, my main passion is traveling. I've hit three continents so far, and intend to collect the set (barring Antarctica - I fancy myself the worldly type, but I draw the line well before places where you could die just by being just strikes me as, well, excessive).
What I’m doing with my life
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The company for which I cubicle-drone does background screening - I am almost at my 10-year anniversary (on April Fool's Day, which may or may not be a sign). It certainly is not what I grew up dreaming to be or anything, but it does pay the bills.

There is something to be said for job security in this day and age, isn't there? If nothing else, I at least have that.

Besides, in the last two years. they have sent me to Mumbai and Manila. You now know I like to travel if you read the above paragraph (You are reading, right? You better be, there's a quiz at the end), and I'm sure you can imagine that I like traveling on the corporate dime even more.

For fun, I play soccer a few nights a week. It appeals to the part of me that wanted to take up something that I had no apparent gifts for and become good at it just through sheer bloody-minded determination. Now, I'm a swashbuckling goalkeeper-of-fortune. I should start charging per game...
I’m really good at
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- Writing, but I don't do it nearly enough.

- Soccer

- Texas Hold 'Em

- Befriending just about every type of person there's rare when I can't get along with someone.

- One-liners.

- Determining by the trailer whether a movie will be worth watching.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have preposterously blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading material: I'm working on the Tale of Genji at the moment. Other favorites are - Sherlock Holmes, Shakespeare, The Art of War, Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Fever Pitch, and political blogs not written by wingnuts.

Movies: I have seriously slacked on movies - other than Skyfall, I think the last one I saw in the theater may have been The Wrestler. On DVD, it was Aguirre, Wrath of God. Great movie, but man what a raging nutter Kinski was! So yeah, I'm one of the 4 people on the planet that doesn't have Netflix.

TV: Sherlock, and sticking with How I Met Your Mother even though he should have met the mother about four seasons ago.

Music: Dropkick Murphys, Iron Maiden, VNV Nation, Gogol Bordello, Rolling Stones, Flogging Molly, Covenant, And One, Guns N' Roses (the actual band, not the crap cover band touring now), Eminem, GZA, Manu Chao, Oasis, The Pogues, and on and on and on.

Food: I'll eat just about anything, but I don't like condiments of any kind. Yes, I'm aware that it's weird.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Spotify, my passport, my digital camera, Guinness, my friends and a good pair of goalkeepers' gloves.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people will view this moment in history 100 years from now. How awesome it is that my twin moved up here with my nieces. Where in Europe/Asia I want to go next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing soccer, and then going out for a cheeky one afterwards. I had been determined to not turn out for any of the 952 teams requesting my services on Fridays, with the intention of "keeping my Fridays free". That lasted, ohh, three weeks?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't get the Hunger Games phenomenon. At all. I mean, life is so short - why read about children murdering one another? I despise horror movies for the same reason...the idea of spending 90 minutes cheering on as people get massacred doesn't compute with me.
You should message me if
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A sharp sense of humor and intelligence are mandatory. If you have a bit of a feisty streak, all the better. If you did not answer the "should creationism be taught in schools?" question with "all sides should be heard". If your politics are right-wing or you are the religious type, we probably won't be compatible.

Oh, and since every second person on here is vegetarian or vegan, I'm cool with you if that's what you want to do, as long as you're cool with me ordering the bacon cheeseburger.