Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We're a positive extroverted poly couple. She's 38, bi, happy,
curvy, sassy and can cheer up just about anyone. He's 42, straight
but not narrow, snarky, handy, but can switch to goofy easily.
We're here for socializing, shameless flirting, finding PiC's for
late night adventures and building meaningful friendships and
We surround ourselves with snarky intelligent and sassy people who
like to drink whiskey, dance, collaborate on projects and talk
about social (in)justice.
We're both burners and last year marked both of our 12th year! We
love meeting fellow burners but being a burner doesn't shape our
lives. Just enhances it a tad.
We're both curious and find pleasure in finding the hidden gems of
life- be it in art, music, food, or the random events that pop up
in life! I've taught her how to weld in the shop (she's a natural
and loves it!) and I'm an understudy for a metal sculpturing artist
in Oakland! We love to learn and curiosity is always a driving
force with us.
We're both rated as ENFJ.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Him: Building, making, learning, being inspired and
Her: Learning and growing by forever looking to meet new people and
gain new experiences.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building stuff, motivating, instigating and assimilating. Cheering
people up, turning a situation around, asking the questions people
don't want to answer.
I can be a total goofball or a serious diplomat. I take things as
they're given to me. I have a long fuse for most things, a short
fuse for a few things.
Giving awesome hugs and making people smile. I love being out and
about meeting people and doing things but I'm also really good at
staying in and relaxing...kicking my feet up or baking something
yummy (our newest creation is a coconut cream pie!!!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Him: Multi colored mohawk feminist manly man with a wicked
I am very much like a big kid in being so I enjoy life how I want
too. Picture a teenage bear mixed with some tigger with a dash of
hobbs. Im serious when I need to be, but if fun and deviance can be
involved. It will happen.
Her: super curly hair, contagious smile, and bubbly personality
I'm a hugger! ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Reading I don't get a lot of time to do lately. However. I have
read Hunter S. Vonnegut, King, cook books, How to's and many many
manuals. I actually enjoy a good technical manual with a snifter of
Movies: Fight club, aliens, art house flicks, horror, sci fy,
comedy and indy films. Can't stand brainless action flicks or
romantic comedies. They make me itchy....
Music and me have a very loving relationship. Anything from the
clash to Mozart. Guns and roses to The Xx. Electronic to old
country. Getting it yet?
Currently playing hot chip.
Food. I love food and can take it very seriously. I like most food
but have a strong hatred towards runny egg yolks and hard boiled
eggs. Long story.
Him: Thai, Cuban, Caribbean, small plates, Spanish, American New
and old, molecular gastronomy, French pastries.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Our family and chosen family!
Our passions (zest)
Witty banter and flirting (fun)
Fresh veggies and a good butcher (food)
Great beer and whiskey (yum)
My hands to build and touch my beautiful sweetie (touch)
We get some extra since there are two of us! ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Him: Art, metal, glass, wood, food, beer and whiskey. I think of
how I can affect the world to make it a better place. Challenging
old out dated schools of thought! Projects I want to build, make,
conjure. How to make things better and more effective! Social
justice is always on my mind in all realms. My friend put it
perfectly. I'm a good guy more then a nice or bad guy. I do what's
right and has the most profound impact. I also think how blessed I
am to have such a very strong support group of my chosen
Also wondering why people consider weed to be a drug and would
"Never" but consider alcohol to be ok cause it's legal...
And why do people on OKC complain about people not taking the time
to write a well rounded message but when someone does, they still
don't write back. Makes me think they're full of shit.
Her: The weekend and how I'm going to spend it with my friends and
loved ones. How to put together the next social gathering or event
(previous parties included a mac n cheese cook off, a meow vs rawr
party, a black light forest theme, and a super hero and super
villain peace conference!). What project I want to take on (usually
something that includes crafts or sewing cool costumes). Annnd
during my commute I think about why people don't seem to know how
to merge, change lanes, or go at a "regular" speed. ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical by definition is nowhere close to our lives. Every weekend
is unique and different hands down!
We could be driving our trailer to Mendocino, the Sierra's, a
burner event or campout party. We could be running long on a happy
hour in Oakland (that's happend more the once.), a art showing is
sf or Oakland, having a big party or intimate gathering at our
house, trying out some new restaurant, going to a themed costume
party or simply taking it easy at home and doing cuddle movies on
our giant bean bag chair.
Who does typical??
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
We run an event group on facecrack that is a social party group
that we either create outtings and events or piggyback on other
events. oh and some of us dress up in any variation of a bear or
other woodland creatures. No we arent furries!
Our group has no patience for bigotry, racism, homophobia or any
bullshit to that tone. We have a blast!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*You want to create, collaborate, inspire and work on
projects/ideas and/or art installations together!
*You're excited about life, laugh at apathy and always want to do
the good thing.
* You're light hearted and know how to roll with life's
*You aren't shady, have hidden agendas and respect our one rule of
*You're interested in friendship and find both of us attractive and
are interested in dating/playing with us together :)
*You're emotionally and physically healthy. You strive for healthy
communication and personal growth.
*You don't put people in a "box" and judge people for their beliefs
*You can deal with a multitude of lifes challenges. You own your
***Please spare us the one line response. It makes you seem boring
and shallow. Which possibly means you might NOT be a good fit. We
enjoy people that have a depth and the ability to carry their end
of the conversation. 😊
***We aren't looking to fulfill unicorn fantasies or to spice up
our already awesome sex life. Sex is easy. We want to find a friend
and partner in crime. Someone to grow a lasting long
***We're also here to establish friendships with well rounded, well
adjusted, poly-sex positive-kinky, genuine and sincere people. No
matter your orientation, gender choice or relationship status.
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