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39 M Poughkeepsie, NY

My Details

Last Online
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Middle Eastern, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly), Irish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"Now you're here, I can see your light. This light that I must follow."

Hello. Welcome to my profile. :-)

I'm a Knight in shining armor, seeking my Princess.

I am a very spiritual (but not religious), caring and sensitive gentleman. I meditate daily.

I'm very much an old-fashioned romantic. and am very affectionate and sensuous.

I love touch and massage, and am very Tantric.

I greatly value Emotional Intelligence in my friendships, and am seeking similar qualities in my partner.

I love humor, and find this quality very attractive in a lady as well. :-)
I believe it is one of the beautiful things that keeps us young.

I ultimately seek Soulmate Love...My Twin Flame.

However, for the time being, until that day arrives, I am open to casual, but meaningful friendships, and intimacy.

I like to describe myself as a Spiritual, Kinkalicious Sensualist.

What attracts me most to a woman? Her smile, her eyes, a warm, caring demeanor, and a loving personality. :-)

For pets, I'm cool with a cat. But I am very partial to dwarf rabbits. :-) I had a small black dwarf rabbit named Licorice, and would love to have another at some point.

One thing I do need to mention up front, is that I was diagnosed with MS in 2011. I look at it though as a big blessing, as I have met some wonderful friends because of it, and have learned so much in the last two years about nutrition and holistic health.

I've also developed a great daily exercise routine. I do intend to get beyond the MS in time, through nutrition and detox, and am balancing this with conventional medicine. But for now, I'm happy to have learned to manage it.

Regarding kids, there is a small part of me that would love to have a child. However, it is not something I feel is feasible at the present time. I also feel that the world right now is much too volatile a place to raise a child comfortably, especially when it comes to drugs and violence. I truly wish it was not.

Two of my best friends have told me that sensitive, caring, honest men like myself are very rare. So some potential matches may look at my profile, and immediately think I must be too good to be true. My reaction is, take a chance, and get to know me. You may end up being pleasantly surprised. :-)

Oh, and I am the type of man who truly believes that real women have curves. If you can be described as Curvalicious, with Dangerous curves in all the right places, you have found a man who will truly appreciate your luscious feminine beauty...

"How foolish it is to think that we love only with our hearts. When I love, I don't want to love with a blood-pumping machine. I want to love with every inch of my body. I will love you with my knees and fingertips, with my elbows and collarbones, with my freckles and my dimples, my wrinkles and my scars. And I will love you with all the spaces between".
What I’m doing with my life
Living everyday to the fullest.

Also, I received my license in Massage Therapy in 2010, and my
Master-Instructor certification in Integrated Energy Therapy (IET) in 2012.

I like to think of it (IET) as a "supercharged" version of Reiki. :-). I love being an energy healer.
I’m really good at
Hugging and kissing
Sharing comfort/closeness with another human being
Giving a relaxing, therapeutic or Sensuous/Tantric Massage
Giving an energy healing
Holding a meaningful conversation
Music trivia
Word Play (I love playing with our English language in everyday conversation)
Fixing/Maintaining Computers and Automobiles
The first things people usually notice about me
My big brown eyes, my warm smile, my calm, caring and loving demeanor. :-)

Also, that I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite type of storytelling, is a genre I have termed a Spiritual, Sci-Fi Love Story...some of the following favorites fit this description, while others are close...

TV: Babylon 5, Roswell, Big Bang Theory, Heroes,
Top Gear (British & US), Quantum Leap, Dr. Quinn Medicine Woman, Journeyman, Family Ties, That 70s Show, Knight Rider, British comedies (Blackadder, The Thin Blue Line, The Vicar of Dibley, Rowan Atkinson).

Movies: Bicentennial Man, The Adjustment Bureau,
The Thirteenth Floor,
Back to the Future, Definitely Maybe,
The Letter Writer, The Notebook, It's a Wonderful Life,
Contact, Hereafter, What Dreams May Come.

I am LOVING Abraham-Hicks audios on YouTube lately. They are helping me to stay centered, and focus on my goals...

I love to read books about the metaphysical...The Power of Now, Conversations with God , The Celestine Prophecy, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Kryon's The Journey Home. I also enjoy Nicholas Sparks novels, though it's been a while since I've read one.

I also enjoy listening to Hay House Radio and BBC Radio 2 on my tablet.

Music and heartfelt lyrics are a HUGE part of my life. Does not matter which decade it's from. It soothes my soul, and makes me dance inside. I even find some music to be euphoric and even orgasmic in its beauty.

One of my favorite things to do, with someone I care for, is to just sit around, talking about our favorite singers, movies, and TV...and watching them on YouTube together.

A Few Favorite artists:

Enya, Loreena McKennitt, Heart, The Carpenters, The Pet Shop Boys, Tom Petty, Roxette, Def Leppard, Metallica, Classic Rock, 50's & 60's Rock & Roll, 70's love songs, 80's, 90's, and little from today.

And a few favorite songs:

The Parting Glass, a traditional Irish song, which has been performed by almost seven different artists. The amazing thing, is that every single version is beautiful in its own way.
You Can Do Magic by America
I Shall Believe by Sheryl Crow (from the Roswell soundtrack)
It's All About Soul by Billy Joel
Hero by Enrique Iglesias
As I Lay Me Down by Sophie B. Hawkins,
Winner or Miracles by The Pet Shop Boys,
Hands by Jewel
From a Distance by Bette Midler
Any song by Roxette
Ordinary Miracle by Sarah Mclachlan,
I Love Rock n' Roll by Joan Jett

Foodwise: I love Italian, Chinese, Middle Eastern, Indian, and Thai food. I also like to cook, and have quite a repertoire...and I love garlic.
I also make two gallons of green smoothies every week...
and lately I've been loving Penne with white clam sauce...
The six things I could never do without
Love/Comforting Hugs/Touch
Good Friends to listen and reflect with
The Universe
Exercise and Yoga
Fresh air in my lungs
Great Food...I am no doubt a Foodie

Just want to add...two things I can live without, but prefer not to...
A fun car to drive and my Google Nexus tablet... :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What can I say, I'm a romantic...

Astrology & Astronomy
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing and taking it easy,

Watching a movie...or classic TV on my tablet.

Spending time with friends.

Saging my apartment for good energy flow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a very lovingly naughty side to my personality...and enjoy GIVING pleasure as much as receiving it.

You can find me on FetLife, under the same name...

I'm also a big believer that the couple that plays together, stays together.

Finally, if I had a bumper sticker on my car, it would read, "My Karma Ran Over My Dogma". Kinda the story of my life.:-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a deeply spiritual, compassionate, glass half full, affectionate, empathic & sensuous woman, with a playful, passionate, loving, girl next door aura about you...If you're also nurturing, and lovingly naughty, with dangerous curves, that's very good.

I believe in caring for your partner properly... putting them above all else, loving unconditionally and fiercely. You have to love someone as a package deal... not just the good/fun parts, it's a person as a package that makes them WHO they are.

If you can't/won't make your partner your priority, I am NOT the one for you.