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40 M Poughkeepsie, NY

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Middle Eastern, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Arabic (Poorly), Irish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"Now you're here, I can see your light. This light that I must follow."

"I have loved you for a thousand years...I'll love you for a thousand more."
-Christina Perri

"And if it don't come easily,
one thing you must believe,
you can always have trust in me,
because my heart will always be
yours honestly..."
- Van Halen

"When we're together, it's like hot coals in a fire..."
-Stacey Q

Hello. Welcome to my profile. :-)

I like to think of myself as a Knight in Shining Armor, seeking his Beautiful Princess.

I am a veryspiritual(but not religious), caringand sensitive gentleman. I meditate daily. And I am an Empath. I feel the emotions of others very easily. I like that this makes me a very compassionate man.

I'm very much an old-fashionedromantic. and am very affectionate and sensuous.

I love touch and massage, and am very Tantric. I like to describe myself as a Spiritual Sensualist, with a calm, loving, and lovabledemeanor.

I greatly value EmotionalIntelligencein my friendships, and am seeking similar qualities in my partner.

I love humor, and find this quality very attractive in a lady. :-)
I believe it is one of the beautiful things that keeps us young.

I ultimately seek SoulmateLove...My Twin Flame.

What attracts me most to a woman? Her smile, her eyes, her warm, caring demeanor, her emotional intelligence,and her loving personality. :-)

For pets, I'm cool with a cat. But I am very partial to dwarf rabbits. :-) I had a small black dwarf rabbit named Licorice, and would love to have another at some point.

One thing I do need to mention up front, is that I was diagnosed with MS in 2011. I look at it though as a huge blessing, as I have met some wonderful friends because of it, and have learned so much in the last three years about nutrition and holistichealth.

I've also developed a great daily exercise and stretching routine. I do intend to get beyond the MS in time, through nutrition and detox, and am balancing this with conventional medicine. But for now, I'm happy to have learned to manage it.

Two of my best friends have told me that sensitive, caring, honest men like myself are very rare. So some potential matches may look at my profile, and immediately think I must be too good to be true. My reaction is, take a chance, and get to know me. You may end up being pleasantly surprised. :-)

Oh, and I am the type of man who truly believes that real women have curves. If you can be described as curvalicious, you have found a man who will truly appreciate your feminine beauty.

Finally, I am very passionate about classic and modernclassicautomobiles. Something about being behind the wheel of a finely crafted automobile feels very special to me. I have a special place in my heart, for a lady who shares this passion for driving, and the beauty of a classic car.

"How foolish it is to think that we love only with our hearts. When I love, I don't want to love with a blood-pumping machine. I want to love with every inch of my body. I will love you with my knees and fingertips, with my elbows and collarbones, with my freckles and my dimples, my wrinkles and my scars. And I will love you with all the spaces between".
What I’m doing with my life
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Living everyday to the fullest.

Thinking way outside the box.

Keeping my stress levels as low as possible, as it greatly affects my physical health, being an Empath with MS.

Also, I received my license in Massage Therapy in 2010, and my
Master-Instructor Certification in Integrated Energy Therapy (IET) in 2012.

I'm finally getting ready to start a successful Massage Therapy/Holistic Healing Practice with a wonderful group of friends.

We also realize times are tough financially, so one of my best friends and I also run his House Cleaning business together, since there is more demand for cleaning, than there is for massage.

I believe everything happens for a reason. I am very passionate about Integrated Energy Therapy (IET), and holistic health in general. And having MS has only made me more passionate about it.

I like to think of it (IET) as a "supercharged" version of Reiki. It's just as gentle as Reiki, but much more effective at releasing our deeper emotional blocks. It can also be combined with Reiki techniques. I love being an energy healer. :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hugging and kissing, sharing affection
Sharing comfort/closeness with another human being
Giving a relaxing, therapeutic or Sensuous/Tantric Massage
Giving an energy healing
Holding a meaningful conversation
Music trivia
Word Play (I love playing with our English language in everyday conversation)
Fixing/Maintaining Computers and Automobiles
The first things people usually notice about me
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My big brown eyes, my warm smile, my calm, caring and loving demeanor. :-)

Also, that I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite type of storytelling, is a genre I have termed a Spiritual, Sci-Fi Love Story...some of the following favorites fit this description, while others are close...I have a great respect for storytelling with a heartfelt message which shows emotional intelligence.

TV: Babylon 5, Roswell, Ghost Whisperer, Big Bang Theory, Heroes, Witches of East End, Top Gear (British & US), Quantum Leap, Outlander, Dr. Quinn Medicine Woman, The Client List, Journeyman, Family Ties, That 70s Show, Knight Rider, British comedies (Blackadder, The Thin Blue Line, The Vicar of Dibley, & Rowan Atkinson), & The Animaniacs. :-)

Movies: The Legend of Bagger Vance, SeaBiscuit,
Field of Dreams, Bicentennial Man, Don Juan DeMarco,
The Adjustment Bureau, House of D,
The Princess Bride, What's Up Doc?
The Letter Writer, The Notebook, It's a Wonderful Life,
Contact, K-PAX, Pleasantville...and way too many more to list. :-)

I have a great and ever-growing respect for Dr. Wayne Dyer. I recently finished reading his autobiography, "I Can See Clearly Now", and I'm in awe of this great man. He has actually become one of my heroes.

As you can probably already tell, I love books on the metaphysical...The Power of Now, Conversations with God , The Celestine Prophecy, Kryon's The Journey Home...are just the start. I am ever evolving, which feels beautiful.

I also enjoy listening to Hay House Radio/World Summit and BBC Radio 2 on my tablet, as well as Pandora. I also love the philosophies of Rumi.

I live very close to Hyde Park, NY, and have SO much respect and admiration for Franklin & Eleanor Roosevelt. They are two more of my heroes.

Music and heartfelt lyrics are a HUGE part of my life. It doesn't matter which decade it's from. Music soothes my soul, calms my mind, and makes me dance inside. I even find some music to be euphoric and even orgasmic in its beauty.

One of my favorite things to do, with someone I care for, is to just sit around, talking about our favorite singers, movies, and TV...and watching them on YouTube together.

A Few Favorite artists:

LoreenaMcKennitt, Enya, Heart, P.M. Dawn, Pink Floyd, The Carpenters, The Pet Shop Boys, Tom Petty, Roxette, Def Leppard, Van Halen, Metallica, Tangerine Dream, Meat Loaf,Classic Rock, 50's & 60's Rock & Roll, 70's love songs, 80's, 90's, and SO much more, I could fill a book! :-)

And a few favorite songs:

Then You Look at Me by Celine Dion (from the movie Bicentennial Man)
How Could Anyone? by Shauna Noll
When You Say Nothing at All by Alison Krauss
I'll Be There For You by The Undeserving
The Parting Glass, a traditional Irish song, which has been performed by almost seven different artists. The amazing thing, is that every single version is beautiful in its own way.
You Can Do Magic by America
I Shall Believe by Sheryl Crow (from the Roswell soundtrack)
Meat Loaf's 90s trilogy from Bat Out of Hell II
Love Never Dies by Belinda Carlisle
It's All About Soul by Billy Joel
Hero by Enrique Iglesias
As I Lay Me Down by Sophie B. Hawkins,
Winner or Miracles by The Pet Shop Boys,
Hands by Jewel
From a Distance by Bette Midler
Any song by Roxette
Ordinary Miracle by Sarah Mclachlan,
Tonight by Def Leppard
I Love Rock n' Roll by Joan Jett
And once again, way too many more to list.. :-)

Foodwise: I love Italian, Chinese, Middle Eastern, Indian, and Thai food. I also like to cook, and have quite a repertoire...and I love garlic.
I also make two gallons of greensmoothies every week...
and lately I've been loving, believe it or not, Beef Ravioli with white clam budget version of surf n' turf...home cooking, like Meatloaf, & Italian Style Chili.
Oh, and I LOVE Phish Food ice cream, which I enjoy sparingly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love/Comforting Hugs/TheSkin to skinTouch/Cuddlegasms :-)
Good Friends to listen and reflect with
My FAITH and TRUST in the Universe
Exercise and Yoga/Fresh air in my lungs
Positive Affirmations/Mantras
Chocolate, in all its many forms...

Just want to add...two things I can live without, but prefer not to...
A fun car to drive and my Google Nexus tablet...electricity is pretty darn good too. :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The beautiful woman I will share my life with...
What it feels like to be with her..the sound of her voice...the touch of her skin...the look in her eyes...the smell of her perfume..,sigh...
What can I say, I'm a romantic... :-)

Astrology & Astronomy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing and taking it easy,

Watching a movie...or classic TV on my tablet.

Spending time with friends.

Saging my apartment for good energy flow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a very lovingly naughty side to my personality...and enjoy GIVING pleasure as much as receiving it.

I have a very unique FetLife profile, (under the name Senstiv2HerNeeds)...most notably because my "fetishes" are all of the romantic, sensuously Erotic variety.

If I had a bumper sticker on my car, it would read, "My Karma Ran Over My Dogma". Kinda the story of my spiritualevolution. It's been quite an incredible journey. :-)

One thing I must mention about myself. I am very much a suburban type of man. I am not comfortable in the majority of cities, big or small. Being an Empath, it's just too much chaotic energy for me. There are a few exceptions, where the energy is just better...San Francisco, Old Montreal, for example. White Plains is okay. But if you're someone who just loves New York City, and can't get enough of it, we probably won't get along. I have not been there since 2011, and have no reason to visit there again anytime soon. I don't even enjoy going into the city of Poughkeepsie, if I don't have to, and that's right around the corner from me. Give me a calm, quiet town, that's where I belong. :-)
You should message me if
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You are a deeply spiritual
compassionate, glass half full,
affectionate, empathic &
sensuously erotic woman,
with a playful, passionate, loving, girl next door aura about you...You love gentle men, but also enjoy the soft touch of a woman.

Nurturing, and lovingly naughty, petitewith real curves. :-).

emotionally intelligent

Studied in, and utilize the law of attraction in your daily life.

I believe in caring for your partner properly... putting them above all else, loving unconditionally and fiercely. You have to love someone as a package deal... not just the good/fun parts, it's a person as a package that makes them WHO they are.

If you can't/won't make your partner your priority, I am NOT the one for you. But if you believe in this as I do, I'd love to hear from you. :-). And one thing you can count on, is that you will be a priority to me.