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SummerWild

34 / F / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:50pm
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a survivor in more ways than one so I have no doubt about coming out alive in this ocean (hopefully with my match). Adventurous and open-minded so I look forward to going ziplining and taking flamenco/tango lessons in Madrid. I tend to like dresses and skirts more than pants, which is not to say I don't love my jeans! Girly girl yes, but with a lil' bit of an edge.

NYC’s not the easiest place to find your match, but the best things in life rarely are, so there's no giving up. I have a big, wonderful, family and awesome friends. When it all gets too much, they’re able to lift me up (or bring me back down), depending on the situation at hand. I’m known as the Queen of Optimism because I always look at the glass half full, which is not to say I’m not realistic. My buddies tend to think my optimism annoying at times, but I believe it’s a good trait to have. And deep down, I know they do too.

Cooking, and eating, is a fav of mine but it's always more fun to cook for/with someone else. Then again, so much is better with someone else - long talks, long walks, lengthy kisses... you see my point here. Passionate about very many things including writing, animals and dancing.

My match would be a guy who knows the importance of, and values communication, as well as sees the joy in having a sense of humor cuz' I laugh, a lot.:) A "closet" Indiana Jones perhaps as I need a travel buddy too. Particularly not one of the female variety (heaven knows I have enough of those). Just hoping to find that guy who's looking for that girl to have new adventures with (and hey, maybe fall in love along the way).Someone passionate, confident, and with a kind spirit. Who feels that being single is not a bad thing, but being in a relationship is better somehow... Make sense?

I've learnt from experience that love breaks all the rules and doesn't always "look good on paper" so I always try to keep an open mind. Hey, your terrible, hyena-sounding, ear drum breaking, singing in the shower might just be the glue. Relationships definitely aren’t all fun and games, but I can guarantee that we’re going to laugh a lot more than everybody else.:)
What I’m doing with my life
Living, Loving, Laughing...and enjoying it. One day at a time.
I’m really good at
Dancing
Writing
Baking a mean Mac n' Cheese pie
Staying positive
Being silly/playful
Cheering up my friends
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile, eyes, slight twinge of my Caribbean accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Anything by James Patterson, select non-fiction and more.
Movies/Shows - I'm a lover of many. Big fan of No Reservation, Chopped
Music - Alt, Rock, soft rock, jazz, swing, reggae, soca, r&b, dancehall etc. - I'm pretty eclectic in this regard.
Food - Italian, Caribbean, Thai. I just love good food.
The six things I could never do without
Good wine
Family
God
Music
Love
Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My crazy, amazing, unpredictable, supercharged, rollercoaster, but beautiful...Life. And you. Whoever "you" will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Engrossed in a good book (con vino)
Dining/hanging out with friends
Movies at home
Jamming to loud music
Spontaneous
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Country music is a guilty pleasure. Well, some of it anyway.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You think we're compatible and are looking to meet a fun, open-minded, passionate woman. Oh, and you're interested in something that could possibly, quite possibly, be great.