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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:34pm
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Seeing as everyone says the same wonderful things about themselves, perhaps you'd rather hear about what's wrong with me: I am distractible, stubborn, and restless, I tend to swear too much, especially after a few drinks, and my content-filter has largely been disabled by my job. I put the "J" in "ENTJ". I hate the feeling of failure, which feeds my pathological desire to be an expert at everything, and my even more pathological belief that if I need something done right, I'll do it myself. My taste in movies could not be less feminine. I often procrastinate even the act of going to bed.

I am sorry I don't have a picture of me posing in front of ancient ruins or on top of a mountain, and hope this does not disappoint you. I've been traveling a lot the past couple of years, mainly in hopes of improving my online dating photos (obviously), but still no ruins or mountains. You'll also notice that I attended a taping of Top Chef, and stood behind Gail.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard then taking very long vacations. I'm a bleeding heart and my job reflects that. It's a very hard job sometimes. I feel called to do it, though, and I usually love it, so I might be stuck. That said I expend nearly as much energy remodeling my house as I do at any other human endeavor.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes, height
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm late to every party, TV wise. I just finished season 4 of The Wire.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Recently? How to turn my screened-in porch into a totally sweet sunroom/bar. I want a pair of dope-ass recliners in there. And some stools (for the bar), and a beer/wine fridge, and a little TV on the wall across from the bar top to watch old movies with the sound off while drinking martinis. Oh, and I also want tasteful lighting, and framed pictures of old cars from the 70s on the walls. There's a reason for this (the car pics), which I can explain later.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing and rewriting my online dating profile.
You should message me if
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...I write you, you read my profile, you like it, think we might get along and think I might be somewhat handsome in person.

Every time I see a "checklist" of attributes on this site I roll my eyes a little. I don't care much about what music you like, your food preferences or whether you've been to Europe or not. What I care about is whether you're kind and whether you treat people with respect. I also care about whether you're self-aware and are able to be vulnerable with those close to you. Those are qualities that I find very attractive. Of course it usually works better if you're smart and appreciate a dry wit (and love dogs), but the basics are far more important to me.

Talk to you soon.