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32 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:41pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
A little extra
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm youngest of 5, but don't consider myself to be the typical "youngest" child. I don't like attention brought to me. If I were to ever work "for Hollywood" I'd rather be behind the camera than in front of it.

My dad was in the military, but I'm far from a "military brat." I have my own thoughts/philosophies on the military that may surprise you. Ask and ye shall find out.

I can talk and talk, but can also be quiet at times. I'm more shy than outgoing, but once you get to know me, you can really get to know the real me.

Whatever you'd like to know, just ask! :) I'm an open book and am far more curious to get to know people than I am about judging anyone's particular situation or beliefs. Get to know me, you won't regret it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Good question, still trying to figure that out myself. I have a BS in Economics from PSU, been in banking/finance for almost a decade, currently in tech support for an accounting software firm and trying to figure out if I want to advance in the company or try to actually become a full blown economist (good luck in this economy, huh?). My ultimate goal is to find a career that I love so much it doesn't feel like work and is fulfilling so I can work 40 - 50 hours, feel like I've made a difference in the world, and yet feel justified in going home and just relaxing :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Making people feel comfortable enough to open up to me
* Over analyzing everything
* Computers and technology - no surprise I work in tech support huh?
* Taking care of those I care about
* Making people laugh. Usually on purpose; sometimes not.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very goofy. Physically, though I guess they'd notice my smile. I've been told I have nice eyes too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These are just favorites/what pops in my head. Far from a thorough list :)

I love non-fiction and books that improve the kind of person I am. My favorite book is "Confessions of an Economic Hitman" by John Perkins. Must read if you ask me. "Freakonomics" and "Superfreakonomics" are close behind and "Money for Nothing" by Edward Ugel is also a great book; one that I had difficulty putting down.

I primarily watch comedies and documentaries. I've seen quite a few documentaries and have quite a few left on my Netflix queue. I also enjoy horror movies (the Saw series being my favorite); not really into slasher flicks. My two favorite movies are "Shawshank Redemption" and "Memento."

"Breaking Bad" and "Weeds" have recently become two of my favorite shows. No, I'm not a drug addict. Too cheap to even get addicted to alcohol even haha. They are just well written shows.

"It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia" is one of those sitcoms I could watch over and over and laugh til it hurts. I also love "King of Queens" (oldie but still great) - if you also like KoQ message me now :D Finally, ya got "The Big Bang Theory." For those of us nerds who like to laugh at some of the nerdiest jokes ever told on television. :)

Pearl Jam is by far the greatest band ever; the greatest song of all time is "Yellow Ledbetter." You know, just in case you wondered :)
Norah Jones - Jazz and Blues have never sounded so amazing. Norah has the voice of a goddess.
Eminem - Who doesn't love a white rapper? Even more so than Vanilla Ice...
There are a ton of others. I love music from all genres except country. Not a huge fan of country...

Italian - I can eat pretty much anything in this group. Just delicious.
Mexican - As Jim Gaffigan clearly and correctly points out, it's all the same: "tortilla, cheese, meat and vegetables." But it is all delicious :D
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assuming the basics are covered, I'd have to go first with family/friends, then my cellphone and laptop. The internet is up there (what good are the cellphone and laptop without it? lol). And I guess the last thing would be, a sense of purpose :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* What to do with the rest of my life
* Making sure people I know are happy
* Wondering what it would be like to have a time machine, and how far back I would go...
* What kind of home based business I could create
* If fate really exists...if I'm supposed to just let things happen or work harder
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing any number of things. Sometimes I go out, sometimes I stay in and relax. Just depends on my schedule and mood...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am one of those who will become your best friend and be there for you when you call with a problem at 2am. Don't ever say "sorry for calling so late" - if you need to talk, call me. No need to apologize. I put my friends'/family's happiness above my own often and thrive on making others smile and laugh.
You should message me if
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* You want to know what my "Other" diet refers to...
* You love to talk
* You love to listen
* You love deep conversations about pretty much anything. My personal favorites happen to be talking about life, love, what makes you happy, what to do with your life, politics, finance, religion, philosophy
* You consider yourself an easy going girl, not very high maintenance, and at least a little independent/self sufficient
* You like my profile and/or just want to get to know me more
* You think I seem cool and would just like to chat, see if we click as friends and we can go from there...
* You're horribly bored by my profile and think I should rewrite it. Hey I'm up for constructive criticism :)