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30 • Bloomington, IN • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–37
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
- Last online
- Sep 9, 2014
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Buddhism, but not too serious about it
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)
I think bad grammar is a turnoff.
I don't take like too seriously. I'm often a bit silly and being overly cynical all the time isn't me at all.
I'm allergic to wheat, seafood, potatoes and a number of other things, so I'm exploring the options left to me. I'm moving towards having a Paleo diet, which is quite a new experience.
I have ADHD so, I do better with bulleted lists than long paragraphs.
I recently read Brené Brown's book "Daring Greatly" after watching her TED talk, and I'm actively trying to live wholeheartedly, which is a lot more difficult than it sounds. Ask me if you want to know ore about it. (Or watch her TED talk here: http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html)
About a week before my most recent birthday I had a conversation with a friend, and during the course of it she asked "How have you never seen that?" (referring to the movie Field of Dreams). Well, I've been asked that question so many times in my adult life that I decided to do something about. On my birthday, I decided to make a life initiative to watch a new movie every week. So far, I've been fulfilling this, and have been so grateful for my expanding horizons. I've attempted to rotate between new movies (in theatres), classic movies, and then just random movies that my friends have recommended. This has lead me to watch some incredible, and also some pretty awful, films, but it's definitely been a worthwhile endeavor and one I would not have done if I hadn't made specific intentions to do it.
*** As an addendum to this, I did manage to watch 83 movies over the year. I think since I had such great success with the life initiative that I will keep it going.
I also really like getting organized. IKEA, The Container Store most office supply stores are better than candy stores for me. Often, I will spend a day helping my friends clean/organize rooms in their houses.
I'm also a really good listener. I really like being there for the people I'm close to.
Game of Thrones
The Big Bang Theory
How I Met Your Mother
Once Upon a Time
The Night Circus
The Great Gatsby
The Picture of Dorian Gray
Eat, Pray, Love
Murder on the Orient Express
(You can check out all of my books at: http://www.goodreads.com/smweathers)
Gone With the Wind
The Philadelphia Story
As Good As It Gets
My Fair Lady
The Devil Wears Prada
Notorious (The Hitchcock version)
Pumpkin Spice Lattes
My "To Do" Lists
My Puma collection (It has been quite the investment)
Getting through my To Do list
* You've smiled while reading this profile
* Your vernacular greetings don't consist of "sup" and "yo" and you are adept at using good grammar
* You strive to be a successful in life (however you define that)
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