Intimacy/connecting with the person I love, adventure that is cultural or social, spending time with my family/nieces/nephews, accomplishing my goals, preparing/eating/drinking good food/wine with people I care about, and convening with nature.
My Myers-Brigg personality type is INTJ. Here is a relevant paragraph from the INTJ Wikipedia article:
In forming relationships, INTJs tend to seek out others with similar character traits and ideologies. Agreement on theoretical concepts is an important aspect of their relationships. By nature INTJs can be demanding in their expectations, and approach relationships in a rational manner. As a result, INTJs may not always respond to a spontaneous infatuation but wait for a mate who better fits their set criteria. They tend to be stable, reliable, and dedicated. Harmony in relationships and home life tends to be extremely important to them. They generally withhold strong emotion and do not like to waste time with what they consider irrational social rituals. This may cause non-INTJs to perceive them as distant and reserved; nevertheless, INTJs are usually very loyal partners who are prepared to commit substantial energy and time into a relationship to make it work.