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57 Playa del Rey, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 25
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Entertainment / Media
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hungarian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The first thing you should know about me is that I love my friends. I am the luckiest man in the world to have so many wonderful and amazing friends. A brother and sisterhood stretching back across a wonderful landscape of love, joy, hardship and adventure, some more than 40 years (am I really that old)? My friends have enriched my life beyond measure and I am both flattered and humbled to have their love...

...and their trust. My friends have said they trust me with their lives. Except, of course, when I’m doing the driving.

I also have a wicked sense of humor and with friends (and passengers) like mine, I have to.

I love my life, the good parts as well as the bad. Both have given me the opportunity to experience wisdom, patience, love, and gratitude, while continuing the practice of detachment and living in the now.

As for romantic relationships, I have had two important loves in my life. Both taken from me, you might say, by disease. The love that I have experienced with them would fill a thousand lifetimes. The strength and wisdom I have gained from loving both of these women and learning to love them through their diseases and their loss have made me the man I am today.

I am compassionate and courageous and loyal to a fault. I don’t run away or bail out when the weather gets rough and I never, ever get sick at sea.
Traveler, adventurer, seeker, provocateur, film maker, writer, hopeless romantic, devil's advocate, entrepreneur, Buddhist, know-it-all, pugilist, dog lover, seeker of truth. 
Myers-Briggs ENFP

I am not a knight in shining armor. My armor has been dented, smashed, gouged, pitted, cracked and set ablaze, and though it protected me when I needed it most, it proved to be too heavy and stifling, and kept me from being truly free. I no longer wear my armor, but in spite of that, I'm still a knight.

I dream of finding a woman I can love with passion and compassion, grace and strength. Someone I can discover, who will discover me. To let go and feel free to love and be loved, completely, totally and without fear. . . every moment a memory that will last beyond time. Were I to spend millennia looking for it, only to taste it for a brief moment, it would all be worth it.

My favorite joke is:
If it wasn't for the Venetians, it would be curtains for all of us.

I also think that putting bras on cows is udder nonsense.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm taking steps to work toward my next career, which I will begin when I retire in 8 years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh.
Being a true and faithful friend.
Cooking (I make amazing fruit-filled crepes).
Catching grapes dropped from as high as 50 feet with my mouth.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and that I'm usually having a bad hair day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books for me are like children. If I had children it would be hard for me to pick my favorite ones. Too many to count! I can tell you what I've read, read recently or what I'm currently reading.
Influence by Robert Cialdini
The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion
The 33 Strategies of War by Robert Greene
The Red Queen by Matt Ridley
A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine
Illusions by Richard Bach
Letters to Sartre by Simone de Beauvoir
Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury
The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell
Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav

I feel the same way about films as I do books. It was my love of films that lead me to Hollywood to work in film and television.
These are some of my favorites.
Meet Joe Black
Doctor Zhivago
American Graffiti
The Birds
What Dreams May Come
Once Upon a Time in the West
Breakfast Club
Fight Club

I love music and with over 11,000 songs on my iTunes, I have a pretty eclectic collection. The last ten songs I listened to on my iPhone were:
Love and Feeling by Chet Faker
Werewolves of London by Masha
Rumble and Sway by Jamie N Commons
Paradise by Coldplay
Hey Joe by Charlotte Gainsbourg
I'm Going Home by Hootie & The Blowfish
After the Lights Go Out by The Walker Brothers
Sweater Weather by The Neighborhood
Catch Your Own Train by The Silver Seas
Slowly by Max Sedgley
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My faith in the Universe
My friends and family
Green tea
Tooth brush and floss
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Why, oh why, didn't I take the blue pill?" ~ The Matrix
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dining with friends, working, or at home reading or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was raised by wolves.
You should message me if
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You are looking for the last love of your life.
You think we may have a connection and you'd like to explore further.
You're currently available and are sure you want a long term, committed relationship.
You're willing to take the time to become thoroughly acquainted with my character and are willing to allow me to become acquainted with yours.
The journey for you is more important than the destination.
You have a great sense of humor.
You love adventure and are passionate about life.
You desire mutual attachment of mind and heart.
You are courageous enough to love and be loved.
You are willing to put in the time to build a spiritual partnership.
You are compassionate, vivacious, strong and intelligent.
You are independent, but you're also willing to work together.

You truly understand that the relationship you're looking for can't be found, but has to be made.

Bonus Points:
You've been involved in a relationship that's lasted longer than 3 years.
Extra Bonus Points:
You've been involved in a relationship that's lasted longer than 10 years.