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53 Stillwater, MN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 42–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:44am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Not at all
Buddhism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kids and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I love to dance, shoot photos, do Yoga, do target archery, play frisbee, Alpine skiing, traveling, biking, and stretching, as well as having deep conversations. I like art, and all things cultural. Music is hugely important to me. I used to play classical guitar and now I enjoy hand drumming.

I enjoy cooking and creating a beautiful space in which to live and work. I am a professional man, run my own business and enjoy deep friendships with men and women. I like to bring out the best in others - as well as in myself. I admire personal authenticity within myself and in those with whom I relate. I want my friends to do the same with me. I am actually a very romantic person and look forward to more of that in my world.

I am most unique in that I am a fringe folk with out-of-the-box-thinking. I am more confident than most men, and have a deep abiding sense of the feminine and masculine within myself and in all of life. I love good ritual and ceremony that celebrate connections to Spirit. I live a form of balance with the mind-body-spirit and emotions. Healthy relationships are of supreme value to me. I find them rare and beautiful.

I envision partnership and relationship with someone who is wise, compassionate, creative and enjoys life. I ant to be with someone who appreciates good poetry, is well traveled and has traveled in the dark side of her own psyche. Do you love yourself, and are not afraid to take risks to embrace the joy and depth of life itself in all its terrifyingly audacious splendors.

I can see a respite with some tea, or a walk and a meal in some quaint location where we can actually hear each other speaking. It would be nice to have enough time to get past the awkward introductions and basics. Maybe take in some music and a shared snack later before parting. Who needs pressure or stress?! Let's make it easy and fluid. Speak one's truth, own one's truth, and celebrate the truth. If it feels good to meet up again, cool, if no more meeting feels right, cool. Detached engagement and full presence with appreciation.

Love to go to movies and explore the meaning in them. Stage and music concerts are awesome too.
What I’m doing with my life
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Livin it! Full time private practice, raising two amazing boys - ages 10 and 13. Lots of hobbies. I am in a men's group that nourishes and grows the soul. I am working to be more of a photo pro and to memorize good poems.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, giving sage advise and holding space for people to grow.
I think I am a good dancer too. I am very good at target archery, and I can cook chicken with excellence. I connect people with people well, and I am excellent at speaking other languages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I can be assertive, socially engaging and bold. I am not usually shy, and I am open-minded. I say things that I feel need to be spoken and I am not afraid to take risks in meeting others. I am soft spoken a great amount of the time when others tend to talk talk and talk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Thai and Indian food. Love Mexican food too. I don't have super picky tastes, a bit of flavor with an Ethnic edge and I am happy. Love Bonnie Raitt, good guitarists, hand drumming, and music onstage. Love movies like "Thrive." "What the Bleep Do We Know?" "I AM." "Dances With Wolves." and especially "AVATAR." Books I like are usually deep, soulful and educational vs stories.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My faith, my kids, my friends, my life, health, and the opportunity to be of service.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to crystalize my giftedness so as to assist others with theirs. Also, how to improve this world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home cooking, playing with my two sons.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I feel I am not from this planet.
You should message me if
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You are inspired by what I write, or if you are curious or engaged in the things that I am into - and want to share them. Also, if you are longing for connection with someone who is deep, passionate, creative and willing to face demons and go to scary places in order to stand on the mountain top together.