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28 • Brooklyn, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–30
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 4:15am
- Straight, Queer, Heteroflexible, Pansexual
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from law school
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
I'm on CouchSurfing (which kind of got ruined in the past couple years) and compulsively check into foursquare (well, used to, that also got ruined in the last couple years). I'm dilettantish in pursuing most of my interests, which are numerous. I'm a complete hypocrite, but I feel bad about it. I actually did go to Space Camp and even there I was one of the weird/ostracized kids.
"Arma-se em carapau de corrida."
I used to have an HO scale train layout. And I want to have one again.
Also, I'm probably going to be in Albany every now and then for work and it would be cool to know some people there.
Also I'm from California and go back now and then.
And I'd kind of like to move back to the west coast sometime in the future, especially San Francisco, Seattle, or Portland.
Also, just finished law school and got me a public interest fellowship. I specialize in bird law.
Also, trying to learn about bikes, cities and urban planning, trains, activism/advocacy, gardens, people, ceramics, whiskey, music. I really want to start playing music with people again (singing & guitar, bass, or moog). Also, I guess I should note somewhere that I occasionally run distance (prefer 10k) when I'm not too lazy.
Movies: The Third Man; Barry Lyndon (& other Stanley Kubrik); The Empire Strikes Back; Monty Python's the Meaning of Life; Ghostbusters; The Big Lebowski (& other Coen Bros.); History of the World: Part I (& other Mel Brooks); Evil Dead 2; One, Two, Three (& other Billy Wilder); Jackie Brown (& other Tarrantino); M (& other Fritz Lang); Beetlejuice (& other Tim Burton); The Dark Crystal; Deconstructing Harry (& other Woody Allen); Auch Zwerge haben klein angefangen (& other Herzog); The King of Kong: A Fistful of Quarters; Goodbye Lenin!
TV Shows: Simpsons (until about 1999); Seinfeld; Ren & Stimpy; Firefly; Arrested Development; Monty Python's Flying Circus; Black Adder; Battlestar Galactica (new one); The Muppet Show; Futurama; Dexter; Star Trek (TOS, TNG, DS9, and a little bit of VOY); Rome; 30 Rock; Twin Peaks; Misfits; Avatar: The Last Airbender; Mad Men; Breaking Bad; Boardwalk Empire; Doctor Who; It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Community.
Music (by album): OK Computer (& other Radiohead); Pinkerton (& other 1990s Weezer); Speaking in Tongues (& other Talking Heads); Abbey Road (& other Beatles); Trompe Le Monde (& other Pixies); Keep it Like a Secret (& other Built to Spill); Time Out (& other Dave Brubeck); I'm Wide Awake, It's Morning (& other Bright Eyes/Conor Oberst); Pet Sounds; Hunky Dory (& other Bowie); Figure 8 (& other Elliott Smith); various Glen Miller; Sumday (& other Grandaddy); Lola vs. Powerman (& other Kinks); The Moon and Antarctica (& other Modest Mouse), Satanic Panic in the Attic (& other of Montreal); Purple Rain (& other Prince); Meat is Murder (& other Smiths); some hyphy; some John Williams; Schubert (but maybe that goes without saying); chiptunes.
Food: Indian; Café fare; Portuguese; Moroccan; Austrian; California-Mexican; Chicken & Waffles; Ethiopian; Burgers; Pizza. I usually eat vegetarian at home, meat out.
Though unprompted, I'll throw in a few video games for good measure: Elder Scrolls V - Skyrim; III - Morrowind; BioShock (1 and Infinite); Portal; Legend of Zelda (especially LttP and OoT); Day of the Tentacle; Myth II: Soulblighter; GoldenEye; Worms Armageddon; Portal; Earthbound; Super Mario RPG; StarTropics; Mario Kart (all of them); Mass Effect; Assassin's Creed (I love me some historical environments).
Why are my plants dying?
Are archaeopteryx fossils still cool now that they've found feathered raptor fossils?
Where can I get the music they play at Mamoun's Falafel?
and reddit, along with its impact on how effectively my time is spent
To be honest, I don't really go out much when I don't have something specific and exciting to go to.
I think that Yakety Sax (the Benny Hill theme) and fast motion can make everything funny.
(a) video games on SNES, NES, Genesis, xbox 360, Wii, or any other platform (seriously, I want more friends with whom I can play or talk about games, whether amorous or platonic, so let me know you're into that and you're at the top of the list);
(b) board games like CharDee MacDennis, Tongo, Settlers of Catan, Cranium, Munchkin, Nuclear War, Dominion, Fluxx, Risk;
(c) karaoke and soju;
(d) ska shows (a la high school, and you'd best be skanking);
(e) bike rides;
(f) fado (preferably live)(music at 1:02);
(h) a pilgrimage to a Frank Lloyd Wright building, or
(i) finding kitsch things, like the things in this map I made for Los Angeles
(2) You are learning or already speak (European) Portuguese or German.
(3) You can play Smiths songs on bass
(4) You're a ginger. Not that you shouldn't if you aren't, but red/orange hair is just cool. It's almost as cool as short haircuts.
(5) You can help me get 1990s computer games to play again/emulate.
(6) You're into kink/bdsm and/or think of yourself as at least somewhat queer.* It's by no means required that you fit these criteria, but find me on FetLife if you do the former.
*Which I relate with, but in my case in more of a not feeling like gender is part of my identity and having a pan-leaning range of sexual attraction and interest in alternative sexual activities kind of way, rather than identifying as a particular other option, so I feel slightly presumptuous using the term myself.
Really though, sex preferences, polyamory, and a lot of other things are all secondary to just finding someone I like, with whom I can watch shows, talk about games, and cuddle. Everything after that is relatively less important.
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