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Bugenhagen Away

31 / M / Straight / Single

Austin, Texas

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I think it's unfair that so many women associate "bulky" with undesirable or masculine. I don't say this just because of my preference for bulky, thickly muscular women (very hard to find, especially proud ones) but also because women will never get this whole sisterhood, feminism, and glass ceiling shattering down until they can put performance over aesthetic.

Everyone prefers a competent, capable boss over a simply pretty one. Focusing on what you can do and why you enjoy it takes people much further than focusing on who you're attractive to how to grow the percentage of people that will be into you. After all, most of you only want one person when it's all said and done. Why conform to standard if you want someone looking for the special snowflake you are.

I am stop... hammer... and time...
What I’m doing with my life
Screenwriting... It's what I want to do.
Rock Star is what i flirt with on the side now that I'm old.

If you like these genre's then you might like my old band Rival City. Hip Hop, Rock, Latin Music, Ska, Reggae, Dance Hall, and polka music... Well... maybe not.

Outside of that I work a day job and chase unique women around my city. A conventional relationship is such an unattractive prospect.
I’m really good at
Being me, listing to people, giving advice, playing video games, touching to give pleasure, raising confidence, talking my way out of bad situations, having fun, appreciating what I've got.

Nah... Forget that other stuff. I'm good at Singing, rapping, rocking stages, dancing, goofing off, losing jobs, finding new ones, hating new ones, staying unattached.
The first things people usually notice about me
Me? My shoulders. They're kinda broad.

And I have huge lips.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Pulp Fiction, Harlem Nights, Face Off and His Girl Friday, Kill Bill, Iron Man, Spider-man. I'm sort of a superhero movie aficionado.

I love N*E*R*D] (my favorite band EVER, Jay-Z Kanye West, MGMT, Sia, Zero 7...

I dig on barbeque, fish fry's, salmon, Pancakes... I love pancakes... Oh lord do I love pancakes. Breakfast food at any time of day. I'm all about that.
The six things I could never do without
stories, pastries, muscular women, music, charisma, the planet Earth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Becoming a rockstar or a superhero... I wrote this like 3 years ago, but I'm gonna keep it... It's still true.
On a typical Friday night I am
Now that I'm on the west coast, i gotta put some new music together. Hit me if youre interested or know someone thst needs a vocalist

Playing a show on 6th. It's like having a 2nd job. Really gotta dig my band though

www.myspace.com/bennyversusthebeast
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm more into a woman's muscles than her breasts, and they bigger they are the happier I am. Thats not that private though.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You're down to earth, have a sense of humor, or just love being alive. If you just know how to kick ass and are not afraid to do it. I love when girls embrace the more intimidating sides of their being.

Also, if you're the type to never worry about being too good or taking things too far in your career or with your goals. A lot of girls trip themselves up because they worry about whether boys will still like them if they're too smart, funny, rich, strong, professional, tall, etc... Not me. I welcome it.

I'm happy just talking and learning about new people. If we hit it off then great, but it never hurts to swap a story or two and build your legacy.