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31 Fresno, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:37am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'll give anything a shot at least once. I actually attempted to go skydiving a couple months ago in Oahu! Sadly the weather rolled in and we had to roll out. But one day I will definitely jump over 10,000 feet to the ground!

Other things you should know: I'm a goofball, I love to make people laugh, I love to motivate, and I really love pizza! I'm a kid at heart and always will be. I keep very few, very close friends whom I cherish immensely.

I'm also pretty straight-forward, casual, empathetic, and quirky. I recently picked up digital photography as a hobby and I like to hike. I like the ocean but I love the mountains even more.

P.S. I like to travel.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm in a transition period at the moment. Technically I've got a contract coming up with my "current" job, but I'm looking for new opportunities and very excited for the future!

I also recently got out of a relationship. It was a clean break, but I'm definitely not looking for anything too serious. I'm more interested in meeting people to hang out and go have fun adventures with!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Untangling wires.
Keeping cool under pressure.
Lending an ear.
Computer stuff.
Getting up in front of large audiences.
Making people smile.
Outdoor cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm told I have an unusual way of looking at life, the universe and pizza.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The Internet - Almost all of the collective knowledge recorded in human history at the push of a few buttons. WIN.
2. Pizza - 'nuff said.
3. My saxophones - When I say "I Love You," I'm thinking about them. It's not creepy. It's NOT.
4. Hawaiian coconut peanut butter - It's amazeballs. It's literally amazeballs.
5. Dogs - I don't have any at the moment, but I think the world would be a sadder place without those silly furballs.
6. Reddit - Me and the 'ole narwhal bacon it up like it's 1999.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music and where I plan to go with it next.
Friends who live far away and how they are doing.
How expansive the universe is, and by extension how significant that makes everything we do.
Whether Ross and Rachel are still together.
My future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No typical Friday nights for this one!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I own and continue to collect kickass stuffed animals. I currently have a CL4P-TP (Claptrap) plushie that I bring with me when I go traveling. My goal is to take random pictures of said Claptrap in different locales from around the world which generally depict his imminent demise. It will be glorious.

Bonus round: A few years ago I went through a trying ordeal with a close family member. As a result, a few months later I grew my first grey hair. That taught me the importance of keeping stress to a minimum even under the worst of circumstances. Now I'm officially in my thirties and still wear a full head of natural black hair. I guess I'm doing something right.

**Addendum to the previous statement – It is with unexpected humility that I make the following admission: I have grown my second grey hair.
You should message me if
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you enjoy life and you enjoy the people you get to have in it. If you love to laugh or find joy in silly stupid things, or if you really, really, really like to pizza, give a holler!

Also, pizza.